What are good topics to talk about with a girl you like but barely know?

I'm a girl, but my friend is having trouble talking to this girl he likes and he doesn't know how to start off a conversation with her. Please don't be like ';talk about her interests'; cuz he doesnt know any of her interests. Please help, thanksWhat are good topics to talk about with a girl you like but barely know?
i just met a girl and am in a similar spot except shes interesting but i thought about what we'd talk about if she wasnt and well....if I were him Id just talk about how he doesnt normally do this and he is a lil nervous but sound confident about saying your nervous get me? shell thinks hes open and sure about himself and not expect a lot from him but when he starts talking shell credit him a lot more. and shell feel special b/c ';he doesnt normally do this';



but does she play sports, music instruments, dancing,talk about his passions too. maybe even things like how he feels about the kid getting killed in chicago shell see him as a modest activist. I think he should talk a little about himself



when you first meet is the best time b/c if you dont like each other or she doesnt like who he really is well...they barely know each other its easy to tell her kick rocksWhat are good topics to talk about with a girl you like but barely know?
Usually, people like to talk about themselves. So, since he does not know what her interests are, he could ask her to tell him what her interests are. Rather than asking ';what are your interests?';, you could say ';think about your perfect bright sunny warm afternoon, what would you be doing that would make this a perfect day?';



hope this helps
There is no easy answer to this problem that almost everyone faces at some time or other.



Personally, my advice is to `just talk`!



Talk about anything at first, no-matter how trite or boring it sounds. If there is any spark at all between two people, it will soon lead on to a full glowing fire!



The more you get to know someone, the easier conversation gets. But at the start, you have to make an effort.
Tell him to learn an interesting fact about something new constantly and just bring them up to her. If she doesnt know it she learns something and it could spark a topic. If she does know anything about it she will give her opinion and spark interest in talking. Plus tell him to invite her out to do something active like putt putt so they are chatting while having fun.
lol well thats how it is with me, except im a girl and im trying to talk to a guy who i barely know. i like him though so i get all shy. but i know his brother. so i asked if he has a brother that goes to our school (even though i knew that already.)

so tell ur friend to ask if she has a sister or brother that goes to that school. Or maybe he can even drop his pencil *unnoticably* and be like ';hey i think u dropped ur pencil'



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Talk about movies, DVD's and tv shows that are new. Music is always a good topic. Ask if she's heard or seen a video or movie. Make sure you have some knowledge of it. It's an easy way to start a conversation, cause you can go from there..
Trust me on this .MUSIC !!!! Brings people together ...ask her if she's ever been at a concert and what was the highlights ! Does she want to see that group again or who she wants to see nexts ....does she play music or write poems or lyrics ....the questions are endless ! It is always a great start ! best of luck !!!
Get to know her - talk about her past, the places she's lived, her family. Your past, your family, etc. Then talk about the things you like, ask about the things she likes, etc.
Talk to her about her life. Ask her what she does. Ask her about her family. the best thing to do is hang out. thats where you will learn the most about a person.
Ask her how her day was

Ask her what she does in her spare time

Ask her her views on things

Ask her what music/films/sports she likes

Ask her what she wants to achieve in life



And build up from there
he should talk to her the same way he talks to you. not about anything in particular but as a natural conversation and from that he should find out her interest
you should try and talk to this girl and then find her interests and then tell him and he can talk to her, even better if u know her or become her friend.
DONT TALK ABOUT SEXUAL STUFF YOU'LL SCARE HER OFF!!!!!!!!!!!! HE SHOULD JUST BE LIKE ';YOU AND ME FRIDAY NIGHT, ITS GOING DOWN!!';
if he doesnt know her interests ASK about them. Duh.



i got a feeling tho there is no guy in this scenerio and you like girls.

just get to know her
well you ask her and the boy if you all three can hang out then say that you have to go home then leave them together
ask questions and take it from there.
idk, I just talk about random stuff