How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?

what tips can you guys or girls give me ? talk about what ?How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
People here have given some decent advice but here's the real deal. There is no shame in being shy. the shame is in not doing anything about it. u hafta attack it head on. start slowly by getting comfortable conversing with women u are attracted to. Talk about any and everything as the situation presents itself. Through this conversing you will know whether it's in your interest to take it to the next level. examples:If she is smiling and looking at u intently as u talk, asking questions she's probably interested. If she seems distant, not asking questions or responding with one or two word answers she's probably not.

Got it??How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
I've always found the following to be quite an icebreaker: ';Wow, those are huge. Are they real?';
Talk about you or her favorite things to do. and if your really feeling brave ask her what her favorite positions are and if she likes to give oral. something personal. Just be yourself and most of all have fun. OR email me.
the best thing to do is talk about something you know about....there are no set things to talk about....if she isnt interested in what you have to say you are better off without her
Get her drunk. Get yourself drunk.



I'm not kidding.
Girls always love compliments. Compliment her hair, her style of clothes, or something similar. Find out what similar interests you have with her and go with that.
go to the store or church or zoo or other public gathering place besides the bars that people gather at and look for women who seem to show the same interests as yourself them just start talking to them.

do not try to pick them up at first just get comfortable talking to them.

this will be good practice and then after a while when you feel more comfortable start asking them out.

If they say no don't even let it bother you just keep moving on till one of them says yes.

What to talk about

anything to get started.

it does not matter
well find a gurl u think is hot or that ure atracted to and walk up to her and say hi my name is xxxxxxx. then ask her some questions about her self like her favorit resturant. dont ask any personal %26lt;sexlife, pastrelationship%26gt; questions until u no she likes u. listen to her and do not enterupt when she is talking. when she finishes talking you can tell your point but stay on topic.but be honest. just be ure self but dont be rude.
be nice and sweet
u dont convience ppl to go out with u.just ask her out and if she is intrested she will say yes.and u know sometime us girls are just waiting on a guy to ask us if we like him.so maybe she is waiting for ur first move,u wont know what u worth and what ur capable of untill u give urself a chance to discover.good luck.
be yourself.
Dude, just go gay. It's probably your only hope.
I understand the cold feet and still i get them to. No one likes rejection or the fear of that first encounter but remember girls are people even the mean ones and they speak the same language we do and put on pants like we do. You might find that it doesn't have to be an event to ask a girl out. Find out what she likes to do or ask if she would like to go to something you like. Maybe ask if she would like to go to the city park and chat or swing. It does not have to be a major production just start simple. You will know long before you ask for a date. Hang out first and you might be suprised at what you find.
Listen......all you have to do is say....';hi, how are you'; Whats your name?? My name is _____ and I would like to get to know you. What do you say? Would you like to have coffee with me..........thats it, she will take it from there.....after that just listen and comment. She will do most of the talking.....good luck