I don't have problems talking to girls in general, and I don't have problems with getting girls to like me, or going out with girls, or getting laid, either. I mean I'm not like great, but it deff happens on a regular basis lol. Like i dont go more than a month or 2 without getting into another relationship, usually.
(thats just to fill you in on the background)
with that said... this girl's latina, im white. Don't ask me why i go for spanish girls sometimes, cuz people have given me sh*t before about it. Idk, i like white girls and spanish girls. Also, she doesn't ever really talk to ANYbody. Like, ill be walking with friends or sometimes alone after class, and ive noticed that she doesn't ever walk with anybody- she walks alone. She's usually looking bored or sad/frowning, and sometimes she'll sleep thru the history class i have her in. She's attractive to ME, but on the other hand nobody else really thinks she is, at least nobody flirts with her or gives her the look, that ive noticed. She dresses kind of ghetto/spanish/mexican, if that's any help as to her personality or whatever. Just tryin to give all the info.
I only have a couple more questions:
1) what's the chance that since I only see her during and right after that class (we walk the same way), that she DOES have friends, but she simply ONLY likes other hispanic people, and therefore CHOOSES to not talk to anybody else, out of racism? She does sort of appear to not like whites or blacks or ANYbody but spanish... but im not so sure.
2) not to be conceited, but im an athletic goodlooking white guy with friends and money, better than avg. popularity, although im only about 5'7 and shes like 5'3... what are my chances of getting with her?
3) when and where and how should i talk to her? what should i say as an icebreaker?
4) im myself almost always, which is im talkative sometimes and chill/quiet/tired sometimes, and i dress preppy/athletic/surfer and i always speak my mind and i sound cool but still white, as i DO go to a pretty white school... would me being white turn her off? what do i do? LollllHow to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Well sounds like me and my past crush when I was in a all white H. school too. The cute jock never came up to me cuz he didn't have the gutts! Anyhow, maybe you will :).
1. It's not that she's racist. I was like that too. Prolly cuz she's independent (like most latinas grow up to be at such a young age that we don't care what else happens around us)
2.height doesn't matter obviously since you seem to like the ';laid back chick'; part about her. As long as she's shorter then you it works. So good chance there.
3.Just make eye contact, smile, and say hello!! to her with a smirk like you jocks do lol. umm lunch is a great place to start too! so get inline behind her or something and just say some remark about lunch...like that looks yummy or something funny.
4. Just be yourself just like she is herself and try to get to know her and her culture...her language. And I donno about you but I would love for my bf to know how to dance salsa! ;)How to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Oh my fricken gosh. You are a pig. Enough said. Get a life and talk to her yourself.
wow. you seem a little full of yourself there. but just say hi if she wants to talk to you she will don't force her to.
I think xlpps said it all. thumbs up for you x
lol
gave up half way through
talk to her and go for it
lol hm dont stress so much. If you force yourself on her then she will be more hesitant, ya know? Ask her some questions about how shes feeling/weekend/hmwk. Give her compliments!~ Dont give complements like sexy or anything...just genereal things...like hair or something thats TRUE. Be a gentalman, hold open doors for her and what not...
I can understand how you get agrivated about people thinking you are full of yourself, but be easy on describing yourself. Also sometimes people just get offened easy, so be careful on your wording. Its not only how you say it, but how you it is recieved...
just approach her tell her you like her.ask her out.(i just hope you dont play her)the height doesnt matter.act as if you are interested in history and ask her history questions.tell her how attractive and beautiful she is and buy her something nice.(listen to her first,see if you can hear what she is in need of or would like.good luck.
1- try to either talk to her or ask other people about her
2- Your chances are very good...unless she is racist...which i don't think so because most of the time people just like to hang out with people like them...
3- in class maybe? when your allowed to talk. what to say is what is interesting at the time...like a project...or something
4- its great ur ur self ^-^ likye i said...people tend to hang out with groups they feel that they fit in...try to kinda be open to her i guess...she could be shy i think...
Just talk to her. get to know her and just get to be her friend first because you dont just want to get into it and than just break up after a couple of weeks so just take it slow and just talk to her like a normal person and also just be her friend because than you will start o grow to be more than just friends. So just take it slow.
Make sure she aint taken...Cause i talk wit alot of latinas Most of them will have a Boyfriend out of school...And Yes itz true most of the time they are looking for a Spanish guy, Its hard to find a Spanish and White person together these days Especially the latinas that Dress ghetto/mexican.Are looking for a Latino guy with the same style
You Do have a chance depending on her expectations...Since most of the Time Latinas will always want to speak spanish to their loved ones since thats there style of showing love.
Start out by Talking with her and Try to become close with her...And shes gonna want to give a guy like you a chance. This gonna take time since you sound like a different type from her
Im shy too! So I think I can help! : )
1. Well she is shy so she probably doesn't feel comfortable talking to people out of her race.
2. I think if you give it a shot. You could actually end up with her. Girls like a guy who is funny, smart, nice, and honest.
3. Maybe before class starts you can talk to her. On purpose ask her what the homework was last night for a different class. Or plain out say you like her.
4. Probably not, just be yourself. Tell her you like her (blank) or tell her you think she is pretty. Girls love to hear that, but only say it if you mean it. Because, girls may think your just trying to go out with them.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!! Don't freak out!!!! : )
OK --- easy easy easy.
If you're so good at talking with girls, then why are you asking for advice on what to say for an icebreaker?
You're just a funny guy aren't you.
I would just let things ride, you're probably good at that.
You should slow down with the girls too, even though that'd probably kill your ego and your sex life. Chill out. You're not going to get a good consistant girlfriend if you bounce around so much.
Playa.
Broooooo, chillax dude...
You need to just go up to her and say ';I like your (fill in the blank).'; No matter how cliche that is.
Heres something that happened to a close friend o mine: He simply went up to some rocker chick with pink hair, said Hey, I like your hair, and he asked what music she listened to, and BAM, convrsation started. Simple as bakin brownies
Talk to her like you arent in love with her lol. Just as you met your friends. You know?
And wtf bro! Who honestly gives two Sh*ts about your race these days...
And REALLY listen to what she says bro. It helps to stare into her eyes... And thats my favorite technique to continuing conversations, a little secret between you and me, and whoeva reads this.
As for what others think, Im in the same position. She is the cutest girl ive EVER seen in my eyes, and shes also a really cool one indeed. But I noticed that everyone has a set taste. If you noticed, there are many similarities between the girls you like.
With that said, GOOD LUCK. I want to know how this turns out! lol
Sunday, December 11, 2011
How do i talk to this girl?
Ok, I'm a junior and I really suck with talking to girls (I freeze up and get really tense when I start talking to a hot girl). I've only actually had one girlfriend mostly because girls never really take the time to get to know me. Well anyways there's this one girl (shes a freshman) that I've wanted to talk to for a while but I just can't bring myself to do it. I don't know when to talk to her and what exactly to say because I only see her once during the day and she's always with her friends which is during P.E. (she has team sports and I have weight training so I only really see her while we take attendance unless my class ends up in the gym like we usually do once a week). When we take attendance she's at the end of her line and I'm at the begging of mine (we have to stand on the wall) so I'm like 10 feet away from her. When we go in the gym she usually sits in the corner with her friends and I usually play basketball or something like that. Also after we come out of the locker rooms and when she walks by me she always whispers something to her friend and giggles, I've also seen her staring at me from time to time. When would be a good time to go over and talk to her and I really got no clue what the hell I'd say. Can someone give me some pointers on what I should do and don't leave some BS answer about ';just go do it'; or something like that because that doesn't help if you haven't noticed. Thanks everyone.How do i talk to this girl?
i used to have the same problem just tell yourself shes one of your guy friends and pretend she is in your head then when you get to know her slowly introduce it to your self and get comfortable with it
i used to have the same problem just tell yourself shes one of your guy friends and pretend she is in your head then when you get to know her slowly introduce it to your self and get comfortable with it
How does a guy talk to a girl?
Asked this already, but just want some more advice.
I'm 23 and can't ever seem to pick up a girl. I've been told that I'm too smart and intimidating. I don't think I come of like that, I mean I'm a smart guy, but not that smart. I've also been told that I stand out even though I don't try and I draw attention, but I don't really want this. So I guess that's all just natural or something. I hang out with girls, but then it's like they don't want to talk to me again. When I go to bars even the slutty girls just kind of ignore me, well they say hi and talk, but there never seems to be any interest. When I do find out a girl was interested it's always later. Things like ';I was really into you when I met you'; or '; So and so had a crush on you and wanted to hang out when she was in town';. My question is how do I talk to girls to keep all of this from happening. I would really like to meet a girl here. I've been told I over talk myself and things like that. Please help.How does a guy talk to a girl?
I see the problem here, it is clear as day. Here's the scoop.... its good that you are talking, conversation skill/technique is the smoking gun to landing any woman, and I do mean ANY woman. So, you are talking, so that is great; however, here is your problem: you talk about the wrong things.
Talking about the wrong things will turn off a woman on so many levels. Ask yourself this.... what do you talk about most of the time? Do you talk about yourself? Your career or your tastes? Do you bother to ASK questions?
One of the keys to melting a woman's panties is to ask ask ask! Display some form of geniune interest in her life; not too much though, she will get turned off. Trust me, it isn't your smarts; women place little to no emphasis on socio-economic status or cultural background. What counts is this....
The 2 main traits in a man that attract women are, in strict order: 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence. The key is to incorporate a sense of humor into your conversational technique... the confidence will take care of itself since it is a product of the convo-humor factor.
Try to keep 95% of the convo about HER, 5% or less about you, VERY important. If you fail to do this, she will interpret it as ';approval talk';, even if you are not trying to impress her... she will think you are insecure and are seeking her approval by talking about your credentials and pros. This will make you severely unattractive, since women are turned off by men who constantly seek approval from others.
Good luck buddy, let me know if you need any help I'd be happy to give you some tips!skin whiteners bleach creams
I'm 23 and can't ever seem to pick up a girl. I've been told that I'm too smart and intimidating. I don't think I come of like that, I mean I'm a smart guy, but not that smart. I've also been told that I stand out even though I don't try and I draw attention, but I don't really want this. So I guess that's all just natural or something. I hang out with girls, but then it's like they don't want to talk to me again. When I go to bars even the slutty girls just kind of ignore me, well they say hi and talk, but there never seems to be any interest. When I do find out a girl was interested it's always later. Things like ';I was really into you when I met you'; or '; So and so had a crush on you and wanted to hang out when she was in town';. My question is how do I talk to girls to keep all of this from happening. I would really like to meet a girl here. I've been told I over talk myself and things like that. Please help.How does a guy talk to a girl?
I see the problem here, it is clear as day. Here's the scoop.... its good that you are talking, conversation skill/technique is the smoking gun to landing any woman, and I do mean ANY woman. So, you are talking, so that is great; however, here is your problem: you talk about the wrong things.
Talking about the wrong things will turn off a woman on so many levels. Ask yourself this.... what do you talk about most of the time? Do you talk about yourself? Your career or your tastes? Do you bother to ASK questions?
One of the keys to melting a woman's panties is to ask ask ask! Display some form of geniune interest in her life; not too much though, she will get turned off. Trust me, it isn't your smarts; women place little to no emphasis on socio-economic status or cultural background. What counts is this....
The 2 main traits in a man that attract women are, in strict order: 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence. The key is to incorporate a sense of humor into your conversational technique... the confidence will take care of itself since it is a product of the convo-humor factor.
Try to keep 95% of the convo about HER, 5% or less about you, VERY important. If you fail to do this, she will interpret it as ';approval talk';, even if you are not trying to impress her... she will think you are insecure and are seeking her approval by talking about your credentials and pros. This will make you severely unattractive, since women are turned off by men who constantly seek approval from others.
Good luck buddy, let me know if you need any help I'd be happy to give you some tips!
How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
For the past couple of weeks I've noticed a girl looking at me at the bus stop. I didn't think anything of it. But I found it weird when she kept doing it. Recently I was standing outside the little shelter at the bus stop. The girl stood in between me and the shelter. That was odd because there wasn't a lot of room between me and the shelter. Then several minutes later, she sits on the floor right behind me. Another day, as everyone was getting off the bus, I saw her get out. I kept my eyes on her. Then I saw her looking at me or at my direction at a distance. I think this would be a great opportunity to give it a shot and see if she's interested (I'm always wrong at reading girl's body language). I believe she's younger than me and we both attend the same college (same bus stop as well).
I only have a few weeks of school left and you know what, with the right plan, I'll give it my all. I'm tired of not trying just because I'm going to be rejected. I need to take risks and learn from it. The only problem is that I find it hard to approach people. It takes me a while to get comfortable talking to them. Honestly I'm not much of a talker but if there's good chemistry with the right person, I'll do fine. I need some suggestions. I don't want to approach her and end up making it an awkward moment if I don't talk much or whatever. I hate those silent awkward moments and want to avoid that. When would it be a good time to ask for her number? I'm not very good at asking girls for their numbers and end up not getting it. Thanks in advance. Any advice would be really helpful. I only have a few weeks of school and went to give it everything I have and more.
I just hope she was looking at me and perhaps likes me. Why else would she keep looking at me right? I just dont consider myself attractive especially since I have some facial piercings and a fw tattoos which may be a turn off for some girls. Plus I look a little bit older for my age despite only being 20. I'd like to get to know her and see where this goes. I never had a girlfriend and rarely talk to girls. My goal is to take her out somewhere and get her number.How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
Ehh, I'm in the same boat as you, as far as never having a date. I would suggest you just say hi and introduce yourself to her. Try to hang out with her, make her laugh. If you can't make her laugh, most girls have no problem with that. Don't rush or pressure yourself into getting her number or becoming her bf so quickly... wait until your comfortable enough than make your move, but don't take too long, either. Good luck! You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders man ;PHow can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
I'm with the others here: go for it! Because, really, what's there to lose? By the way, there are plenty of women who find piercings and tattoos attractive. I'm one of them. :D
Anyway, good luck!
Bring up something that the two of you have in common (which you already stated: you both attend the same college). Ask her what classes she has, how they're going, if she needs any help, etc. By doing this it won't seem creepy or anything because you're showing a genuine interest in her. From there on, the conversation should start flowing. I don't know what it'll be about but don't think too hard about what to say or else she'll notice.
When you get to know her a little better, ask her for her contact number before you have to leave. Just a simple, ';it's time for me to go now. Do you mind if I can get your number? I really enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to keep in touch if you don't mind.'; and then you can set up another date with her.
Blunt answer. . .
Dude, they are women. There are billions of them. If you think she's interested and she might be, go for her. Stand up, buff out your chest, and get in the game. Seize the moment or let it pass you by. Go up to her and say Hi. Ask her how she's doing, find out the basics, and feel how things are. If she's going for it, ask her number. OR you could ask if she has facebook or something. You aren't going to hit a baseball without a bat sitting in the stands. You have to step up to the plate and swing. Remember, life doesn't end from one woman/girl. If you strike out, hold your head up high and go on. There is always another around the corner. Good luck.
I only have a few weeks of school left and you know what, with the right plan, I'll give it my all. I'm tired of not trying just because I'm going to be rejected. I need to take risks and learn from it. The only problem is that I find it hard to approach people. It takes me a while to get comfortable talking to them. Honestly I'm not much of a talker but if there's good chemistry with the right person, I'll do fine. I need some suggestions. I don't want to approach her and end up making it an awkward moment if I don't talk much or whatever. I hate those silent awkward moments and want to avoid that. When would it be a good time to ask for her number? I'm not very good at asking girls for their numbers and end up not getting it. Thanks in advance. Any advice would be really helpful. I only have a few weeks of school and went to give it everything I have and more.
I just hope she was looking at me and perhaps likes me. Why else would she keep looking at me right? I just dont consider myself attractive especially since I have some facial piercings and a fw tattoos which may be a turn off for some girls. Plus I look a little bit older for my age despite only being 20. I'd like to get to know her and see where this goes. I never had a girlfriend and rarely talk to girls. My goal is to take her out somewhere and get her number.How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
Ehh, I'm in the same boat as you, as far as never having a date. I would suggest you just say hi and introduce yourself to her. Try to hang out with her, make her laugh. If you can't make her laugh, most girls have no problem with that. Don't rush or pressure yourself into getting her number or becoming her bf so quickly... wait until your comfortable enough than make your move, but don't take too long, either. Good luck! You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders man ;PHow can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
I'm with the others here: go for it! Because, really, what's there to lose? By the way, there are plenty of women who find piercings and tattoos attractive. I'm one of them. :D
Anyway, good luck!
Bring up something that the two of you have in common (which you already stated: you both attend the same college). Ask her what classes she has, how they're going, if she needs any help, etc. By doing this it won't seem creepy or anything because you're showing a genuine interest in her. From there on, the conversation should start flowing. I don't know what it'll be about but don't think too hard about what to say or else she'll notice.
When you get to know her a little better, ask her for her contact number before you have to leave. Just a simple, ';it's time for me to go now. Do you mind if I can get your number? I really enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to keep in touch if you don't mind.'; and then you can set up another date with her.
Blunt answer. . .
Dude, they are women. There are billions of them. If you think she's interested and she might be, go for her. Stand up, buff out your chest, and get in the game. Seize the moment or let it pass you by. Go up to her and say Hi. Ask her how she's doing, find out the basics, and feel how things are. If she's going for it, ask her number. OR you could ask if she has facebook or something. You aren't going to hit a baseball without a bat sitting in the stands. You have to step up to the plate and swing. Remember, life doesn't end from one woman/girl. If you strike out, hold your head up high and go on. There is always another around the corner. Good luck.
How to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
She is the biggest girly girl u will ever meet, and she got mistakenly put into my power tech class. She is in the grade younger than me, and she doesnt talk. Wen i try to talk to her, she doesnt hold a convo, and makes it obvious thats shes reserved. A lot of guys like her, but she doesnt pay attention to them, she basically gets told that she soo amazing, and she brushes it off like okay, nice to know now bye. How do i get with her, this was my convo with her:
me: hey, im chace
her:im crystal
me: u want to work with me to fix this (we were in auto tech)
her: thanks, but i think im good
me: alright, another time then
her: yea maybe
end. its annoyin cuz i usually dont have issues with girls
how do i talk to her? if u hit on her she gives u a dirty look, u talk to her normally she shuts you down instantly. And the girls dont like her cuz the guys like her and cuz they think shes too stuck up cuz of wut she wears, so its not like i can get involved with her group of friends cuz she keeps to herself.
her grades are perfect, dads a lawyer, moms a doctor, brothers in nyu, she is basically known for bein too good for anyoneHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
just forget her, shes obviously not interested in youHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
find out what she likes and dont give up
me: hey, im chace
her:im crystal
me: u want to work with me to fix this (we were in auto tech)
her: thanks, but i think im good
me: alright, another time then
her: yea maybe
end. its annoyin cuz i usually dont have issues with girls
how do i talk to her? if u hit on her she gives u a dirty look, u talk to her normally she shuts you down instantly. And the girls dont like her cuz the guys like her and cuz they think shes too stuck up cuz of wut she wears, so its not like i can get involved with her group of friends cuz she keeps to herself.
her grades are perfect, dads a lawyer, moms a doctor, brothers in nyu, she is basically known for bein too good for anyoneHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
just forget her, shes obviously not interested in youHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
find out what she likes and dont give up
How to talk to a girl without coming onto her?
Any pointers? I have a little trouble since I'm usually going the extra mile. Only have a couple inside jokes with her. She has a boyfriend, so I don't want to be a dick and come on to her, even though I like her. We hooked up, not publicly, but then she was wit her ex publicly and i got pissed. How do i talk to her and avoid awkward moments from the past. Dunno if she likes me cause haven't talked in a while.How to talk to a girl without coming onto her?
keep it friendly......
keep it friendly......
How do you flirt with a girl?
Ok so I want to talk this girl I already talk to her but very little.I am 15 and in 10th grade.I don't what to talk about with her when going up to her.But how do I flirt with girls.How do you flirt with a girl?
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
How do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
I have always been able to talk girls and make them laugh so i figured i wouldnt have a problem getting one to go out with me...so far all the girls ive asked out like me as a really close bestfriend but not quite like a boyfriend. what can i do to make them like me as a boyfriend?How do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just start by asking them if they want to go to the movies as friends and then progress from there maybe ask her to hang out then ask her to go to the movies on a date with you or something like thatHow do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just, keep doing what you're doing, and one day you'll find a girl who likes you in that sense, cause apparently you have no problem attracting girls (:
just ask her out im sure if u guys hav been best friends then u guys know alot bout each other and u 2 would prob make a good couple..
You need to show them you're serious and totally committed. Or maybe, girls find you as a flirt, and that would probably be why they're scared of dating you - you'd flirt with other girls.
I mean be the way u r but when u like a girl u have 2 b honest...and speak up...
You're too nice. Don't be friends with a girl. They will walk all over you. Nice guys finish last.
You need to be a cocky arrogant dick head. Most girls will mistake this with being confident and women love confident men.
Act like a dick and they will be all over you. Trust me.
The people that are telling you to be nice are either women or guys just like you who are always the best friend.difference between vista arrange files by name
just start by asking them if they want to go to the movies as friends and then progress from there maybe ask her to hang out then ask her to go to the movies on a date with you or something like thatHow do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just, keep doing what you're doing, and one day you'll find a girl who likes you in that sense, cause apparently you have no problem attracting girls (:
just ask her out im sure if u guys hav been best friends then u guys know alot bout each other and u 2 would prob make a good couple..
You need to show them you're serious and totally committed. Or maybe, girls find you as a flirt, and that would probably be why they're scared of dating you - you'd flirt with other girls.
I mean be the way u r but when u like a girl u have 2 b honest...and speak up...
You're too nice. Don't be friends with a girl. They will walk all over you. Nice guys finish last.
You need to be a cocky arrogant dick head. Most girls will mistake this with being confident and women love confident men.
Act like a dick and they will be all over you. Trust me.
The people that are telling you to be nice are either women or guys just like you who are always the best friend.
How do you flirt with a girl?
Ok so I want to talk this girl I already talk to her but very little.I am 15 and in 10th grade.I don't what to talk about with her when going up to her.But how do I flirt with girls.How do you flirt with a girl?
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
How do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
I have always been able to talk girls and make them laugh so i figured i wouldnt have a problem getting one to go out with me...so far all the girls ive asked out like me as a really close bestfriend but not quite like a boyfriend. what can i do to make them like me as a boyfriend?How do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just start by asking them if they want to go to the movies as friends and then progress from there maybe ask her to hang out then ask her to go to the movies on a date with you or something like thatHow do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just, keep doing what you're doing, and one day you'll find a girl who likes you in that sense, cause apparently you have no problem attracting girls (:
just ask her out im sure if u guys hav been best friends then u guys know alot bout each other and u 2 would prob make a good couple..
You need to show them you're serious and totally committed. Or maybe, girls find you as a flirt, and that would probably be why they're scared of dating you - you'd flirt with other girls.
I mean be the way u r but when u like a girl u have 2 b honest...and speak up...
You're too nice. Don't be friends with a girl. They will walk all over you. Nice guys finish last.
You need to be a cocky arrogant dick head. Most girls will mistake this with being confident and women love confident men.
Act like a dick and they will be all over you. Trust me.
The people that are telling you to be nice are either women or guys just like you who are always the best friend.
just start by asking them if they want to go to the movies as friends and then progress from there maybe ask her to hang out then ask her to go to the movies on a date with you or something like thatHow do i get to be her bf not her best friend?
just, keep doing what you're doing, and one day you'll find a girl who likes you in that sense, cause apparently you have no problem attracting girls (:
just ask her out im sure if u guys hav been best friends then u guys know alot bout each other and u 2 would prob make a good couple..
You need to show them you're serious and totally committed. Or maybe, girls find you as a flirt, and that would probably be why they're scared of dating you - you'd flirt with other girls.
I mean be the way u r but when u like a girl u have 2 b honest...and speak up...
You're too nice. Don't be friends with a girl. They will walk all over you. Nice guys finish last.
You need to be a cocky arrogant dick head. Most girls will mistake this with being confident and women love confident men.
Act like a dick and they will be all over you. Trust me.
The people that are telling you to be nice are either women or guys just like you who are always the best friend.
How do you start to talk to a girl?
Anyways I'm going into 10th grade, and theres this girl I kinda like, but I have no idea how to start a conversation with her! I mean I just don't wanna look wierd! Can anyone give me some tips on how to start talking to a highschool girl :P ?How do you start to talk to a girl?
wait until school starts and find out if your in any classes together. if you are, just ask her a random school related question and if you at all possibly can be in a group with her for a group project. then maybe yall can go over to each others house to work on it :) if shes not in any of your classes, get to know her friends. if a girl's friends like you then they will talk you up to her and there is a really good chance of her liking you. You have to make the first move though, because she might be really shy. Good Luck!!!How do you start to talk to a girl?
Advice to talk to any girl / woman.
Be yourself and say Hi my name is _____?
Whip up the courage and just do it no corny pick up lines no games just be yourself and show confidence.
Most Important have fun.
wait until school starts and find out if your in any classes together. if you are, just ask her a random school related question and if you at all possibly can be in a group with her for a group project. then maybe yall can go over to each others house to work on it :) if shes not in any of your classes, get to know her friends. if a girl's friends like you then they will talk you up to her and there is a really good chance of her liking you. You have to make the first move though, because she might be really shy. Good Luck!!!How do you start to talk to a girl?
Advice to talk to any girl / woman.
Be yourself and say Hi my name is _____?
Whip up the courage and just do it no corny pick up lines no games just be yourself and show confidence.
Most Important have fun.
How do I talk to this girl I'm crazy about?
I'm COMPLETELY lost. I talk to girls all the time, I hang out with about 6 girls daily. I've never felt so nervous about talking to a girl I like, nor have I EVER felt like this before- not with any previous girlfriends or girls I've liked.
The weird thing is- I've hardly ever spoken to the girl before.
I've done stuff for her, like opened doors and things like that, even before I liked her.
She doesn't talk much, and I have NO idea what to talk to her about.
I have her in 2 classes, and we're both freshmen. Help please?How do I talk to this girl I'm crazy about?
Since you're in her classes, strike up a conversation about homework, upcoming project/test/field trip/activity, or compliment her on her hair, shirt, any jewelry like a necklace or something. Remember, confidence is key, so be confident, be yourself, and don't be afraid of being embarrassed. You can also talk about a current news event, or if she's reading a book in class, ask her what its about. Pick anything to talk about. But that's only half the work. The other half is having the courage to actually talk to her. Good luck!How do I talk to this girl I'm crazy about?
Try the direct approach. Introduce yourself, get her number.
been there.
honestly, i haven't gotten out of the whole ';i really like you, and i know you see me, but i'm too much of a pansyass to talk to you'; phase.
but from a girl's perspective, i think you should definitely just ask her random questions about the classes you have. and then make small talk about the significant events in that class.
be yourself and don't be shy who knows maybe shes shy too
Find out what her hobbies are and maybe talk about that and whats new and that stuff.Maybe talk about personal stuff when its truley the right time and you both no a lot about each other.
Been there, done that, she dumped her boy friend and said no to me LOL. Just go up to her directly at lunch or something and ask her for her number before you leave. Be polite, but don't look like a pansy, chicks don't like jerks to that big of a point.
Good luck
-Billy
You have the same problem I have with a guy - I'm pretty outgoing talking to guys I know but I have no idea what to say to this guy I like. I never get to talk to him. I only have 1 class with him and we sit on opposite sides of the classroom which makes it hard. I guess you just have to break the silence somehow - you could just start with ';What website were we supposed to go to?'; or some simple question about homework, so that it's not obvious that you like her and so it's not awkward. If you just say simple things like that maybe you'll get lucky and the conversation will carry on if you try.
Good luck!
if youre trying to think of ways to strike up a conversation with her ask her to explain something one of your teachers said in class that day
You should talk to her. A girl wouldn't mind if a guy talks to her. The worst thing that can happen is you guys will become friends. And that's a start.
The weird thing is- I've hardly ever spoken to the girl before.
I've done stuff for her, like opened doors and things like that, even before I liked her.
She doesn't talk much, and I have NO idea what to talk to her about.
I have her in 2 classes, and we're both freshmen. Help please?How do I talk to this girl I'm crazy about?
Since you're in her classes, strike up a conversation about homework, upcoming project/test/field trip/activity, or compliment her on her hair, shirt, any jewelry like a necklace or something. Remember, confidence is key, so be confident, be yourself, and don't be afraid of being embarrassed. You can also talk about a current news event, or if she's reading a book in class, ask her what its about. Pick anything to talk about. But that's only half the work. The other half is having the courage to actually talk to her. Good luck!How do I talk to this girl I'm crazy about?
Try the direct approach. Introduce yourself, get her number.
been there.
honestly, i haven't gotten out of the whole ';i really like you, and i know you see me, but i'm too much of a pansyass to talk to you'; phase.
but from a girl's perspective, i think you should definitely just ask her random questions about the classes you have. and then make small talk about the significant events in that class.
be yourself and don't be shy who knows maybe shes shy too
Find out what her hobbies are and maybe talk about that and whats new and that stuff.Maybe talk about personal stuff when its truley the right time and you both no a lot about each other.
Been there, done that, she dumped her boy friend and said no to me LOL. Just go up to her directly at lunch or something and ask her for her number before you leave. Be polite, but don't look like a pansy, chicks don't like jerks to that big of a point.
Good luck
-Billy
You have the same problem I have with a guy - I'm pretty outgoing talking to guys I know but I have no idea what to say to this guy I like. I never get to talk to him. I only have 1 class with him and we sit on opposite sides of the classroom which makes it hard. I guess you just have to break the silence somehow - you could just start with ';What website were we supposed to go to?'; or some simple question about homework, so that it's not obvious that you like her and so it's not awkward. If you just say simple things like that maybe you'll get lucky and the conversation will carry on if you try.
Good luck!
if youre trying to think of ways to strike up a conversation with her ask her to explain something one of your teachers said in class that day
You should talk to her. A girl wouldn't mind if a guy talks to her. The worst thing that can happen is you guys will become friends. And that's a start.
How to talk to this girl more often?
so i kinda like this girl, but i don't get to talk to her often at all. i don't have any classes with her, can't text her because my phone's a piece of crap, (can't afford a new phone yet, haven't got a job xD) and she hardly ever gets on myspace.
am i forgetting any other ways to talk to her?How to talk to this girl more often?
yes aim haha the old fashioned aim just ask her if she has one but i would tell u to ask her if she maybe wants to hang out so u could get to know her and see her like face to face.get teenagers intrested
am i forgetting any other ways to talk to her?How to talk to this girl more often?
yes aim haha the old fashioned aim just ask her if she has one but i would tell u to ask her if she maybe wants to hang out so u could get to know her and see her like face to face.
Is it normal to be talk seriously with a girl on a date because I always come off serious?
When i'm talking to a girl on a date or approaching a girl and having a conversation I always seem to come off as serious. I mean I would like to make the girl laugh straight from the get go, but I always seem to ask her questions seriously or talk with her serious. How can I be less serious, because I have got a sense of humour it's just it's hard to show it when first approaching girls.Is it normal to be talk seriously with a girl on a date because I always come off serious?
Personally, when a man approaches me, I like him to be serious, but also have a bit of playfulness. Try smiling more, and making lighter conversation. When you speak to them, try also adding a joke in the conversation. Show off that great sense of humor!Is it normal to be talk seriously with a girl on a date because I always come off serious?
Don't be afraid to say the wrong things...
Some girls like more serious guys, there's nothing wrong with not being a joker all the time! It can be very appealing to have someone you can have a real conversation with. My advice for you is to just be yourself. I know it sounds cheesy and cliched, but you need to find someone who likes you without you having to force a personality that's not your own. :)
dude just be fun, but not to much fun, you have to the right kind of things seriously and other things ot so seriously, it depends on the girl and the date.... if you are going to go to a rollar coaster park dont start talking about your financial influences....
Personally, when a man approaches me, I like him to be serious, but also have a bit of playfulness. Try smiling more, and making lighter conversation. When you speak to them, try also adding a joke in the conversation. Show off that great sense of humor!Is it normal to be talk seriously with a girl on a date because I always come off serious?
Don't be afraid to say the wrong things...
Some girls like more serious guys, there's nothing wrong with not being a joker all the time! It can be very appealing to have someone you can have a real conversation with. My advice for you is to just be yourself. I know it sounds cheesy and cliched, but you need to find someone who likes you without you having to force a personality that's not your own. :)
dude just be fun, but not to much fun, you have to the right kind of things seriously and other things ot so seriously, it depends on the girl and the date.... if you are going to go to a rollar coaster park dont start talking about your financial influences....
How to talk to a girl you're going out with ?
So, me and this girl Marisa are going out.
And she's really shy around me, and I'm shy around her, we used to talk a lot before we started going out though.
So how do you start up a nice conversation with a girl ?
Any tips are greatly appreciated.How to talk to a girl you're going out with ?
A good way to get to know her better and to have things to talk about is to play Truth. This is where you can ask the other person anything, from silly things, like what your favorite ice cream flavor is or what your favorite cartoon was as a kid, to more serious questions, like what is the one thing that you would die for, or what is your most important dream for your future. The person always has to tell you the truth.How to talk to a girl you're going out with ?
if you dont know how to talk to them , or theres not enough chemistry to keep up the conversation you shouldnt be dating in the first place.
ummm you probably shouldnt be dating her
i think if u cant talk about anything then its not really a relationship now is it? i think u should just bring up a topic that u know she can relate with, and that you can also. it sounds like u two were friends, so u should have plenty to talk about.
And she's really shy around me, and I'm shy around her, we used to talk a lot before we started going out though.
So how do you start up a nice conversation with a girl ?
Any tips are greatly appreciated.How to talk to a girl you're going out with ?
A good way to get to know her better and to have things to talk about is to play Truth. This is where you can ask the other person anything, from silly things, like what your favorite ice cream flavor is or what your favorite cartoon was as a kid, to more serious questions, like what is the one thing that you would die for, or what is your most important dream for your future. The person always has to tell you the truth.How to talk to a girl you're going out with ?
if you dont know how to talk to them , or theres not enough chemistry to keep up the conversation you shouldnt be dating in the first place.
ummm you probably shouldnt be dating her
i think if u cant talk about anything then its not really a relationship now is it? i think u should just bring up a topic that u know she can relate with, and that you can also. it sounds like u two were friends, so u should have plenty to talk about.
How do i talk to a new girl at work ?(girls opinion)?
new girl at work, she is pretty, she is very funny and we have spoke to each other but its only passing comment after work when she is heading home, i want to go out with her but you see im not that good when talking to girls so what should i say ?How do i talk to a new girl at work ?(girls opinion)?
just b like hey if u need any help or any question about the job just ask and i ll be able 2 help uHow do i talk to a new girl at work ?(girls opinion)?
Ask questions! That easy :]
how do i get the feeling i know u..
just b like hey if u need any help or any question about the job just ask and i ll be able 2 help uHow do i talk to a new girl at work ?(girls opinion)?
Ask questions! That easy :]
how do i get the feeling i know u..
How do you to talk to a girl personally????
see i get nervous when i talk to girls
and plus they only talk to me when they need to which is only like once every two weeks
anyways theyre always with the other girlsHow do you to talk to a girl personally????
Well first you need to have confidence in yourself. you need to tell yourself ';I CAN DO THIS';. First if she belongs to any social networking site E.X Myspace Facebook add her and talk to her like like that for a few days try and build a foundation. Then if you see her at school or work or where ever you see her approach her say Hi or something, ask if you can sit down (if shes sitting of course) i tend to not approach when in big groups it just makes the situation harder try and talked to her when shes alone or with few people less then 6. Well what i have told you is a foundation now its what type of person that actually catches the women/girls attention.
and plus they only talk to me when they need to which is only like once every two weeks
anyways theyre always with the other girlsHow do you to talk to a girl personally????
Well first you need to have confidence in yourself. you need to tell yourself ';I CAN DO THIS';. First if she belongs to any social networking site E.X Myspace Facebook add her and talk to her like like that for a few days try and build a foundation. Then if you see her at school or work or where ever you see her approach her say Hi or something, ask if you can sit down (if shes sitting of course) i tend to not approach when in big groups it just makes the situation harder try and talked to her when shes alone or with few people less then 6. Well what i have told you is a foundation now its what type of person that actually catches the women/girls attention.
Need advice on how to talk to this girl!?
so theres this girl whose friends with one of my friends. we never really met but ive seen her before and want to get to know her. this friday were going bowling with a group of people and this girls going to be there. i want to talk to her and get to know her but i always freeze up when i want to talk to girls and kind of shy away from girls i want to talk to especially if all the guys are talking to her i get intimidated. im a good looking kid according to people and they say i shouldnt get intimidated but either way it still happens. ive always been shy around girls and just never know what to say when i talk to them for whatever reason. im not looking to go up to the girl and say i like you and lets go out i just want to get to know her and see where it goes from there but i dont know how to talk to girls =/Need advice on how to talk to this girl!?
okay from experience on self conscious guys i woudl know that the #1 turn off is an unconfident guy... what makes me like someone is if they are confident and carry themselves well. I'm sure that you are a good looking kid like you say you are, so what you need to do is just be funny and talk to her like you would any other person. Forget that she is a girl (to an extent) but be flirtatious and have fun because thats what really is going to lead her out of the friend zone.dynamic duos for teenage girls msdn
okay from experience on self conscious guys i woudl know that the #1 turn off is an unconfident guy... what makes me like someone is if they are confident and carry themselves well. I'm sure that you are a good looking kid like you say you are, so what you need to do is just be funny and talk to her like you would any other person. Forget that she is a girl (to an extent) but be flirtatious and have fun because thats what really is going to lead her out of the friend zone.
I am having problems gaining the guts to talk to a girl. i never have trouble talking to girls either.?
I have been working out with her for about a month now and i was skeptical on how old she was at first. i didnt really think about going up to talk to her until one day i saw her driving out of the gym. Now i that i know she is a reasonable age, i cant find the right way to interupt her and start a conversation.
can someone please smack me across the face and give me some advice?I am having problems gaining the guts to talk to a girl. i never have trouble talking to girls either.?
I suggest that you start a random, mundane conversation and do quite a lot of listening, mirror her movements and look her in the eye....
maybe this way you can get your confidence, and if she's remotely interested she'll appreciate that kind of genuine interest and attention.
wish you luck :-)
can someone please smack me across the face and give me some advice?I am having problems gaining the guts to talk to a girl. i never have trouble talking to girls either.?
I suggest that you start a random, mundane conversation and do quite a lot of listening, mirror her movements and look her in the eye....
maybe this way you can get your confidence, and if she's remotely interested she'll appreciate that kind of genuine interest and attention.
wish you luck :-)
How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
I can never seem to talk to this girl when she is with her friends. I always get nervous and just walk to my locker. I'm pretty sure she knows I avoid her when she is talking with her friends on purpose. How can I just go up and not be shy to talk to her?
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
Okay, this from a girls point of view...
A- if u see her motioning ofr her friends AKA that means she doesnt want to talk to u and feels akward around u (Which im not saying is the case i thought id just let u no)
B- (Your answer to ur question) Pull the girl out of the group! like jokingly drag her away then make sure u have a good dozen topics to talk about then go for a walk! At school make sure u have at least 10 minutes and make sure there are no akward silent moments, just keep asking questons, compliments, comments one after another. Dont say ur going for a walk...obviously, just start walking and before u no it ur like half way arosss the school! I wish the guy i like would do tht. lol
So, yeah trust me do it! (Don't chicken out either) if she likes u she wont complain if she doesnt she may start to if u can strike up a good conversation...remember girls change crushes rapidly! Like i'm talking if a guy is nice about one little thing a girl could have a day crush, week crush etc. keep be polite and nice and she will fall for u! How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
Dude i have the same problem there is this girl im crazy for but eveb when its just her and one frind i cant go up to her
You just look her in the eye and talk to her.
If you really want to talk to her provatly say ';can we talk';
and then she is sure to notice you
Just talk to her and her friends about something in class or make a comment about what they were talking about. If the girl u like likes u too she'll flirt and her friends will pick up on it and leave eventually. Just pretend the friends aren't there
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
Okay, this from a girls point of view...
A- if u see her motioning ofr her friends AKA that means she doesnt want to talk to u and feels akward around u (Which im not saying is the case i thought id just let u no)
B- (Your answer to ur question) Pull the girl out of the group! like jokingly drag her away then make sure u have a good dozen topics to talk about then go for a walk! At school make sure u have at least 10 minutes and make sure there are no akward silent moments, just keep asking questons, compliments, comments one after another. Dont say ur going for a walk...obviously, just start walking and before u no it ur like half way arosss the school! I wish the guy i like would do tht. lol
So, yeah trust me do it! (Don't chicken out either) if she likes u she wont complain if she doesnt she may start to if u can strike up a good conversation...remember girls change crushes rapidly! Like i'm talking if a guy is nice about one little thing a girl could have a day crush, week crush etc. keep be polite and nice and she will fall for u! How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
Dude i have the same problem there is this girl im crazy for but eveb when its just her and one frind i cant go up to her
You just look her in the eye and talk to her.
If you really want to talk to her provatly say ';can we talk';
and then she is sure to notice you
Just talk to her and her friends about something in class or make a comment about what they were talking about. If the girl u like likes u too she'll flirt and her friends will pick up on it and leave eventually. Just pretend the friends aren't there
How do I talk to a girl from my college class?
I need some tips for striking up a conversation with a girl in my math class. I'd eventually like to ask her out, but I want to start with her knowing I exist.How do I talk to a girl from my college class?
Say, ';Man that math test was hard. I need to study more next time.'; Keep small talk going and help her in class , study, etc.How do I talk to a girl from my college class?
Talk about homework or other math related stuff.
Say, ';Man that math test was hard. I need to study more next time.'; Keep small talk going and help her in class , study, etc.How do I talk to a girl from my college class?
Talk about homework or other math related stuff.
How do I talk to a girl without her thinking I am stupid?
I am a pretty popular guy at my school, I am on the basketball team, like almost everyone knows me, or at least has heard of me. I got a bunch of friends that are guys. But not really any friends thats girls. And of course I get tired of hanging out with just guys all the time, Im not gay. I know I have the looks, not sure about the personality, im sure i got the personality somewhere because everyone seems to think im pretty cool to hang out with. But I just cant talk to girls for some reason. I like girls a lot and I want to find a good girlfriend, but I just cant talk to them. I am always thinking ';Nah better not talk to her i will prolly say something retarded'; Or sometimes I think ';what if I freeze up she will think i am stupid and she will make fun of me';. And I just plain out think that any girl would think Im retarded if I try to talk to them. I think they are to good for me to talk to, and sometimes I will try showing off in front of em and try to get them to notice me but it doesnt happen. Do girls come to you? Or are you suppose to come to them? Because I have waited and waited and none have came to me. A few have tried to talk to me but I was so scared of sayin sumtin retarded I would try to avoid any conversations and try to end conversations as quickly as possible. Can anyone help me? Perhaps someone who has been in my shoes before?How do I talk to a girl without her thinking I am stupid?
1st off dont be to cocky bout your looks.... just cuz you think you look sexy dont mean you are...
2nd play it cool if you wanna talk to a girl when you walk by here say ';hey cutie'; and wink she will say ';hey'; be like ';just thought id let you no you look really good today'; she may say thanks or i no depends if she is stuck up or not.... DONT act cocky at all then after a week or two of talking to her like that ask her to a movie... buy the tickets and ask if she wants anything to eat or drink DONT try to get in her pants until a month of dating her hold hands at the movies 2 time yall hang out kiss her on the cheek! then so on and so forth youll get her dont worryHow do I talk to a girl without her thinking I am stupid?
First of all, she will come. It may be high school, but probably not. actually, i really doubt it. anyway, here are some tips:
1. no burping, farting, etc. unless she tells you she likes it
2. give her complements, but not creepy ones. like, ';good job on your solo yesterday,'; or, ';i really like your drawing,'; or something.
3. follow up complement with question, like, ';why did you choose that song, '; or ';was it hard to sing?';, ';what's your favorite song?';
4. give her space. unless she's really into the conversation, don't bombard her with questions. she may be uncomfortable talking with someone fo rth e first time.
5. no showing off, or acting like you are so cool. be friendly, modest, humorous. no ';macho man';.
hope this helps. sorry if i wasted your time.
The only way you're going to improve is to TRY! You have to take the risk and just leap in. It will be scary and you'll be nervous but just try, and you'll gradually learn and get more comfortable. You'll probably always be a bit nervous, but Everyone feels that way. And it will probably be real rough for a while. But the point is, you have to start somewhere.
Try having a conversation with a girl you like. Don't use being cocky and rude as a protection to hide your fear - I'd rather talk to a guy who seems a little bit nervous than one who comes off as a jerk. You're obviously a confident guy - just keep that with you when you're talking to girls.
Try not saying stupid jokes, do not say something stupid or act all cool and bad boy. Girls don't come to the boy. To tell weather a girl likes you are not if she acts all nervous around you or shes trying to get your attention she likes you or she's just weird if she teases you or makes fun of you she does not like you. When you talk to a girl act like yourself we girls like it when boys act like them self. And more thing girls like to talk so go along with the conversation. And lastly we girls hate it when guys always ask guys for girl advice I mean girls have much more experience being a girl they know what girls want in a boy. But not all girls are the same but this will always be true about a girl we don't want boys giving us to much pressure and we want boys to act like your self. One more thing im a tomboy I maybe a tomboy but that does not mean I don't know anything about girls.
You probably don't have the personality with that cocky *** attitude.
here's a tip..unless u have an extremely high IQ and use HUGE words which usually bore most girls, every girl thinks guys are stupid in general...Just be nice and try to make a girl laugh..relax..you'll get it someday
you could try to start a conversation with them, like asking them if they're doing well in school, or how's their life been, or (just plan on what you're going to talk to a girl about)
****** by the way, DON'T TRY TO FREAZE UP just think about if they look pretty, or hot or some other things
okay listen coming from a girls point of veiw .
dont avoid conversation expecially if you good lookin popular guy on the basketball team
talk to some girls dont think about what your going to say to them.
or if ur still scared of saying somthin stupid walk by them and smile. it makes girls think.
guys usually go to girls but girls will usually be flirty if they like you.
dont by shy!
awnser mineee please(:
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This sounds like a question for...The Love Guru. Let me help...
First things first...99% Of females WILL NOT go to you. Girls want the guy to go to them. Also, do not be afraid to talk to her in front of her friends. I KNOW It's easier said than done but a girl will LOVE it for you to talk to them in front of her friends. It shows you are courageous and not afraid to talk with them and show you feelings. Next, you will not freeze up. That's only in movies. The hardest part is starting the convo. Once it is started, you won't freeze up. If it is mutual the convo will blossum by itself, if not, you may find youself forcing convo which means it is not worth it. Try to approach her rather calmly and say, Excuse me, could I talk to you for a second? I just wanted to introduce myself to you, Im __________(Insert Name). At this point she will most likely say her name but if not she WILL say somthing. If she doesn't say her name, ask her what hers is. Once she tells you say thats a nice name, don't say beautiful name becuase that is stupid and you are going to say beatiful later on. Once she says her name say I just wanted to introduce myself to you, I noticed you a few times in the hallways and I wanted to meet you and tell you, you are very beautfull. She'll say thank you blah blah blah. Even if she doesnt like you she'll say thank you. After that you wait a couple days. BUT,during those few days you always say Hi to her. Then about 2-4 days later, never more than that. You pull her aside again and say, hey I was wondering If you wanted to hang out somtime or go somwhere with me...If she likes you she will say sure, that sounds good. Then you ask for her number. You leave. DO NOT CALL the same night. It makes you look desperate. You call or text her the NEXT day. Once that happens you should be set from there. Good Luck
Speaking as a girl, I wait for guys to come to me. Don't try to get their attention by showing off, simply go talk to them. If you just let the conversation flow, you'll find out that talking to girls is probably easier than it looks (:
I haven't been in your shoes b/c i am a girl and don't have trouble talking to anyone, but the guy has to go to the girl and im sure if your as cute as you say you are and everyone likes you then a lot of girls like you too but they have the same problem and are trying to figure out what they can say so they don't look retarded. Oh, and don't stop a conversation as quickly as possible it makes the girl think you think there's something wrong with them and that could be part of the reason their not showing any interest in you. Deep down im sure someone likes you. START TALKING!! ;) lol Good Luck! hope it works. You can always email me!! :) lol
easy
STOP THINKING SO DAMN MUCH
seriously if your as awesome as you say - just sit back and let the girls come to you. go to a party, smile and try not to be a douche chicks will dig it.
Well im a girl but i have been in your shoes girls go threw the same thing. You should just go up to the girl you like and start talking to her say your name first if you don't no her be like hi im and say you name, then just be yourself and be cool a confident about yourself and keep thinking i can do this and don't try to say something stupid and if you do just laugh about it with her or make a joke about whatever you said stupid.
hey , just be your self!
some girls will come to you, some won't. i'm one of those girls who won't lol but not all girls are shy.. i would just be yourself, don't show off it doesn't really work haha. just talk to them little by little you will find someone you like and then talk to her :) haha good luck :)
no !
most girls won't come to you,
the best way to talk to a girl is too be casual !
don't try to show off ( girls hate it ! )
just casualy be like 'hey'
and ask to catch lunch ,
or go for a walk . ( girls like to walk )
just be yourself ; and compliment the girl !
something like ; i like your smile , ' hey beauitful ( once you date ) ,
things like that !
good luck !
You'll Figure It Out..
--- Gothic/Emo Chik(:
1st off dont be to cocky bout your looks.... just cuz you think you look sexy dont mean you are...
2nd play it cool if you wanna talk to a girl when you walk by here say ';hey cutie'; and wink she will say ';hey'; be like ';just thought id let you no you look really good today'; she may say thanks or i no depends if she is stuck up or not.... DONT act cocky at all then after a week or two of talking to her like that ask her to a movie... buy the tickets and ask if she wants anything to eat or drink DONT try to get in her pants until a month of dating her hold hands at the movies 2 time yall hang out kiss her on the cheek! then so on and so forth youll get her dont worryHow do I talk to a girl without her thinking I am stupid?
First of all, she will come. It may be high school, but probably not. actually, i really doubt it. anyway, here are some tips:
1. no burping, farting, etc. unless she tells you she likes it
2. give her complements, but not creepy ones. like, ';good job on your solo yesterday,'; or, ';i really like your drawing,'; or something.
3. follow up complement with question, like, ';why did you choose that song, '; or ';was it hard to sing?';, ';what's your favorite song?';
4. give her space. unless she's really into the conversation, don't bombard her with questions. she may be uncomfortable talking with someone fo rth e first time.
5. no showing off, or acting like you are so cool. be friendly, modest, humorous. no ';macho man';.
hope this helps. sorry if i wasted your time.
The only way you're going to improve is to TRY! You have to take the risk and just leap in. It will be scary and you'll be nervous but just try, and you'll gradually learn and get more comfortable. You'll probably always be a bit nervous, but Everyone feels that way. And it will probably be real rough for a while. But the point is, you have to start somewhere.
Try having a conversation with a girl you like. Don't use being cocky and rude as a protection to hide your fear - I'd rather talk to a guy who seems a little bit nervous than one who comes off as a jerk. You're obviously a confident guy - just keep that with you when you're talking to girls.
Try not saying stupid jokes, do not say something stupid or act all cool and bad boy. Girls don't come to the boy. To tell weather a girl likes you are not if she acts all nervous around you or shes trying to get your attention she likes you or she's just weird if she teases you or makes fun of you she does not like you. When you talk to a girl act like yourself we girls like it when boys act like them self. And more thing girls like to talk so go along with the conversation. And lastly we girls hate it when guys always ask guys for girl advice I mean girls have much more experience being a girl they know what girls want in a boy. But not all girls are the same but this will always be true about a girl we don't want boys giving us to much pressure and we want boys to act like your self. One more thing im a tomboy I maybe a tomboy but that does not mean I don't know anything about girls.
You probably don't have the personality with that cocky *** attitude.
here's a tip..unless u have an extremely high IQ and use HUGE words which usually bore most girls, every girl thinks guys are stupid in general...Just be nice and try to make a girl laugh..relax..you'll get it someday
you could try to start a conversation with them, like asking them if they're doing well in school, or how's their life been, or (just plan on what you're going to talk to a girl about)
****** by the way, DON'T TRY TO FREAZE UP just think about if they look pretty, or hot or some other things
okay listen coming from a girls point of veiw .
dont avoid conversation expecially if you good lookin popular guy on the basketball team
talk to some girls dont think about what your going to say to them.
or if ur still scared of saying somthin stupid walk by them and smile. it makes girls think.
guys usually go to girls but girls will usually be flirty if they like you.
dont by shy!
awnser mineee please(:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArYMvaT4PRaGLvcKXPm6L_oazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20091203171401AAf6jh8
This sounds like a question for...The Love Guru. Let me help...
First things first...99% Of females WILL NOT go to you. Girls want the guy to go to them. Also, do not be afraid to talk to her in front of her friends. I KNOW It's easier said than done but a girl will LOVE it for you to talk to them in front of her friends. It shows you are courageous and not afraid to talk with them and show you feelings. Next, you will not freeze up. That's only in movies. The hardest part is starting the convo. Once it is started, you won't freeze up. If it is mutual the convo will blossum by itself, if not, you may find youself forcing convo which means it is not worth it. Try to approach her rather calmly and say, Excuse me, could I talk to you for a second? I just wanted to introduce myself to you, Im __________(Insert Name). At this point she will most likely say her name but if not she WILL say somthing. If she doesn't say her name, ask her what hers is. Once she tells you say thats a nice name, don't say beautiful name becuase that is stupid and you are going to say beatiful later on. Once she says her name say I just wanted to introduce myself to you, I noticed you a few times in the hallways and I wanted to meet you and tell you, you are very beautfull. She'll say thank you blah blah blah. Even if she doesnt like you she'll say thank you. After that you wait a couple days. BUT,during those few days you always say Hi to her. Then about 2-4 days later, never more than that. You pull her aside again and say, hey I was wondering If you wanted to hang out somtime or go somwhere with me...If she likes you she will say sure, that sounds good. Then you ask for her number. You leave. DO NOT CALL the same night. It makes you look desperate. You call or text her the NEXT day. Once that happens you should be set from there. Good Luck
Speaking as a girl, I wait for guys to come to me. Don't try to get their attention by showing off, simply go talk to them. If you just let the conversation flow, you'll find out that talking to girls is probably easier than it looks (:
I haven't been in your shoes b/c i am a girl and don't have trouble talking to anyone, but the guy has to go to the girl and im sure if your as cute as you say you are and everyone likes you then a lot of girls like you too but they have the same problem and are trying to figure out what they can say so they don't look retarded. Oh, and don't stop a conversation as quickly as possible it makes the girl think you think there's something wrong with them and that could be part of the reason their not showing any interest in you. Deep down im sure someone likes you. START TALKING!! ;) lol Good Luck! hope it works. You can always email me!! :) lol
easy
STOP THINKING SO DAMN MUCH
seriously if your as awesome as you say - just sit back and let the girls come to you. go to a party, smile and try not to be a douche chicks will dig it.
Well im a girl but i have been in your shoes girls go threw the same thing. You should just go up to the girl you like and start talking to her say your name first if you don't no her be like hi im and say you name, then just be yourself and be cool a confident about yourself and keep thinking i can do this and don't try to say something stupid and if you do just laugh about it with her or make a joke about whatever you said stupid.
hey , just be your self!
some girls will come to you, some won't. i'm one of those girls who won't lol but not all girls are shy.. i would just be yourself, don't show off it doesn't really work haha. just talk to them little by little you will find someone you like and then talk to her :) haha good luck :)
no !
most girls won't come to you,
the best way to talk to a girl is too be casual !
don't try to show off ( girls hate it ! )
just casualy be like 'hey'
and ask to catch lunch ,
or go for a walk . ( girls like to walk )
just be yourself ; and compliment the girl !
something like ; i like your smile , ' hey beauitful ( once you date ) ,
things like that !
good luck !
You'll Figure It Out..
--- Gothic/Emo Chik(:
How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
i'm 15 and how should i talk to girls at the mall and other places then how should i ask for their phone number then ask for a date with themHow should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
start with asking them thier name if u don't know it and ask how their day went and wat they did yesterday or today or whenever and if there was a big event or something recently ask them about it 4 example: did u watch the packer game the other day? and then say kool we should talk sometime wats your #?How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
grab their attention somehow and start a conversation (you probably have to see this person more than once to ask them out or even call them)
You can start by saying ';hello'; then introducing yourself. At 15 you are too young to date so you don't need to know how to ask a girl for a date. Asking for a phone number is pretty self explanatory...
The key is confidence. If you doubt yourself then the girl will doubt you too. If you see a girl you think is cute, say if she is eating at the mall food court, just walk up with your name and number written on a piece of paper and introduce yourself, and say, ';I would love it if you would call me.'; Keep it brief and then just keep on walking. If she is interested, she will call.
Well, you have to get to meet them quite a while. Just start a convo by saying hey. I rather not pick up any girls randomly though, maybe from my school or university but not randomly out of the mall. They'd just run away thinking youre a pedo
Walk up and ask if they're interested in having your children. Works every time, especially well if their mother is around and listening when you ask.
The first key is to be confident. It you stroll up to them all sweaty and nervous, they're going to be turned off. Act like you know what you're doing and that it's no big deal. What's the worst than can happen, right?
Also, it helps to find a common interest to talk about. It's a lot easier to hit things off if you're interested in the same thing. Then, after you've talked for a bit, compliment them and ask for their number. Then later you could call them and ask if they'd like to do something.
Just start a conversation its easy Good Luck.
Bowling alley? School?
say hi
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
well im a girl..and if i wanted a guy to come up to me and ask to tlk ..he shuld start by just some casual stuff yu tlk about with yur friends but not the dumb stuff...the boys really really tlk about with their guy friends. if all goes well tlking yu move on and sum how move in with the question with like so maybe sumtime yu wanna hang out..and !!POOF!! there it is...myabe but sumtimes just straight up walk to a girl and start blabbing yur mouth off will send us flying..especially if yu tlk about nothing interesting.
P.S try to what she is interested in and myabe yu'll find out yu guys have things in common with one another.
contrary to popular belief - we dont bite ;)
honestly im sure any girl would be amazed if you went up to talk to them.. not many guys have the guts or if they do they are usually just too cocky for their own good :O
if your looking for conversation openers then causally bump into them and just make really sweet, offhand comment. complimenting is always a good option here (i)
if you guys get on really well tell her that youd really like to see her again and maybe hang out. just incase she thinks your a psycho offer a group date (i) if she says yes give her your number. dont ask for hers.. if she was interested in you, she'll call
im saying this so that you dont seem like a weirdo asking for numbers.. if she gets in contact with you then its an extra point for you as you know shes interested in seeing you. if not.. hard luck :/
hope i helped :)
Its easy but also difficult. Because you don't want to seem like an idiot when randomly out of nowhere start a conversation. You have to do something like for example '; do u guys know where(whatever place in mall) is?';, if you still don't know (supposedly),say ';can u show me?';.. You know.. And after just say thank you and if you want offer that girlif she wants to hang out sometime even though you don't know her to be friends.
Aww! Ok, well maybe start with something like...If there shopping in the mens department say something like
';Hey'; and when they respond say something like
';So are you shopping for your boyfriend?'; And if she's like ';Noo, my dad'; then you can be like
';Cool, cool. So no guy huh?';
And she could say something like ';No, not yet..Im just waiting for the right person'; (Good sign-then you shoot for her number)
Or she could say ';No...But I have my eye on someone'; (That would mean she doesn't eally want you to have her number) then just say ';Oh cool'; But don't walk away right away! Its like going up to her and saying ';Do you have a boyfriend because I dont want to waste my time';
This is good because it's a good way to find out if she has a boyfriend right away, so you dont waste all this time on her, when she's taken.
And if seh seems to want to talk then its a good sign too.
Use you Imagination!!
Good luck!
PS
Dont let there be a bunch of long pauses because then she thinks ';Is this what the date is going to be like?';
start with asking them thier name if u don't know it and ask how their day went and wat they did yesterday or today or whenever and if there was a big event or something recently ask them about it 4 example: did u watch the packer game the other day? and then say kool we should talk sometime wats your #?How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
grab their attention somehow and start a conversation (you probably have to see this person more than once to ask them out or even call them)
You can start by saying ';hello'; then introducing yourself. At 15 you are too young to date so you don't need to know how to ask a girl for a date. Asking for a phone number is pretty self explanatory...
The key is confidence. If you doubt yourself then the girl will doubt you too. If you see a girl you think is cute, say if she is eating at the mall food court, just walk up with your name and number written on a piece of paper and introduce yourself, and say, ';I would love it if you would call me.'; Keep it brief and then just keep on walking. If she is interested, she will call.
Well, you have to get to meet them quite a while. Just start a convo by saying hey. I rather not pick up any girls randomly though, maybe from my school or university but not randomly out of the mall. They'd just run away thinking youre a pedo
Walk up and ask if they're interested in having your children. Works every time, especially well if their mother is around and listening when you ask.
The first key is to be confident. It you stroll up to them all sweaty and nervous, they're going to be turned off. Act like you know what you're doing and that it's no big deal. What's the worst than can happen, right?
Also, it helps to find a common interest to talk about. It's a lot easier to hit things off if you're interested in the same thing. Then, after you've talked for a bit, compliment them and ask for their number. Then later you could call them and ask if they'd like to do something.
Just start a conversation its easy Good Luck.
Bowling alley? School?
say hi
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
well im a girl..and if i wanted a guy to come up to me and ask to tlk ..he shuld start by just some casual stuff yu tlk about with yur friends but not the dumb stuff...the boys really really tlk about with their guy friends. if all goes well tlking yu move on and sum how move in with the question with like so maybe sumtime yu wanna hang out..and !!POOF!! there it is...myabe but sumtimes just straight up walk to a girl and start blabbing yur mouth off will send us flying..especially if yu tlk about nothing interesting.
P.S try to what she is interested in and myabe yu'll find out yu guys have things in common with one another.
contrary to popular belief - we dont bite ;)
honestly im sure any girl would be amazed if you went up to talk to them.. not many guys have the guts or if they do they are usually just too cocky for their own good :O
if your looking for conversation openers then causally bump into them and just make really sweet, offhand comment. complimenting is always a good option here (i)
if you guys get on really well tell her that youd really like to see her again and maybe hang out. just incase she thinks your a psycho offer a group date (i) if she says yes give her your number. dont ask for hers.. if she was interested in you, she'll call
im saying this so that you dont seem like a weirdo asking for numbers.. if she gets in contact with you then its an extra point for you as you know shes interested in seeing you. if not.. hard luck :/
hope i helped :)
Its easy but also difficult. Because you don't want to seem like an idiot when randomly out of nowhere start a conversation. You have to do something like for example '; do u guys know where(whatever place in mall) is?';, if you still don't know (supposedly),say ';can u show me?';.. You know.. And after just say thank you and if you want offer that girlif she wants to hang out sometime even though you don't know her to be friends.
Aww! Ok, well maybe start with something like...If there shopping in the mens department say something like
';Hey'; and when they respond say something like
';So are you shopping for your boyfriend?'; And if she's like ';Noo, my dad'; then you can be like
';Cool, cool. So no guy huh?';
And she could say something like ';No, not yet..Im just waiting for the right person'; (Good sign-then you shoot for her number)
Or she could say ';No...But I have my eye on someone'; (That would mean she doesn't eally want you to have her number) then just say ';Oh cool'; But don't walk away right away! Its like going up to her and saying ';Do you have a boyfriend because I dont want to waste my time';
This is good because it's a good way to find out if she has a boyfriend right away, so you dont waste all this time on her, when she's taken.
And if seh seems to want to talk then its a good sign too.
Use you Imagination!!
Good luck!
PS
Dont let there be a bunch of long pauses because then she thinks ';Is this what the date is going to be like?';
How do i initiate a conversation with a girl in school?
Im In highschool and ive always found the hardest part about talking to girls was initiating the conversation. Please give me some tips or something, Girl input appreciated :)
I Dont know how to walk up and start a conversation without seeming wierd, Especially if its with someone i dont know wellHow do i initiate a conversation with a girl in school?
Okay it might be weird awkward at first, but if u act natural like it's no big deal, it won't be! Just don't act like a jerk or that u don't care at all if you know what i mean.
Just be like hey did you get the homework from last night?
Or even hey whats up, ur in my blah class? How's it going?
Ummm idk what else. The most important thing is to just talk. You could probably say something kind of stupid and it wouldn't matter, just as long as you get the conversation rolling.
Us girls like it when a guy comes up to us and starts a conversation, it makes them feel special.
If it's awkard at first just relax, both of you will forget if u keep talking and get past that.
You can do it!!!! Hahaha. Good luck :)
I Dont know how to walk up and start a conversation without seeming wierd, Especially if its with someone i dont know wellHow do i initiate a conversation with a girl in school?
Okay it might be weird awkward at first, but if u act natural like it's no big deal, it won't be! Just don't act like a jerk or that u don't care at all if you know what i mean.
Just be like hey did you get the homework from last night?
Or even hey whats up, ur in my blah class? How's it going?
Ummm idk what else. The most important thing is to just talk. You could probably say something kind of stupid and it wouldn't matter, just as long as you get the conversation rolling.
Us girls like it when a guy comes up to us and starts a conversation, it makes them feel special.
If it's awkard at first just relax, both of you will forget if u keep talking and get past that.
You can do it!!!! Hahaha. Good luck :)
How can a good looking guy talk to the average girl without creating something awkward?
I can't talk to girls, at least, not without being high as a kite or drunk. I didn't grow up thinking I was very good looking at all. I learned I was later as I developed. Girls ARE attracted to me; I can see it! Last Week, I was at the beach with my friends. We were all kind of high on some legal research chemicals; it was fun actually. That aside though. The reason I mentioned that is cause it gave my shy friend, Robby, the guts to go talking to girls. The thing is, I kept saying that the girls were looking at him, cause I was trying to encourage him, and it worked. But every girl kept looking at me, actually, I know, cause they looked right at me and smiled. A few of the girls from the first group he talked to and some from the next. I know for sure, cause when he went to talk to them, I sat back a ways and the girls were still looking away from him from time to time and flashing a smile once in a while. I smiled back but that was it. I finally got the nerve to walk up to the first group when they were leaving and say ';hi.'; I asked which part of the Island they were from. And the one girl responded, ';That way.'; She said this instead of saying the West side, or City, or anything. It made me feel kind of blown off, like she didn't want to speak to me. So I went back up the beach. Anyway, it's taken me forever just to get this far. I'm already 30 and I've dealt with this my whole life. I would really like to meet a good girl, well, and, truthyfully, have some AWESOME SEX. But this isn't happenin as long as meeting girls is so awkward. Anyway, I've come to know what it is. I'm a really decent looking guy. The reason the girl responded ';that way'; is because she was at a loss for words or shy, or whatever. I realize this afterwards after years of experience and finally figuring it out. I need bold women who carry on conversations I guess, intelligently. I don't know. For a good looking guy, you either got to be really bold and on top of everything with humor, be going after the really good looking girls (****, they intimidate me!). Being better looking pushed a lot of girls away over the years. See, what it is, is that if you are not super outgoing and you don't respond to flirts from girls right away, because you are shy and ignorant to their language, like I was, these girls take a lack of response or the wrong response as a rejection real quick. In my mind, I'm still flowing, just ';slowly.'; But by the time I ever got around to making the move after easing in and feeling comfortable, they usually kind of reject me. It's phucking awkward and sucks. So, see why I have to be loaded to even talk? I'm not the type to be able to pull up all kinds of rabbits out of my hat, and I'm already 30 and I can't do this sh..it anymore. I don't want to be 40 and saying the same phuckin thing as I was saying when I was 14, 20's, and now 30. Any help is appreciated.How can a good looking guy talk to the average girl without creating something awkward?
I can't read your novelHow can a good looking guy talk to the average girl without creating something awkward?
dude, i reading all your text, man, i am in the same situation, just like you, belive me... if you find the answer please let me know... i added you to my contacts...
As a shy girl, I give you some pointers. The MOST important think a guy have to show is interest but NOT come off TOO strong. This could be by coming up to the girl and she saying, I notice your hairband or whatever and it goes well with your shirt. (some kind of conversation) then at the end of the conversation. ';Oh I am sorry, I haven't introduce myself, you, it was pleasure meeting you, would you like to go for coffee sometime?';....or even less threatening ';Nice weather, etc?'; Just make a question-statement that is positive. NEVER EVER come off offensive, such as you are hot, what your nationality? etc...
(best to think that you are making a new friend rather than get the girl - that way you come off genuinely interested in HER)
Come off as confident but modest with humor! If a girl ask you what you are driving, house, job, etc...Stay very humble and funny about it. Such as ';I am riding a 6 window limo on most days, but everyone calls it the bus.'; (GOAL - is to make the girl remember you as friendly, charming, funny, and modesty confident)
Good looks is pretty common but good looks and great personality - WINNER for girl and you.
I can't read your novelHow can a good looking guy talk to the average girl without creating something awkward?
dude, i reading all your text, man, i am in the same situation, just like you, belive me... if you find the answer please let me know... i added you to my contacts...
As a shy girl, I give you some pointers. The MOST important think a guy have to show is interest but NOT come off TOO strong. This could be by coming up to the girl and she saying, I notice your hairband or whatever and it goes well with your shirt. (some kind of conversation) then at the end of the conversation. ';Oh I am sorry, I haven't introduce myself, you, it was pleasure meeting you, would you like to go for coffee sometime?';....or even less threatening ';Nice weather, etc?'; Just make a question-statement that is positive. NEVER EVER come off offensive, such as you are hot, what your nationality? etc...
(best to think that you are making a new friend rather than get the girl - that way you come off genuinely interested in HER)
Come off as confident but modest with humor! If a girl ask you what you are driving, house, job, etc...Stay very humble and funny about it. Such as ';I am riding a 6 window limo on most days, but everyone calls it the bus.'; (GOAL - is to make the girl remember you as friendly, charming, funny, and modesty confident)
Good looks is pretty common but good looks and great personality - WINNER for girl and you.
How to talk to girls at a party?
I'm going to this party tonight with only people who are strangers to me. I want to talk to girls but I don't know how. Got any advice?How to talk to girls at a party?
Smile and talk about interesting things. If you're happy and socialable people will want to talk to you!How to talk to girls at a party?
Just be sweet and friendly if you kindly introduce yourself i'm sure you'll have girls to chat with all night.
Try avoiding any dirty jokes or comments though, girls are very easily offended.
Good Luck :)
They aren't from another planet.
Be nice and respectful and go talk to them.
They won't bite, unless you're lucky.
Smile and talk about interesting things. If you're happy and socialable people will want to talk to you!How to talk to girls at a party?
Just be sweet and friendly if you kindly introduce yourself i'm sure you'll have girls to chat with all night.
Try avoiding any dirty jokes or comments though, girls are very easily offended.
Good Luck :)
They aren't from another planet.
Be nice and respectful and go talk to them.
They won't bite, unless you're lucky.
I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
We're both on the track team. There's a lot of people in this close group, maybe like 60 (half girls half guys). The guys hang out with the guys at practice, and girls with girls (for the most part). Once in a while a guy who is good with talking to girls will talk to the girls team.
I'm not one of those guys. I talk to this girl I like once in a while, pretty much only if we're alone. In groups though, she's always in a big group of girls so I can't talk to her. I don't see her during school, only during practice.
She's not that easy to talk to either, as in she won't keep a conversation going. So, on top of having very little opportunity to talk to her, she talks to too many other people to actually have time to carry on a decent conversation with me.
I really like her and want to talk to her. But how can I?I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.
Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.
And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL
She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.
But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]
You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]
And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.
If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
find a reason to talk to her. like ask her for help on homework or something where she has to meet up with you and you alone. then find something good to talk to her about! then see where it goes from there :)
Well is it just only her that is hard for you to talk to? Just emagine in your mind she is just friend n that will help you.. Ask her how her day was or why she decided to be on the track team or what are her plans for the summer.. Ask her a question that could have alot of answers so it keeps the conversation goin for a while and make it a comfertable question that wouldnt be akward for any of you and would be easy for u to talk about to.. Ask her a question and then look at the time and be like upps i forgot bablabla n make something up but ask her a question that u think she would be really eager to answer and if she stops u to tell u then shes interested but if shes just like umm ok then shes not to interested in talking to u..... GOOD LUCK :-)
u should send her little notes or something.
let her know that you like her.
dont just hide your feelings.
I'm not one of those guys. I talk to this girl I like once in a while, pretty much only if we're alone. In groups though, she's always in a big group of girls so I can't talk to her. I don't see her during school, only during practice.
She's not that easy to talk to either, as in she won't keep a conversation going. So, on top of having very little opportunity to talk to her, she talks to too many other people to actually have time to carry on a decent conversation with me.
I really like her and want to talk to her. But how can I?I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.
Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.
And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL
She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.
But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]
You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]
And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.
If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
find a reason to talk to her. like ask her for help on homework or something where she has to meet up with you and you alone. then find something good to talk to her about! then see where it goes from there :)
Well is it just only her that is hard for you to talk to? Just emagine in your mind she is just friend n that will help you.. Ask her how her day was or why she decided to be on the track team or what are her plans for the summer.. Ask her a question that could have alot of answers so it keeps the conversation goin for a while and make it a comfertable question that wouldnt be akward for any of you and would be easy for u to talk about to.. Ask her a question and then look at the time and be like upps i forgot bablabla n make something up but ask her a question that u think she would be really eager to answer and if she stops u to tell u then shes interested but if shes just like umm ok then shes not to interested in talking to u..... GOOD LUCK :-)
u should send her little notes or something.
let her know that you like her.
dont just hide your feelings.
How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
I can never seem to talk to this girl when she is with her friends. I always get nervous and just walk to my locker. I'm pretty sure she knows I avoid her when she is talking with her friends on purpose. How can I just go up and not be shy to talk to her?
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever. The only time I really talk to her lots is on MSN and it bothers me cause I would rather just talk to her in person.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
If she knows you avoid her and shes still talkin to her friends she probably dont wanna talk to you or is testing your confidence. So just go talk to her. youll never know unless you trysocial security tax good face cream
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever. The only time I really talk to her lots is on MSN and it bothers me cause I would rather just talk to her in person.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
If she knows you avoid her and shes still talkin to her friends she probably dont wanna talk to you or is testing your confidence. So just go talk to her. youll never know unless you try
I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
We're both on the track team. There's a lot of people in this close group, maybe like 60 (half girls half guys). The guys hang out with the guys at practice, and girls with girls (for the most part). Once in a while a guy who is good with talking to girls will talk to the girls team.
I'm not one of those guys. I talk to this girl I like once in a while, pretty much only if we're alone. In groups though, she's always in a big group of girls so I can't talk to her. I don't see her during school, only during practice.
She's not that easy to talk to either, as in she won't keep a conversation going. So, on top of having very little opportunity to talk to her, she talks to too many other people to actually have time to carry on a decent conversation with me.
I really like her and want to talk to her. But how can I?I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.
Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.
And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL
She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.
But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]
You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]
And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.
If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
find a reason to talk to her. like ask her for help on homework or something where she has to meet up with you and you alone. then find something good to talk to her about! then see where it goes from there :)
Well is it just only her that is hard for you to talk to? Just emagine in your mind she is just friend n that will help you.. Ask her how her day was or why she decided to be on the track team or what are her plans for the summer.. Ask her a question that could have alot of answers so it keeps the conversation goin for a while and make it a comfertable question that wouldnt be akward for any of you and would be easy for u to talk about to.. Ask her a question and then look at the time and be like upps i forgot bablabla n make something up but ask her a question that u think she would be really eager to answer and if she stops u to tell u then shes interested but if shes just like umm ok then shes not to interested in talking to u..... GOOD LUCK :-)
u should send her little notes or something.
let her know that you like her.
dont just hide your feelings.
I'm not one of those guys. I talk to this girl I like once in a while, pretty much only if we're alone. In groups though, she's always in a big group of girls so I can't talk to her. I don't see her during school, only during practice.
She's not that easy to talk to either, as in she won't keep a conversation going. So, on top of having very little opportunity to talk to her, she talks to too many other people to actually have time to carry on a decent conversation with me.
I really like her and want to talk to her. But how can I?I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.
Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.
And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL
She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.
But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]
You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]
And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.
If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]I can't talk to the girl I like at school?
find a reason to talk to her. like ask her for help on homework or something where she has to meet up with you and you alone. then find something good to talk to her about! then see where it goes from there :)
Well is it just only her that is hard for you to talk to? Just emagine in your mind she is just friend n that will help you.. Ask her how her day was or why she decided to be on the track team or what are her plans for the summer.. Ask her a question that could have alot of answers so it keeps the conversation goin for a while and make it a comfertable question that wouldnt be akward for any of you and would be easy for u to talk about to.. Ask her a question and then look at the time and be like upps i forgot bablabla n make something up but ask her a question that u think she would be really eager to answer and if she stops u to tell u then shes interested but if shes just like umm ok then shes not to interested in talking to u..... GOOD LUCK :-)
u should send her little notes or something.
let her know that you like her.
dont just hide your feelings.
How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
I can never seem to talk to this girl when she is with her friends. I always get nervous and just walk to my locker. I'm pretty sure she knows I avoid her when she is talking with her friends on purpose. How can I just go up and not be shy to talk to her?
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever. The only time I really talk to her lots is on MSN and it bothers me cause I would rather just talk to her in person.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
If she knows you avoid her and shes still talkin to her friends she probably dont wanna talk to you or is testing your confidence. So just go talk to her. youll never know unless you try
Whenever she is talking to me, her friends join in whenever. The only time I really talk to her lots is on MSN and it bothers me cause I would rather just talk to her in person.How do you talk to a girl when she is with her friends?
If she knows you avoid her and shes still talkin to her friends she probably dont wanna talk to you or is testing your confidence. So just go talk to her. youll never know unless you try
How to talk to a girl like this?
WOW this is long but help this could be my dream girl
Not really sure how to talk to this girl im 16, shes 14 about to be 15 and like shes hot like reallly really hot rite like me and my friends are all really picky and like we all agree shes hot. Well long story short i asked one of my friends to ask her if she wanted to meet me and she was like sure hes a cutie but i gtg ill talk to him later so i talked to her over myspace blah blah small talk but like it seemed like she was tryin to act stuck up but at the same time she was actin like she wanted to talk to me its weird i know but like the way i talk to girls is i do its kinda casual and like i walked past her in the hallway and she was like arent u that guy i talked to over myspace and i was like yea i hardly ever see u cuz my view is up here im like 6'3 and shes like 5'3 lol. Her friend was dieing laughing but she like laughed but then turned it into a serouis face like trying to hold it bac and we talked for like 5mins then she was like bye gtg then i was like wait can i get a hug.....she smiled for a sec then seroius face again then gave me a hug and left so i dunno how can i deal with a girl like this.How to talk to a girl like this?
smooth, and nice by asking for the hug! but lets see, most times just by holding your arms open for a hug when you and the girl do make eye contact would help. this should get her attention, but don't hold me to that. keep up with the casual way to flirt, maybe every now and then show interest, but most likely her or her friend will notice then she will see the big picture (:
and hey just because she is little the hugs wont be that akward! take it from a lil gal. plus, she'll grow so it wont always be a foot in height difference.
good luck with the girl!How to talk to a girl like this?
Haha dude thats funny. But anyway just keep trying with her she will open up soon. Maybe she doesnt let her guard down as fast as other girls ya kno? I say keep talking and be your funny self haha but if you need anything else hit me up bro.
peace
Not really sure how to talk to this girl im 16, shes 14 about to be 15 and like shes hot like reallly really hot rite like me and my friends are all really picky and like we all agree shes hot. Well long story short i asked one of my friends to ask her if she wanted to meet me and she was like sure hes a cutie but i gtg ill talk to him later so i talked to her over myspace blah blah small talk but like it seemed like she was tryin to act stuck up but at the same time she was actin like she wanted to talk to me its weird i know but like the way i talk to girls is i do its kinda casual and like i walked past her in the hallway and she was like arent u that guy i talked to over myspace and i was like yea i hardly ever see u cuz my view is up here im like 6'3 and shes like 5'3 lol. Her friend was dieing laughing but she like laughed but then turned it into a serouis face like trying to hold it bac and we talked for like 5mins then she was like bye gtg then i was like wait can i get a hug.....she smiled for a sec then seroius face again then gave me a hug and left so i dunno how can i deal with a girl like this.How to talk to a girl like this?
smooth, and nice by asking for the hug! but lets see, most times just by holding your arms open for a hug when you and the girl do make eye contact would help. this should get her attention, but don't hold me to that. keep up with the casual way to flirt, maybe every now and then show interest, but most likely her or her friend will notice then she will see the big picture (:
and hey just because she is little the hugs wont be that akward! take it from a lil gal. plus, she'll grow so it wont always be a foot in height difference.
good luck with the girl!How to talk to a girl like this?
Haha dude thats funny. But anyway just keep trying with her she will open up soon. Maybe she doesnt let her guard down as fast as other girls ya kno? I say keep talking and be your funny self haha but if you need anything else hit me up bro.
peace
How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
There's this girl at my high school. She is younger than me and I'm like 99% sure she likes me and I obviously like her too, but I got no idea how to start a conversation with her. I see her at lunch and in between classes, but we always ';exchange looks'; at lunch, which is what initially gave me the feeling she likes me. I have no idea how to start talking to her... Any advice?How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
Get a friend to ask her out, and or add her on myspace or facebook and or ask her a question...
Get a friend to ask her out, and or add her on myspace or facebook and or ask her a question...
How to talk to girls at school?
Everytime I see a girl at school that I don't know or have classes with, I'm not sure how to attract her. What are some ways getting their numbers?How to talk to girls at school?
make an observation about what shes doing. then relate to it, then ask a question. it shows yer paying attention, it shows that you can relate (have stuff in common) and shows that you are interested in her and her opinion.How to talk to girls at school?
Be direct and brave. It's 21 century. Shyness won't appeal to girls' interests.
well just become friends. then when she likes you as a friend you could tell her something like let me call you later so could i have you number.
find a friend in common. or if you dont have one just smile at her when you walk past her in the hallway. trust me she'll smile back......unless shes like me and thinks your smiling at someone behind her or something cuz that happens to me a lot...heheheh.
Easy drive a nice car, have money, and show that you don't care if you don't know anybody that's it act like you chillin.
Honestly talking to them isnt the biggest problem you'll have, its actually getting the courage to do it.
Although the girls here will tell you how to approach them...most will feel kinda awkward when a guy actually does lol
But anyways cry to open up with a joke something to get her smiling, this means a hit or miss situation. Could start with a hey arent you in my class, she says yea then you ask about the class like the work sucks or its cool such and such
Hey Man Chill I Have Been Through There Just Act Cool Man But Always Look At Them In The Eyes And Tell Them If They Would Like To Hang Out And Then Ask For The Number It Will Work Unless The Person Doesn't Like You
you say
';i seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?';
I usually tell a joke that gets attention, and y'know. After a little bit ask her for her number o_0
Make a comment on something that relates to her, tease her, get a minor convo going then, ';I'd love to talk more, but I have to go. Wanna exchange numbers?';
If she asks to only take yours just cut the line and move on.
Just be sweet, and i know this sounds corny but being yourself is very important! dintt come on too strong at the beginning or you will seem desperate, i would talk to a girl for about a week before asking for her number so you won't seem like you are desperate.
you are beautiful, can i take you out to coffee?
\
ok really this will go against your feeble guy code but !
Numbers, chick and number of girls you bang
MEAN nothing in the real world and really no girl likes a player we to other guys ya sure ur a stud but to girls your a jerk
but
talking to girls is easy! just be your self and be NICE no fart jokes or saying he hun nice *** as soon as you comet on her body ( not knowing her ) your branded a jerk unless it is something nice like you have really pretty eyes or you are beautiful
NO words like
Hot, smoken, sexy, HUGE
girls love to be called beautiful not hot
dont tell her she had a nice rack all u will get is a slap
be your self and that is all !!how to start dreads with short hair
make an observation about what shes doing. then relate to it, then ask a question. it shows yer paying attention, it shows that you can relate (have stuff in common) and shows that you are interested in her and her opinion.How to talk to girls at school?
Be direct and brave. It's 21 century. Shyness won't appeal to girls' interests.
well just become friends. then when she likes you as a friend you could tell her something like let me call you later so could i have you number.
find a friend in common. or if you dont have one just smile at her when you walk past her in the hallway. trust me she'll smile back......unless shes like me and thinks your smiling at someone behind her or something cuz that happens to me a lot...heheheh.
Easy drive a nice car, have money, and show that you don't care if you don't know anybody that's it act like you chillin.
Honestly talking to them isnt the biggest problem you'll have, its actually getting the courage to do it.
Although the girls here will tell you how to approach them...most will feel kinda awkward when a guy actually does lol
But anyways cry to open up with a joke something to get her smiling, this means a hit or miss situation. Could start with a hey arent you in my class, she says yea then you ask about the class like the work sucks or its cool such and such
Hey Man Chill I Have Been Through There Just Act Cool Man But Always Look At Them In The Eyes And Tell Them If They Would Like To Hang Out And Then Ask For The Number It Will Work Unless The Person Doesn't Like You
you say
';i seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?';
I usually tell a joke that gets attention, and y'know. After a little bit ask her for her number o_0
Make a comment on something that relates to her, tease her, get a minor convo going then, ';I'd love to talk more, but I have to go. Wanna exchange numbers?';
If she asks to only take yours just cut the line and move on.
Just be sweet, and i know this sounds corny but being yourself is very important! dintt come on too strong at the beginning or you will seem desperate, i would talk to a girl for about a week before asking for her number so you won't seem like you are desperate.
you are beautiful, can i take you out to coffee?
\
ok really this will go against your feeble guy code but !
Numbers, chick and number of girls you bang
MEAN nothing in the real world and really no girl likes a player we to other guys ya sure ur a stud but to girls your a jerk
but
talking to girls is easy! just be your self and be NICE no fart jokes or saying he hun nice *** as soon as you comet on her body ( not knowing her ) your branded a jerk unless it is something nice like you have really pretty eyes or you are beautiful
NO words like
Hot, smoken, sexy, HUGE
girls love to be called beautiful not hot
dont tell her she had a nice rack all u will get is a slap
be your self and that is all !!
How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
There's this girl at my high-school that is younger than me and I like 99% sure she likes me and I obviously like her too but I got no idea hw to start a conversation with her. I see her at lunch sometimes, but I never know how to start talking to her... Any advice?How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
Walk up to her and smile. DO NOT do anything else. Just keep smiling. She will get the hint.How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
But be sure you don't smile creepily if a guy came up to me and just kept smiling it might creep me out... Why not say hi as well....
Stare at her and smile while you walk by. When she sits down at the lunch table go up with one of your friends and say lets sit her today. Sit right across the table from her and she'll know. You guys will start talking it will be like second nature to you in a couple of days!
compliment her somehow, ask what she did/is doing in the weekend, anything to get a conversation going. try and get her alone so there isnt the intimadation of her/your friends.
Start slow, she'll get the hint.
Maybe look at her and smile. Then find ways to be closer to where she is. Within a week it should probably be less awkward to strike a conversation when you guys see each other around regularly for a while.
Walk up to her and smile. DO NOT do anything else. Just keep smiling. She will get the hint.How to talk to a girl I like but never talked to?
But be sure you don't smile creepily if a guy came up to me and just kept smiling it might creep me out... Why not say hi as well....
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Stare at her and smile while you walk by. When she sits down at the lunch table go up with one of your friends and say lets sit her today. Sit right across the table from her and she'll know. You guys will start talking it will be like second nature to you in a couple of days!
compliment her somehow, ask what she did/is doing in the weekend, anything to get a conversation going. try and get her alone so there isnt the intimadation of her/your friends.
Start slow, she'll get the hint.
Maybe look at her and smile. Then find ways to be closer to where she is. Within a week it should probably be less awkward to strike a conversation when you guys see each other around regularly for a while.
How do I talk to a girl I don't know?
I'm going to say my age at the bottom when you're done reading, or alot of you won't give me the chance to read what I just typed up.
I've always had a problem with girls. I can talk to them fine if they are in a class of mine, or if they are a random peer. I CANNOT in any way, shape or form approach a girl I do not know or have never seen before, if its a girl I see on the bus,skytrain etc. I've been told by many people I'm extremely good looking, that I should attempt getting into the movies, or model. Apparently girls my age are ';intimidated'; by me and I completely hate it.
There are the ';party'; type girls who have had many boyfriends, are high maintenance and tend to have slept around with alot of guys; these girls always take interest in me and want to talk to me and put out on me, but I am NOT attracted to these types of girls WHAT-SO-EVER. I think they are extremely shallow and am not attracted to them in any way.
Then there are the girls who don't put out, the ones who seem innocent and aren't really popular or known, but are very mature and have high morals. I always seem to be attracted to these girls. It seems IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with one as in a relationship. I've come across many cute looking girls on the skytrain or bus, in the past I tried to initiate conversation, but it seems like I end up scaring them or creeping them out (thats what it seems like to me) and it just doesn't work.
Now up until recently, I completely gave up and lost all motivation to even talk to girls. There has been times lately where a real cute looking girl who looks just like my type comes along and sits right beside me on the bench waiting for the bus, smiling at me- Now a days I don't even bother saying anything and sometimes I cant help myself but to give them a ';dirty'; look, and when we go our different ways I regret it and ask myself why the hell did I do that. In these situations, the girls tend to be a few years older than I am, because NOBODY thinks I'm my real age.
So I'm 16. I average an age of between 22-24. A problem I'd admit, is I grew up much too fast, I live on my own already. all due to my upbringing. I'm 5'9 190 lbs with almost NO FAT, I'm a health nut. I go to the gym 7 days a week and have been doing so since I was 14.Almost everyone at my gym thinks I take steroids, but I would never. I don't drink, I don't do any drugs. I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I just can't relate to most girls who are my age, who are usually shallow and immature.
What advice can you give me, reading all of this? I'm at wits end and I just completely gave up. I refuse to sleep around at parties with drunk girls. By looking at me, you would think I'm a player. and I tend to always get stereotyped this just by my looks.
(I know life isn't about chatting girls up etc, but I've recently started getting a bit lonely and would enjoy sharing my life with someone who deserved it)
Any advice, please. I really don't know what more I can doHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Hey
alot when yoru trying to approach a women without feeling like a creep great someone with a quick hi and a smile to know your inntetions are good. of talking to a woman is asking her how her day was and hows life
be respectful well still being able to be funny.
But most important dont be cocky at all. (major turn off)
You could have a better chance with older women because you are clearly responsible and have your own home.
and if you end up liking her and you think shes interested too ask for a number or ask where she lives (that could cause things to come natrually)
Well thats about all i got on the top of my head at eight in the morning
oh and btw i get the same problem in gym everyone thinks im on steroids because i have had an eight pack since grade six.
so i cant help you out there i wouldnt knowHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Stop judging all girls by putting them in neat little boxes. You don't really know which ones have high morals and which ones don't.
Your action could easily be seen as snobby or stuck up by some people.
You may look older, but you act like a teenager.
wow. thats a lot of thinking.
To be honest I think you only find someone whilst you aren't looking.
try not to give ';those girls'; a dirty look but dont smile and encourage them either.
Not all girls are extremely shallow and you'll see that in time. actually mostly girls act like they're easy because they have a low self esteem. you have to be really self confident and believe in your own values to not follow the crowd. That would be rare at 16
Do you have any other interests than the gym? Please dont take any offense but girls that you meet at the gym are mostly going to be body conscious and therefore shallow.
the train? not many lasting relationships occur by meeting someone on the train... hhmm treat it as practice.. if they seem uncomfortable you know not to say that again. no ones perfect.
If you haven't spoken to someone your interested in. be subtle. if there is a spare chair ask if you could sit there and say that you havent seen them around before. dont over compliment or be too nice or they will think you are a player. music is always a good topic. just little things. if they roll their eyes- laugh. if they smile, smile back.
if girls are intimidated by you make them laugh, drop something- whatever, to make them feel more comfortable.
people unfortunately do judge you by your looks. modelling is a lot more work than it looks and you get vain before you realise. dont try anything like that unless you are actually interested in it.
your only 16. just breathe. dont get too frustrated you still have a few years to begin dating yet!
And good luck :)
Sir, are you a peadophile?
WOW! you seem perfect. there are some girls at 16 that look for mature guys and who want to be treated with respect. maybe ask your m8s if they can set you up with one of there friends, then you know more about them and can see if they are your type and if they are mature enough etc, dont loose hope, the right person may be very close and you didnt realise they were there, just look into your group of m8s and mutual friends, you never know.
I have been going through the same thing but I have seem to overcome that by just letting myself go. What I am trying to say is to just wait and that time will come for someone to notice you.All I had to do was be patients and the time came...and truthfully once you talk to your first girl it will be easy. Just be PATIENT!!!
Its cus when they look at you they think that you are a player and that cus you are so gorgeous the ';normal'; girls are scared to tlk to you because they probably think you will laugh if they mess up and then you will tell the whole school, so either start hanging with the ';normal'; girls properly or get with one of the party chicks! they are gorgeous after all!
I've always had a problem with girls. I can talk to them fine if they are in a class of mine, or if they are a random peer. I CANNOT in any way, shape or form approach a girl I do not know or have never seen before, if its a girl I see on the bus,skytrain etc. I've been told by many people I'm extremely good looking, that I should attempt getting into the movies, or model. Apparently girls my age are ';intimidated'; by me and I completely hate it.
There are the ';party'; type girls who have had many boyfriends, are high maintenance and tend to have slept around with alot of guys; these girls always take interest in me and want to talk to me and put out on me, but I am NOT attracted to these types of girls WHAT-SO-EVER. I think they are extremely shallow and am not attracted to them in any way.
Then there are the girls who don't put out, the ones who seem innocent and aren't really popular or known, but are very mature and have high morals. I always seem to be attracted to these girls. It seems IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with one as in a relationship. I've come across many cute looking girls on the skytrain or bus, in the past I tried to initiate conversation, but it seems like I end up scaring them or creeping them out (thats what it seems like to me) and it just doesn't work.
Now up until recently, I completely gave up and lost all motivation to even talk to girls. There has been times lately where a real cute looking girl who looks just like my type comes along and sits right beside me on the bench waiting for the bus, smiling at me- Now a days I don't even bother saying anything and sometimes I cant help myself but to give them a ';dirty'; look, and when we go our different ways I regret it and ask myself why the hell did I do that. In these situations, the girls tend to be a few years older than I am, because NOBODY thinks I'm my real age.
So I'm 16. I average an age of between 22-24. A problem I'd admit, is I grew up much too fast, I live on my own already. all due to my upbringing. I'm 5'9 190 lbs with almost NO FAT, I'm a health nut. I go to the gym 7 days a week and have been doing so since I was 14.Almost everyone at my gym thinks I take steroids, but I would never. I don't drink, I don't do any drugs. I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I just can't relate to most girls who are my age, who are usually shallow and immature.
What advice can you give me, reading all of this? I'm at wits end and I just completely gave up. I refuse to sleep around at parties with drunk girls. By looking at me, you would think I'm a player. and I tend to always get stereotyped this just by my looks.
(I know life isn't about chatting girls up etc, but I've recently started getting a bit lonely and would enjoy sharing my life with someone who deserved it)
Any advice, please. I really don't know what more I can doHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Hey
alot when yoru trying to approach a women without feeling like a creep great someone with a quick hi and a smile to know your inntetions are good. of talking to a woman is asking her how her day was and hows life
be respectful well still being able to be funny.
But most important dont be cocky at all. (major turn off)
You could have a better chance with older women because you are clearly responsible and have your own home.
and if you end up liking her and you think shes interested too ask for a number or ask where she lives (that could cause things to come natrually)
Well thats about all i got on the top of my head at eight in the morning
oh and btw i get the same problem in gym everyone thinks im on steroids because i have had an eight pack since grade six.
so i cant help you out there i wouldnt knowHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Stop judging all girls by putting them in neat little boxes. You don't really know which ones have high morals and which ones don't.
Your action could easily be seen as snobby or stuck up by some people.
You may look older, but you act like a teenager.
wow. thats a lot of thinking.
To be honest I think you only find someone whilst you aren't looking.
try not to give ';those girls'; a dirty look but dont smile and encourage them either.
Not all girls are extremely shallow and you'll see that in time. actually mostly girls act like they're easy because they have a low self esteem. you have to be really self confident and believe in your own values to not follow the crowd. That would be rare at 16
Do you have any other interests than the gym? Please dont take any offense but girls that you meet at the gym are mostly going to be body conscious and therefore shallow.
the train? not many lasting relationships occur by meeting someone on the train... hhmm treat it as practice.. if they seem uncomfortable you know not to say that again. no ones perfect.
If you haven't spoken to someone your interested in. be subtle. if there is a spare chair ask if you could sit there and say that you havent seen them around before. dont over compliment or be too nice or they will think you are a player. music is always a good topic. just little things. if they roll their eyes- laugh. if they smile, smile back.
if girls are intimidated by you make them laugh, drop something- whatever, to make them feel more comfortable.
people unfortunately do judge you by your looks. modelling is a lot more work than it looks and you get vain before you realise. dont try anything like that unless you are actually interested in it.
your only 16. just breathe. dont get too frustrated you still have a few years to begin dating yet!
And good luck :)
Sir, are you a peadophile?
WOW! you seem perfect. there are some girls at 16 that look for mature guys and who want to be treated with respect. maybe ask your m8s if they can set you up with one of there friends, then you know more about them and can see if they are your type and if they are mature enough etc, dont loose hope, the right person may be very close and you didnt realise they were there, just look into your group of m8s and mutual friends, you never know.
I have been going through the same thing but I have seem to overcome that by just letting myself go. What I am trying to say is to just wait and that time will come for someone to notice you.All I had to do was be patients and the time came...and truthfully once you talk to your first girl it will be easy. Just be PATIENT!!!
Its cus when they look at you they think that you are a player and that cus you are so gorgeous the ';normal'; girls are scared to tlk to you because they probably think you will laugh if they mess up and then you will tell the whole school, so either start hanging with the ';normal'; girls properly or get with one of the party chicks! they are gorgeous after all!
How can I calm my nerves when I talk to this girl?
I like a girl in the grade below me, which is weird enough because I have never dated younger before.. but the problem is, I get really nervous whenever I try to have a conversation with her. Is there any mental strategies I can use to calm myself enough to talk to her without feeling extremely nervous?How can I calm my nerves when I talk to this girl?
If the girl likes you she probably gets just as nervouse as you do when talking to you. What guys don't relize is girls are just as panicky and nervouse as you! If anything wrose! When we like a guy and we say hi to him at first we will be all happy but then we will start over analyzinga nd be like oh my gosh I should have never done that, I probably looked so bad, I bet he hates me. So you having nerves is nothing! Just think about how she is probabaly going through worse.
If the girl likes you she probably gets just as nervouse as you do when talking to you. What guys don't relize is girls are just as panicky and nervouse as you! If anything wrose! When we like a guy and we say hi to him at first we will be all happy but then we will start over analyzinga nd be like oh my gosh I should have never done that, I probably looked so bad, I bet he hates me. So you having nerves is nothing! Just think about how she is probabaly going through worse.
Guys only (maybe ladies too): How do you talk to that girl after you have been rejected by that girl you like?
This is just a survey question of what one would do and how you guys would talk to that girl you like after being rejected.
I know I still ';kinda'; talk to them but just not as much. Or if we do talk, it's only if stuff needs to be dne but if not, I just kind of stop with the daily conversations slowly.Guys only (maybe ladies too): How do you talk to that girl after you have been rejected by that girl you like?
Is it abnormal for a guy to want to hook up with a hot babe? Dont take yourself too seriously. Also, you're dramatizing rejection...Did the girl say to you ';Please never speak to me ever again';. No!! No simply means that you have not made me comfortable enough to want to be around you. Until that comfort factor is established, you will view it as rejection. You have to be willing to trust her that you can open up to her and show her you do not take you too seriously, like to laugh, are fun to be with.Guys only (maybe ladies too): How do you talk to that girl after you have been rejected by that girl you like?
you move on. there is more fish in the sea
avoid, better yourself, and try again
Just pretend nothing were happened.
Guys are good at this, because, so far he is around, he might be able to get the girl 1 day.
I keep it short and get to the point.
';Hi, how are you doing?'; ';That's good to hear, well see you around!';
That's all.
try not to get down about it and hope that a girl will find intrest in you. trust me im the king of rejection =(
What did she reject? Just leave her alone. If she wants to continue to talk let her make the first move. However, don't be mean to her.
You don't you move on to the next one and hope there's no hard feelings from the last one.
I'll do what you do. It's not like you had went through a major disaster or lost an arm. It's a simple rejection and things just didn't worked.
I admire that ability in people to take on rejection in that sort of way; it shows maturity, 'coolness', confidence and sophitication.
Hope this helps
ignore her, if u become friends she will use you...please take my advice its the straight up truth
I know I still ';kinda'; talk to them but just not as much. Or if we do talk, it's only if stuff needs to be dne but if not, I just kind of stop with the daily conversations slowly.Guys only (maybe ladies too): How do you talk to that girl after you have been rejected by that girl you like?
Is it abnormal for a guy to want to hook up with a hot babe? Dont take yourself too seriously. Also, you're dramatizing rejection...Did the girl say to you ';Please never speak to me ever again';. No!! No simply means that you have not made me comfortable enough to want to be around you. Until that comfort factor is established, you will view it as rejection. You have to be willing to trust her that you can open up to her and show her you do not take you too seriously, like to laugh, are fun to be with.Guys only (maybe ladies too): How do you talk to that girl after you have been rejected by that girl you like?
you move on. there is more fish in the sea
avoid, better yourself, and try again
Just pretend nothing were happened.
Guys are good at this, because, so far he is around, he might be able to get the girl 1 day.
I keep it short and get to the point.
';Hi, how are you doing?'; ';That's good to hear, well see you around!';
That's all.
try not to get down about it and hope that a girl will find intrest in you. trust me im the king of rejection =(
What did she reject? Just leave her alone. If she wants to continue to talk let her make the first move. However, don't be mean to her.
You don't you move on to the next one and hope there's no hard feelings from the last one.
I'll do what you do. It's not like you had went through a major disaster or lost an arm. It's a simple rejection and things just didn't worked.
I admire that ability in people to take on rejection in that sort of way; it shows maturity, 'coolness', confidence and sophitication.
Hope this helps
ignore her, if u become friends she will use you...please take my advice its the straight up truth
How do I get this girl to like me?
Now she is way out of my league. She is a cool girl who I really realy like. But I'm fat and ugly. We only talked a few times and when a kid call me dumb, she stuck up for me and said, ';don't mess with him. He is my friend yo';. I really like her and I'm shy when it comes to talking with girls. I don't want to embarrasss my self when I try to talk to her.How do I get this girl to like me?
be friends first.
get to know each other. she may have stuck up for you but that doesn't mean she is looking for a romance...so take your time. go slow.
let her get used to your presence. be courteous, take care of your health and grooming.
say ';hello, how are you'; whenever you see her. her response will show you what to do next.How do I get this girl to like me?
the best thing to do is be her friend for a while and when shes down bring her up and tell jokes, i think it works, be yourself mainly
The biggest turn-on for girls is when guys are confident. If you don't like your looks, focus on things about yourself that you like and make sure she sees them. Also, girls like guys who are funny (without overdoing it) and who listen. Ask her how she is, and act really interested. One of my best girlfriends is dating a guy who isn't that good-looking, but he is such a gentleman and a sweetheart that me and my other friends are jealous that she found him first.
And while showing off your personality and confidence will help make up for attractiveness, it still won't hurt to hit the gym once in a while to help your chances. ;)How do you add message boards to a website peculiar personal problem
be friends first.
get to know each other. she may have stuck up for you but that doesn't mean she is looking for a romance...so take your time. go slow.
let her get used to your presence. be courteous, take care of your health and grooming.
say ';hello, how are you'; whenever you see her. her response will show you what to do next.How do I get this girl to like me?
the best thing to do is be her friend for a while and when shes down bring her up and tell jokes, i think it works, be yourself mainly
The biggest turn-on for girls is when guys are confident. If you don't like your looks, focus on things about yourself that you like and make sure she sees them. Also, girls like guys who are funny (without overdoing it) and who listen. Ask her how she is, and act really interested. One of my best girlfriends is dating a guy who isn't that good-looking, but he is such a gentleman and a sweetheart that me and my other friends are jealous that she found him first.
And while showing off your personality and confidence will help make up for attractiveness, it still won't hurt to hit the gym once in a while to help your chances. ;)
How do I talk to a girl I don't know?
I'm going to say my age at the bottom when you're done reading, or alot of you won't give me the chance to read what I just typed up.
I've always had a problem with girls. I can talk to them fine if they are in a class of mine, or if they are a random peer. I CANNOT in any way, shape or form approach a girl I do not know or have never seen before, if its a girl I see on the bus,skytrain etc. I've been told by many people I'm extremely good looking, that I should attempt getting into the movies, or model. Apparently girls my age are ';intimidated'; by me and I completely hate it.
There are the ';party'; type girls who have had many boyfriends, are high maintenance and tend to have slept around with alot of guys; these girls always take interest in me and want to talk to me and put out on me, but I am NOT attracted to these types of girls WHAT-SO-EVER. I think they are extremely shallow and am not attracted to them in any way.
Then there are the girls who don't put out, the ones who seem innocent and aren't really popular or known, but are very mature and have high morals. I always seem to be attracted to these girls. It seems IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with one as in a relationship. I've come across many cute looking girls on the skytrain or bus, in the past I tried to initiate conversation, but it seems like I end up scaring them or creeping them out (thats what it seems like to me) and it just doesn't work.
Now up until recently, I completely gave up and lost all motivation to even talk to girls. There has been times lately where a real cute looking girl who looks just like my type comes along and sits right beside me on the bench waiting for the bus, smiling at me- Now a days I don't even bother saying anything and sometimes I cant help myself but to give them a ';dirty'; look, and when we go our different ways I regret it and ask myself why the hell did I do that. In these situations, the girls tend to be a few years older than I am, because NOBODY thinks I'm my real age.
So I'm 16. I average an age of between 22-24. A problem I'd admit, is I grew up much too fast, I live on my own already. all due to my upbringing. I'm 5'9 190 lbs with almost NO FAT, I'm a health nut. I go to the gym 7 days a week and have been doing so since I was 14.Almost everyone at my gym thinks I take steroids, but I would never. I don't drink, I don't do any drugs. I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I just can't relate to most girls who are my age, who are usually shallow and immature.
What advice can you give me, reading all of this? I'm at wits end and I just completely gave up. I refuse to sleep around at parties with drunk girls. By looking at me, you would think I'm a player. and I tend to always get stereotyped this just by my looks.
(I know life isn't about chatting girls up etc, but I've recently started getting a bit lonely and would enjoy sharing my life with someone who deserved it)
Any advice, please. I really don't know what more I can doHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Hey
alot when yoru trying to approach a women without feeling like a creep great someone with a quick hi and a smile to know your inntetions are good. of talking to a woman is asking her how her day was and hows life
be respectful well still being able to be funny.
But most important dont be cocky at all. (major turn off)
You could have a better chance with older women because you are clearly responsible and have your own home.
and if you end up liking her and you think shes interested too ask for a number or ask where she lives (that could cause things to come natrually)
Well thats about all i got on the top of my head at eight in the morning
oh and btw i get the same problem in gym everyone thinks im on steroids because i have had an eight pack since grade six.
so i cant help you out there i wouldnt knowHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Stop judging all girls by putting them in neat little boxes. You don't really know which ones have high morals and which ones don't.
Your action could easily be seen as snobby or stuck up by some people.
You may look older, but you act like a teenager.
wow. thats a lot of thinking.
To be honest I think you only find someone whilst you aren't looking.
try not to give ';those girls'; a dirty look but dont smile and encourage them either.
Not all girls are extremely shallow and you'll see that in time. actually mostly girls act like they're easy because they have a low self esteem. you have to be really self confident and believe in your own values to not follow the crowd. That would be rare at 16
Do you have any other interests than the gym? Please dont take any offense but girls that you meet at the gym are mostly going to be body conscious and therefore shallow.
the train? not many lasting relationships occur by meeting someone on the train... hhmm treat it as practice.. if they seem uncomfortable you know not to say that again. no ones perfect.
If you haven't spoken to someone your interested in. be subtle. if there is a spare chair ask if you could sit there and say that you havent seen them around before. dont over compliment or be too nice or they will think you are a player. music is always a good topic. just little things. if they roll their eyes- laugh. if they smile, smile back.
if girls are intimidated by you make them laugh, drop something- whatever, to make them feel more comfortable.
people unfortunately do judge you by your looks. modelling is a lot more work than it looks and you get vain before you realise. dont try anything like that unless you are actually interested in it.
your only 16. just breathe. dont get too frustrated you still have a few years to begin dating yet!
And good luck :)
Sir, are you a peadophile?
WOW! you seem perfect. there are some girls at 16 that look for mature guys and who want to be treated with respect. maybe ask your m8s if they can set you up with one of there friends, then you know more about them and can see if they are your type and if they are mature enough etc, dont loose hope, the right person may be very close and you didnt realise they were there, just look into your group of m8s and mutual friends, you never know.
I have been going through the same thing but I have seem to overcome that by just letting myself go. What I am trying to say is to just wait and that time will come for someone to notice you.All I had to do was be patients and the time came...and truthfully once you talk to your first girl it will be easy. Just be PATIENT!!!
Its cus when they look at you they think that you are a player and that cus you are so gorgeous the ';normal'; girls are scared to tlk to you because they probably think you will laugh if they mess up and then you will tell the whole school, so either start hanging with the ';normal'; girls properly or get with one of the party chicks! they are gorgeous after all!
I've always had a problem with girls. I can talk to them fine if they are in a class of mine, or if they are a random peer. I CANNOT in any way, shape or form approach a girl I do not know or have never seen before, if its a girl I see on the bus,skytrain etc. I've been told by many people I'm extremely good looking, that I should attempt getting into the movies, or model. Apparently girls my age are ';intimidated'; by me and I completely hate it.
There are the ';party'; type girls who have had many boyfriends, are high maintenance and tend to have slept around with alot of guys; these girls always take interest in me and want to talk to me and put out on me, but I am NOT attracted to these types of girls WHAT-SO-EVER. I think they are extremely shallow and am not attracted to them in any way.
Then there are the girls who don't put out, the ones who seem innocent and aren't really popular or known, but are very mature and have high morals. I always seem to be attracted to these girls. It seems IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with one as in a relationship. I've come across many cute looking girls on the skytrain or bus, in the past I tried to initiate conversation, but it seems like I end up scaring them or creeping them out (thats what it seems like to me) and it just doesn't work.
Now up until recently, I completely gave up and lost all motivation to even talk to girls. There has been times lately where a real cute looking girl who looks just like my type comes along and sits right beside me on the bench waiting for the bus, smiling at me- Now a days I don't even bother saying anything and sometimes I cant help myself but to give them a ';dirty'; look, and when we go our different ways I regret it and ask myself why the hell did I do that. In these situations, the girls tend to be a few years older than I am, because NOBODY thinks I'm my real age.
So I'm 16. I average an age of between 22-24. A problem I'd admit, is I grew up much too fast, I live on my own already. all due to my upbringing. I'm 5'9 190 lbs with almost NO FAT, I'm a health nut. I go to the gym 7 days a week and have been doing so since I was 14.Almost everyone at my gym thinks I take steroids, but I would never. I don't drink, I don't do any drugs. I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I just can't relate to most girls who are my age, who are usually shallow and immature.
What advice can you give me, reading all of this? I'm at wits end and I just completely gave up. I refuse to sleep around at parties with drunk girls. By looking at me, you would think I'm a player. and I tend to always get stereotyped this just by my looks.
(I know life isn't about chatting girls up etc, but I've recently started getting a bit lonely and would enjoy sharing my life with someone who deserved it)
Any advice, please. I really don't know what more I can doHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Hey
alot when yoru trying to approach a women without feeling like a creep great someone with a quick hi and a smile to know your inntetions are good. of talking to a woman is asking her how her day was and hows life
be respectful well still being able to be funny.
But most important dont be cocky at all. (major turn off)
You could have a better chance with older women because you are clearly responsible and have your own home.
and if you end up liking her and you think shes interested too ask for a number or ask where she lives (that could cause things to come natrually)
Well thats about all i got on the top of my head at eight in the morning
oh and btw i get the same problem in gym everyone thinks im on steroids because i have had an eight pack since grade six.
so i cant help you out there i wouldnt knowHow do I talk to a girl I don't know?
Stop judging all girls by putting them in neat little boxes. You don't really know which ones have high morals and which ones don't.
Your action could easily be seen as snobby or stuck up by some people.
You may look older, but you act like a teenager.
wow. thats a lot of thinking.
To be honest I think you only find someone whilst you aren't looking.
try not to give ';those girls'; a dirty look but dont smile and encourage them either.
Not all girls are extremely shallow and you'll see that in time. actually mostly girls act like they're easy because they have a low self esteem. you have to be really self confident and believe in your own values to not follow the crowd. That would be rare at 16
Do you have any other interests than the gym? Please dont take any offense but girls that you meet at the gym are mostly going to be body conscious and therefore shallow.
the train? not many lasting relationships occur by meeting someone on the train... hhmm treat it as practice.. if they seem uncomfortable you know not to say that again. no ones perfect.
If you haven't spoken to someone your interested in. be subtle. if there is a spare chair ask if you could sit there and say that you havent seen them around before. dont over compliment or be too nice or they will think you are a player. music is always a good topic. just little things. if they roll their eyes- laugh. if they smile, smile back.
if girls are intimidated by you make them laugh, drop something- whatever, to make them feel more comfortable.
people unfortunately do judge you by your looks. modelling is a lot more work than it looks and you get vain before you realise. dont try anything like that unless you are actually interested in it.
your only 16. just breathe. dont get too frustrated you still have a few years to begin dating yet!
And good luck :)
Sir, are you a peadophile?
WOW! you seem perfect. there are some girls at 16 that look for mature guys and who want to be treated with respect. maybe ask your m8s if they can set you up with one of there friends, then you know more about them and can see if they are your type and if they are mature enough etc, dont loose hope, the right person may be very close and you didnt realise they were there, just look into your group of m8s and mutual friends, you never know.
I have been going through the same thing but I have seem to overcome that by just letting myself go. What I am trying to say is to just wait and that time will come for someone to notice you.All I had to do was be patients and the time came...and truthfully once you talk to your first girl it will be easy. Just be PATIENT!!!
Its cus when they look at you they think that you are a player and that cus you are so gorgeous the ';normal'; girls are scared to tlk to you because they probably think you will laugh if they mess up and then you will tell the whole school, so either start hanging with the ';normal'; girls properly or get with one of the party chicks! they are gorgeous after all!
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