How to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?

I don't have problems talking to girls in general, and I don't have problems with getting girls to like me, or going out with girls, or getting laid, either. I mean I'm not like great, but it deff happens on a regular basis lol. Like i dont go more than a month or 2 without getting into another relationship, usually.



(thats just to fill you in on the background)



with that said... this girl's latina, im white. Don't ask me why i go for spanish girls sometimes, cuz people have given me sh*t before about it. Idk, i like white girls and spanish girls. Also, she doesn't ever really talk to ANYbody. Like, ill be walking with friends or sometimes alone after class, and ive noticed that she doesn't ever walk with anybody- she walks alone. She's usually looking bored or sad/frowning, and sometimes she'll sleep thru the history class i have her in. She's attractive to ME, but on the other hand nobody else really thinks she is, at least nobody flirts with her or gives her the look, that ive noticed. She dresses kind of ghetto/spanish/mexican, if that's any help as to her personality or whatever. Just tryin to give all the info.



I only have a couple more questions:



1) what's the chance that since I only see her during and right after that class (we walk the same way), that she DOES have friends, but she simply ONLY likes other hispanic people, and therefore CHOOSES to not talk to anybody else, out of racism? She does sort of appear to not like whites or blacks or ANYbody but spanish... but im not so sure.



2) not to be conceited, but im an athletic goodlooking white guy with friends and money, better than avg. popularity, although im only about 5'7 and shes like 5'3... what are my chances of getting with her?



3) when and where and how should i talk to her? what should i say as an icebreaker?



4) im myself almost always, which is im talkative sometimes and chill/quiet/tired sometimes, and i dress preppy/athletic/surfer and i always speak my mind and i sound cool but still white, as i DO go to a pretty white school... would me being white turn her off? what do i do? LollllHow to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Well sounds like me and my past crush when I was in a all white H. school too. The cute jock never came up to me cuz he didn't have the gutts! Anyhow, maybe you will :).



1. It's not that she's racist. I was like that too. Prolly cuz she's independent (like most latinas grow up to be at such a young age that we don't care what else happens around us)



2.height doesn't matter obviously since you seem to like the ';laid back chick'; part about her. As long as she's shorter then you it works. So good chance there.



3.Just make eye contact, smile, and say hello!! to her with a smirk like you jocks do lol. umm lunch is a great place to start too! so get inline behind her or something and just say some remark about lunch...like that looks yummy or something funny.



4. Just be yourself just like she is herself and try to get to know her and her culture...her language. And I donno about you but I would love for my bf to know how to dance salsa! ;)How to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Oh my fricken gosh. You are a pig. Enough said. Get a life and talk to her yourself.
wow. you seem a little full of yourself there. but just say hi if she wants to talk to you she will don't force her to.
I think xlpps said it all. thumbs up for you x
lol
gave up half way through
talk to her and go for it
lol hm dont stress so much. If you force yourself on her then she will be more hesitant, ya know? Ask her some questions about how shes feeling/weekend/hmwk. Give her compliments!~ Dont give complements like sexy or anything...just genereal things...like hair or something thats TRUE. Be a gentalman, hold open doors for her and what not...



I can understand how you get agrivated about people thinking you are full of yourself, but be easy on describing yourself. Also sometimes people just get offened easy, so be careful on your wording. Its not only how you say it, but how you it is recieved...
just approach her tell her you like her.ask her out.(i just hope you dont play her)the height doesnt matter.act as if you are interested in history and ask her history questions.tell her how attractive and beautiful she is and buy her something nice.(listen to her first,see if you can hear what she is in need of or would like.good luck.
1- try to either talk to her or ask other people about her



2- Your chances are very good...unless she is racist...which i don't think so because most of the time people just like to hang out with people like them...



3- in class maybe? when your allowed to talk. what to say is what is interesting at the time...like a project...or something



4- its great ur ur self ^-^ likye i said...people tend to hang out with groups they feel that they fit in...try to kinda be open to her i guess...she could be shy i think...
Just talk to her. get to know her and just get to be her friend first because you dont just want to get into it and than just break up after a couple of weeks so just take it slow and just talk to her like a normal person and also just be her friend because than you will start o grow to be more than just friends. So just take it slow.
Make sure she aint taken...Cause i talk wit alot of latinas Most of them will have a Boyfriend out of school...And Yes itz true most of the time they are looking for a Spanish guy, Its hard to find a Spanish and White person together these days Especially the latinas that Dress ghetto/mexican.Are looking for a Latino guy with the same style



You Do have a chance depending on her expectations...Since most of the Time Latinas will always want to speak spanish to their loved ones since thats there style of showing love.



Start out by Talking with her and Try to become close with her...And shes gonna want to give a guy like you a chance. This gonna take time since you sound like a different type from her
Im shy too! So I think I can help! : )



1. Well she is shy so she probably doesn't feel comfortable talking to people out of her race.



2. I think if you give it a shot. You could actually end up with her. Girls like a guy who is funny, smart, nice, and honest.



3. Maybe before class starts you can talk to her. On purpose ask her what the homework was last night for a different class. Or plain out say you like her.



4. Probably not, just be yourself. Tell her you like her (blank) or tell her you think she is pretty. Girls love to hear that, but only say it if you mean it. Because, girls may think your just trying to go out with them.



HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!! Don't freak out!!!! : )
OK --- easy easy easy.



If you're so good at talking with girls, then why are you asking for advice on what to say for an icebreaker?



You're just a funny guy aren't you.

I would just let things ride, you're probably good at that.

You should slow down with the girls too, even though that'd probably kill your ego and your sex life. Chill out. You're not going to get a good consistant girlfriend if you bounce around so much.



Playa.
Broooooo, chillax dude...



You need to just go up to her and say ';I like your (fill in the blank).'; No matter how cliche that is.

Heres something that happened to a close friend o mine: He simply went up to some rocker chick with pink hair, said Hey, I like your hair, and he asked what music she listened to, and BAM, convrsation started. Simple as bakin brownies



Talk to her like you arent in love with her lol. Just as you met your friends. You know?



And wtf bro! Who honestly gives two Sh*ts about your race these days...



And REALLY listen to what she says bro. It helps to stare into her eyes... And thats my favorite technique to continuing conversations, a little secret between you and me, and whoeva reads this.



As for what others think, Im in the same position. She is the cutest girl ive EVER seen in my eyes, and shes also a really cool one indeed. But I noticed that everyone has a set taste. If you noticed, there are many similarities between the girls you like.



With that said, GOOD LUCK. I want to know how this turns out! lol