Im 14 and i have trouble with girls. I don't know what to talk about. Like in texting and myspace. My conversation are like hey what up or how are you then she said good and i say same then she doesn't reply. I want to get to know them good and not get annoying so i can hang out with them and talk to them in person but they always make up excuses not to or don't reply when i ask.How do you talk to a girl alot without being annoying?
Be funny. Say something random that will get their attention so they will have to ask you what it was about, and continue the conversation. Sarcasm is also good.How do you talk to a girl alot without being annoying?
Well Dnt Jus Say Same. You Can Say Same But Also With A Question Like This. ';Same, So What Did You Do Today.'; And If They Don't Reply Wen You Ask To Go Somewhere With Them Just Pretend Your Still Going But With Some Other Girl, Like On Your Mood And Status On Myspace Put ';Status: Went To Go See Transformers With This Amazing Girl. Mood: Funn :D'; Like That And Then The Other Girl Would Be Like I Should Have Went lol. Yahh Knw? :) Email Meh Wen Ever You Wanna Talk.
ReyhanaBaby1@yahoo.com Or Myspace
http://www.myspace.com/reyhanalovesyou
Ask questions about her and eventually she'll do all the talking, and like you because your a good listener =D
you can talkk to meee (:
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How to meet a nice girl to be friends with?
I don't really go out much, and I try to talk to girls all the time when I'm out shopping or whatever. I'm bisexual, and I wish I had a female friend I could relate to. Any advice?How to meet a nice girl to be friends with?
You see someone who seems nice. You go up to them and say hi and if you're shoping, complement their choice. Get into a discussion with them and try for a friendship. Join a club or something- plenty of nice girls.How to meet a nice girl to be friends with?
My Advice is that when you DO go to the mall don't approach random people. Instead go to your favorite places. For example if you like reading go to the bookstore, your favorite section and start up a conversation... Not something like ';The weather's nice...'; or anything.
I dont think myspace ir any sites like that are the way to go but I've made many a good friend on interpals.net ofcourse, this is a penpals site and not used to actually meet people in person (generally).
well there is always me i think i am nice at least i hope i am
but just keep trying i am sure there are lots of people who will like you if you just take the time to talk to them
talk to any girl you want to talk and at to any girl nicely than some day they think that you are good and want to be your friend too. just at nice to them.
well im hear for you ma....... ummm u can email me... oooh go to like chat rooms and things like that..... idk if u can get in this but try 2pac just go to google and type 2pac or tupac and go to his main and u can chat there.....
you can e-mail me we can be best fransss
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You see someone who seems nice. You go up to them and say hi and if you're shoping, complement their choice. Get into a discussion with them and try for a friendship. Join a club or something- plenty of nice girls.How to meet a nice girl to be friends with?
My Advice is that when you DO go to the mall don't approach random people. Instead go to your favorite places. For example if you like reading go to the bookstore, your favorite section and start up a conversation... Not something like ';The weather's nice...'; or anything.
I dont think myspace ir any sites like that are the way to go but I've made many a good friend on interpals.net ofcourse, this is a penpals site and not used to actually meet people in person (generally).
well there is always me i think i am nice at least i hope i am
but just keep trying i am sure there are lots of people who will like you if you just take the time to talk to them
talk to any girl you want to talk and at to any girl nicely than some day they think that you are good and want to be your friend too. just at nice to them.
well im hear for you ma....... ummm u can email me... oooh go to like chat rooms and things like that..... idk if u can get in this but try 2pac just go to google and type 2pac or tupac and go to his main and u can chat there.....
you can e-mail me we can be best fransss
lawl
How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
Same with some friends, some people stick around become a friend other leave or stop talking to me.
What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
well dude it happens to everyone
its been happening to for the last 2 years
i have a couple good friends that i've been friends with this whole time
but other friends just come and go and i talk to hardly at all, the same thing is happening with girls too to me so dont feel so worried stuff just happensHow come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
I have this guy friend who is extremely annoying. He is very social and talks a lot but heck, he is soooooooooo annoying because he likes to gossip and be nosy. Girls, especially, dislike him.
you have to stop talking to women as if they are friends...you have to go after them in a sexual but not perverted way..if you try to talk nice to them they get bored and go on their way
maybe you are awkward
or it could be your a hard person to make plans with. sometimes people get mad when they cant hang out.
if your extra busy with stuff then add socializing to your scedule.
if thats not the case maybe you should work on your social skills
What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
well dude it happens to everyone
its been happening to for the last 2 years
i have a couple good friends that i've been friends with this whole time
but other friends just come and go and i talk to hardly at all, the same thing is happening with girls too to me so dont feel so worried stuff just happensHow come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
I have this guy friend who is extremely annoying. He is very social and talks a lot but heck, he is soooooooooo annoying because he likes to gossip and be nosy. Girls, especially, dislike him.
you have to stop talking to women as if they are friends...you have to go after them in a sexual but not perverted way..if you try to talk nice to them they get bored and go on their way
maybe you are awkward
or it could be your a hard person to make plans with. sometimes people get mad when they cant hang out.
if your extra busy with stuff then add socializing to your scedule.
if thats not the case maybe you should work on your social skills
I don't know how to talk this girl?
There's this really cute girl (in my opinion) in my bus and she looks like a girl i had a crush on last year (but it's not her) anyways does anybody know how i should start a conversation with her? because i have no idea how to talk to a girl like her.I don't know how to talk this girl?
when you put so much value on her she'll put less value on you. Women are followers, if you set her above yourself, she will too. On the other hand if you set yourself above her, she will set herself below you. You mustn't be shy and either decide to use an indirect or direct opener. An indirect is like ';hey where is so and so place?'; but you have to be able to change topics, an direct opener immediatly signals interest...
If you want me to explain more, please do email me at hwasin.ssir@gmail.com.I don't know how to talk this girl?
find something that you both have in common with!
find someone who can speak to her and translate to you
I would start communicating in english first, then try spanish, if that doesn't work throw in some slavic words...try making clicking noises to resemble afrikan tongues, and keep watching her face carefully for any signs of a response.
Well you said she is on your bus, one day go and ask her if you can seat besides her then start talking pick anything to talk about comment on her shoes her hair her eyes whatever just start a conversation and try to keep it up talking about her, women usually like to talk about themselves.
Be kind and just say hi to her. Maybe sit near her but maybe not in the same seat . See if she brings up a subject and join in the conversation. Maybe you will find out what she likes and it will give you an idea about what you can talk to her about.
This answer comes from a girl so you can trust me...what i would do is just take a deep breath and introduce yourself or if no one is sitting next to her ask her if you can sit there then after you introduce yourself just talk to her about anything really....do that everyday and before you know it you'll be friends then just take from there
hope this helps!!! :D
Wow, I am in my 40's now, yes, old. I remembe too well what you are going through. Here is what I have learned. Talk to her about simple things. Don't seem too interested. Just talk. Let her come to you. If she is interested, she will want to talk more. Play it cool. Just relax and talk like she is just a regular guy. If you give her the impression that you are after her she will put her guard up. Have her chase you.
when you put so much value on her she'll put less value on you. Women are followers, if you set her above yourself, she will too. On the other hand if you set yourself above her, she will set herself below you. You mustn't be shy and either decide to use an indirect or direct opener. An indirect is like ';hey where is so and so place?'; but you have to be able to change topics, an direct opener immediatly signals interest...
If you want me to explain more, please do email me at hwasin.ssir@gmail.com.I don't know how to talk this girl?
find something that you both have in common with!
find someone who can speak to her and translate to you
I would start communicating in english first, then try spanish, if that doesn't work throw in some slavic words...try making clicking noises to resemble afrikan tongues, and keep watching her face carefully for any signs of a response.
Well you said she is on your bus, one day go and ask her if you can seat besides her then start talking pick anything to talk about comment on her shoes her hair her eyes whatever just start a conversation and try to keep it up talking about her, women usually like to talk about themselves.
Be kind and just say hi to her. Maybe sit near her but maybe not in the same seat . See if she brings up a subject and join in the conversation. Maybe you will find out what she likes and it will give you an idea about what you can talk to her about.
This answer comes from a girl so you can trust me...what i would do is just take a deep breath and introduce yourself or if no one is sitting next to her ask her if you can sit there then after you introduce yourself just talk to her about anything really....do that everyday and before you know it you'll be friends then just take from there
hope this helps!!! :D
Wow, I am in my 40's now, yes, old. I remembe too well what you are going through. Here is what I have learned. Talk to her about simple things. Don't seem too interested. Just talk. Let her come to you. If she is interested, she will want to talk more. Play it cool. Just relax and talk like she is just a regular guy. If you give her the impression that you are after her she will put her guard up. Have her chase you.
Talk to girl online I don't know?
I'm friends with this girl on facebook (yes I know she goes to my school). I think i may like her. How do i strike up a conversation with her even though she has no idea who i am???Talk to girl online I don't know?
Well she probably DOES know who you are, but doesnt really know you actually personally. Chances are, she is probably crushin on you 2! now, GET BRAVE AND STRIKE UP THAT CONVO! Just say ';Hey'; or something. start a conversation! you 2 might have alot in common, get to know each other a lot better, and hey, something more might start!
Well she probably DOES know who you are, but doesnt really know you actually personally. Chances are, she is probably crushin on you 2! now, GET BRAVE AND STRIKE UP THAT CONVO! Just say ';Hey'; or something. start a conversation! you 2 might have alot in common, get to know each other a lot better, and hey, something more might start!
How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
what tips can you guys or girls give me ? talk about what ?How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
People here have given some decent advice but here's the real deal. There is no shame in being shy. the shame is in not doing anything about it. u hafta attack it head on. start slowly by getting comfortable conversing with women u are attracted to. Talk about any and everything as the situation presents itself. Through this conversing you will know whether it's in your interest to take it to the next level. examples:If she is smiling and looking at u intently as u talk, asking questions she's probably interested. If she seems distant, not asking questions or responding with one or two word answers she's probably not.
Got it??How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
I've always found the following to be quite an icebreaker: ';Wow, those are huge. Are they real?';
Talk about you or her favorite things to do. and if your really feeling brave ask her what her favorite positions are and if she likes to give oral. something personal. Just be yourself and most of all have fun. OR email me.
the best thing to do is talk about something you know about....there are no set things to talk about....if she isnt interested in what you have to say you are better off without her
Get her drunk. Get yourself drunk.
I'm not kidding.
Girls always love compliments. Compliment her hair, her style of clothes, or something similar. Find out what similar interests you have with her and go with that.
go to the store or church or zoo or other public gathering place besides the bars that people gather at and look for women who seem to show the same interests as yourself them just start talking to them.
do not try to pick them up at first just get comfortable talking to them.
this will be good practice and then after a while when you feel more comfortable start asking them out.
If they say no don't even let it bother you just keep moving on till one of them says yes.
What to talk about
anything to get started.
it does not matter
well find a gurl u think is hot or that ure atracted to and walk up to her and say hi my name is xxxxxxx. then ask her some questions about her self like her favorit resturant. dont ask any personal %26lt;sexlife, pastrelationship%26gt; questions until u no she likes u. listen to her and do not enterupt when she is talking. when she finishes talking you can tell your point but stay on topic.but be honest. just be ure self but dont be rude.
be nice and sweet
u dont convience ppl to go out with u.just ask her out and if she is intrested she will say yes.and u know sometime us girls are just waiting on a guy to ask us if we like him.so maybe she is waiting for ur first move,u wont know what u worth and what ur capable of untill u give urself a chance to discover.good luck.
be yourself.
Dude, just go gay. It's probably your only hope.
I understand the cold feet and still i get them to. No one likes rejection or the fear of that first encounter but remember girls are people even the mean ones and they speak the same language we do and put on pants like we do. You might find that it doesn't have to be an event to ask a girl out. Find out what she likes to do or ask if she would like to go to something you like. Maybe ask if she would like to go to the city park and chat or swing. It does not have to be a major production just start simple. You will know long before you ask for a date. Hang out first and you might be suprised at what you find.
Listen......all you have to do is say....';hi, how are you'; Whats your name?? My name is _____ and I would like to get to know you. What do you say? Would you like to have coffee with me..........thats it, she will take it from there.....after that just listen and comment. She will do most of the talking.....good luck
People here have given some decent advice but here's the real deal. There is no shame in being shy. the shame is in not doing anything about it. u hafta attack it head on. start slowly by getting comfortable conversing with women u are attracted to. Talk about any and everything as the situation presents itself. Through this conversing you will know whether it's in your interest to take it to the next level. examples:If she is smiling and looking at u intently as u talk, asking questions she's probably interested. If she seems distant, not asking questions or responding with one or two word answers she's probably not.
Got it??How can convience a girl to go out with me ? I'm 21 and too shy plus i don't know how to talk to girls ?
I've always found the following to be quite an icebreaker: ';Wow, those are huge. Are they real?';
Talk about you or her favorite things to do. and if your really feeling brave ask her what her favorite positions are and if she likes to give oral. something personal. Just be yourself and most of all have fun. OR email me.
the best thing to do is talk about something you know about....there are no set things to talk about....if she isnt interested in what you have to say you are better off without her
Get her drunk. Get yourself drunk.
I'm not kidding.
Girls always love compliments. Compliment her hair, her style of clothes, or something similar. Find out what similar interests you have with her and go with that.
go to the store or church or zoo or other public gathering place besides the bars that people gather at and look for women who seem to show the same interests as yourself them just start talking to them.
do not try to pick them up at first just get comfortable talking to them.
this will be good practice and then after a while when you feel more comfortable start asking them out.
If they say no don't even let it bother you just keep moving on till one of them says yes.
What to talk about
anything to get started.
it does not matter
well find a gurl u think is hot or that ure atracted to and walk up to her and say hi my name is xxxxxxx. then ask her some questions about her self like her favorit resturant. dont ask any personal %26lt;sexlife, pastrelationship%26gt; questions until u no she likes u. listen to her and do not enterupt when she is talking. when she finishes talking you can tell your point but stay on topic.but be honest. just be ure self but dont be rude.
be nice and sweet
u dont convience ppl to go out with u.just ask her out and if she is intrested she will say yes.and u know sometime us girls are just waiting on a guy to ask us if we like him.so maybe she is waiting for ur first move,u wont know what u worth and what ur capable of untill u give urself a chance to discover.good luck.
be yourself.
Dude, just go gay. It's probably your only hope.
I understand the cold feet and still i get them to. No one likes rejection or the fear of that first encounter but remember girls are people even the mean ones and they speak the same language we do and put on pants like we do. You might find that it doesn't have to be an event to ask a girl out. Find out what she likes to do or ask if she would like to go to something you like. Maybe ask if she would like to go to the city park and chat or swing. It does not have to be a major production just start simple. You will know long before you ask for a date. Hang out first and you might be suprised at what you find.
Listen......all you have to do is say....';hi, how are you'; Whats your name?? My name is _____ and I would like to get to know you. What do you say? Would you like to have coffee with me..........thats it, she will take it from there.....after that just listen and comment. She will do most of the talking.....good luck
Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
Yeah a girl I met started talking to me for 2 weeks straight (on the phone, in person, and online). When I went on vacation she stopped talking to me and when I got back she gave me a lame excuse about how she was busy. She hinted that she was really interested, but then all of a sudden broke all communication with me....she even blocked me on AIM. Who does that? is this some psycho girl I'm dealing with?Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
Ouch! And we women wonder why men are such jerks. I think I've got a good idea why now - it's because of all the crap we put you through as adolescents! I'm sorry she did that to you, it's really sending out mixed messages. Young girls are really funny. One minute, they'll really like you and the next, they want nothing to do with you ...and you've just been standing there for two minutes trying to figure out what the hell's happening. She's not psycho, she's just a confused teenager who will someday feel badly for treating you like this.
I suggest you totally forget about her. Ignore her 100% Don't try to contact her, don't call her, don't write any letters. Ignore her. Quite often, when you ignore a girl, she'll chase after you all the more. It's another strange thing about girls. If you act like you don't care, they'll like you even more. If she doesn't chase after you, good! You don't want this one anyway. Next time, just act like you don't care and see what happens....Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
She met someone she likes better. Sorry!
She either likes someone new, or heard something about you that she doesn't like. That would be my guess anyways.
Sorry for you. The same thing has happened to me before. I didn't get a good reason out of her either. Her friends might not approve of you and that goes a long way with girls.
yes i agree she doesn't like you anymore sorry!
My husband had a woman do this to him just a couple of months before I met him and she was Bi-Polar. When she was in her manic phase she would be calling him and seeing him all the time and when she went through her depression phase she refused to talk to him. He finally after 3 weeks gave up on her and right after I met him she shows up on his doorstep wanting to get back together with him and she got mad because he was leaving his house to go on a date with me. I'm not saying that this is what is going on with your girl, but who knows?
we're just like that.
I'M 47 AND I MEMBER THOSE DAYS NEVER KNOW WHAT SHES THINKING????WHO CARES JUST B NICE THERES LOTS OF CHICKS OUT THERE START OVER WITH A NEW ONE MAKE HER JEALOUS THERE HORMONES R GOING CRAZY TOO GOOD LUCK
she had doubts about her feelings and probably met someone else...
the other reason could be that she aint ready to be this kind of relationship yet...
she still probably likes someone from the past
and didnt wanna hurt u by telling the truth so instead she started avoiding u..
dont worry you'll meet someone better than that...dont rush just wait...
Ouch! And we women wonder why men are such jerks. I think I've got a good idea why now - it's because of all the crap we put you through as adolescents! I'm sorry she did that to you, it's really sending out mixed messages. Young girls are really funny. One minute, they'll really like you and the next, they want nothing to do with you ...and you've just been standing there for two minutes trying to figure out what the hell's happening. She's not psycho, she's just a confused teenager who will someday feel badly for treating you like this.
I suggest you totally forget about her. Ignore her 100% Don't try to contact her, don't call her, don't write any letters. Ignore her. Quite often, when you ignore a girl, she'll chase after you all the more. It's another strange thing about girls. If you act like you don't care, they'll like you even more. If she doesn't chase after you, good! You don't want this one anyway. Next time, just act like you don't care and see what happens....Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
She met someone she likes better. Sorry!
She either likes someone new, or heard something about you that she doesn't like. That would be my guess anyways.
Sorry for you. The same thing has happened to me before. I didn't get a good reason out of her either. Her friends might not approve of you and that goes a long way with girls.
yes i agree she doesn't like you anymore sorry!
My husband had a woman do this to him just a couple of months before I met him and she was Bi-Polar. When she was in her manic phase she would be calling him and seeing him all the time and when she went through her depression phase she refused to talk to him. He finally after 3 weeks gave up on her and right after I met him she shows up on his doorstep wanting to get back together with him and she got mad because he was leaving his house to go on a date with me. I'm not saying that this is what is going on with your girl, but who knows?
we're just like that.
I'M 47 AND I MEMBER THOSE DAYS NEVER KNOW WHAT SHES THINKING????WHO CARES JUST B NICE THERES LOTS OF CHICKS OUT THERE START OVER WITH A NEW ONE MAKE HER JEALOUS THERE HORMONES R GOING CRAZY TOO GOOD LUCK
she had doubts about her feelings and probably met someone else...
the other reason could be that she aint ready to be this kind of relationship yet...
she still probably likes someone from the past
and didnt wanna hurt u by telling the truth so instead she started avoiding u..
dont worry you'll meet someone better than that...dont rush just wait...
How to ask girl out and get confidence?
I am fine with talking to girls. In fact most of my friends are girls. The problem is i cant ask them out
When i was in 6th grade i asked out a girl. 5 days later i dumped her and it was so akward. I never wanted to go thru that again. I like a girl but i dont have the courage to ask her out. How can i emotionlly prepare for this then whats a good way to ask her out also how to build confidence.How to ask girl out and get confidence?
Well, Just aks her...
There's really nothing to it.
Sure it's awkward but that's life.
As for confidence, look in your mirror and say
';Damn Im sexy!';
Good luck!
:]How to ask girl out and get confidence?
lol what the heck it worked it really does give you confidence.
When i was in 6th grade i asked out a girl. 5 days later i dumped her and it was so akward. I never wanted to go thru that again. I like a girl but i dont have the courage to ask her out. How can i emotionlly prepare for this then whats a good way to ask her out also how to build confidence.How to ask girl out and get confidence?
Well, Just aks her...
There's really nothing to it.
Sure it's awkward but that's life.
As for confidence, look in your mirror and say
';Damn Im sexy!';
Good luck!
:]How to ask girl out and get confidence?
lol what the heck it worked it really does give you confidence.
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How to talk to a random girl?
I was at the amusement park and wanted to talk to some girls but thought it would be awkward because they dont know me and I dont think I am that good looking. I thought maybe I could like ask where a ride was and than say something like ';by the way my name is ****, and me and my friend(s) were just wondering if you (and your other friends) want to come hang with us.'; Any help on how to get to become friends with a random girl at a carnival would be nice! Haha thanks!How to talk to a random girl?
haha i had the sam pob with guys u have to let ur shyness go to do it
good luk lol
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai0v5ZDYGbRCmgeVvs5D_oPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090827183228AAzQ6rU
haha i had the sam pob with guys u have to let ur shyness go to do it
good luk lol
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai0v5ZDYGbRCmgeVvs5D_oPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090827183228AAzQ6rU
How Can I start conversation with this girl?
So theres this girl i saw while i was Christmas shop.... she works at Victoria Secret Pink... ive never had a problem with talking to girls i just really dont know how to approach a girl at her job.. is there any way i should go about doing this??? its fine if she has a boyfriend as long as i try and get her off my mind cuz its all ive been thinkin bout since Christmas eve lol anythin helps thx!How Can I start conversation with this girl?
.What's the point.If she has a boyfriend she'll just ignore you.Go to where she works and ask her about the stores policy on returned goods.Take the opportunity to invite her for a coffee
.What's the point.If she has a boyfriend she'll just ignore you.Go to where she works and ask her about the stores policy on returned goods.Take the opportunity to invite her for a coffee
How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
Okay well I blew my chance at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free, but now her friends bother/circle her, and I can't get her alone to talk to her, or even like try to flirt with her.
We only have lunches together, and even then it is hard.How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
get one of your guy friends to talk to her friends while u talk to her
so they are distracted then do yourrrr thing =PHow can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
get her number
add her on myspace
facebook
aim.
anything to keep intouch with her.
dont let her friends get in the way of you talkign to her.
We only have lunches together, and even then it is hard.How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
get one of your guy friends to talk to her friends while u talk to her
so they are distracted then do yourrrr thing =PHow can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
get her number
add her on myspace
aim.
anything to keep intouch with her.
dont let her friends get in the way of you talkign to her.
How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
Okay well I blew my chance at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free, but now her friends bother/circle her, and I can't get her alone to talk to her, or even like try to flirt with her.
We only have lunches together, and even then it is hard.How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
Most girls look to her friends to get an opinion on a guy, so you have to have courage and talk to her and her friends in a group. You can't be scared, but if you're really that scared to talk to her when her friends are around try getting her phone number or add her on facebook or msn if she has it. Good luck! :)How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
I've always wondered this. It's prevented me from talking to many girls. I'd say just wait until the bell rings to go to class and follow her, not like stalking, just see where she goes and take this as an ';alternate'; route to class and when her friends go their separate ways then talk to her.
frist change those lunches to dinner maybe that will work.. and give her a letter that always cute..
Confidence works every time. Just walk up to her with her friends around and start talking to her. It will go a long way.
Just ask her to talk to you,
it can't hurt. Just go up to her, and be like
'Hey, can we hang out? :) '
Smile though, don't be so uptight and look nervous.
try and get her number or write her a letter or just tell her that u need to talk to her private
Go up to her while she's in her group of friends and ask her if you could talk to her or hang out sometime. She might like that. It worked on me. =)
hahhah see shoulda taken the chance while u had it! well if she was free once before, im sure she will b free once again. just this time, DO IT!! or you could try and join the conversation with her and her friends, if ur confident enough.
um, i never understand this about boys.. no offense:) but girls prefer it if you talk to them when their friends are around, and when their alone.. because otherwise it just seems as though you only talk to us when we're alone, and that doesnt feel right.. so speak to her always :) she will appriciate it. xx
Talk about what there talking, its not too hard. They are talking about X, ask questions about X. Get in the conversation.
your best bet would be to find one of these circling friends alone and just ask them to set the two of you up, or just have the friends leave when you come over during lunch.
girls love this kind of thing, and i'm sure one of her friends would me more than glad to help you out.
1.It's all about confidence! Maintain the attitude that she is lucky that you like her (make sure you are making her laugh, and in a nice way)--and if she doesn't see that she is lucky--well, there are plenty of girls who will. If you are not that confident, or you are shy, you should work on this dilemma by trying the ideas with some girls who are not your special crush. Learn the process with some nice girls who are friendly, and are not too scary.
2.Work up to that special one when you have had some good results with this process (and feel like it). Having butterflies in your tummy, and a catch or shake in your voice is fine; just don't give up or fall back just because it makes you feel shaky: that is actually a sign that she is impressive to you--tell her that she impresses you if you want to. Be prepared to tell ';what and why'; you notice her (to show that you mean it)...
3.Compliment her: Tell her she has a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes, but do not say something that is not true. And--don't say them one after the other! (It is highly recommended that you must talk about other things before complimenting or else it feels awkward)
4.Girls like it when boys try to defend them when someone makes fun of them or threatens them. However, in other settings like a workplace or college, these things would rarely occur.
5.In most cases, if you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you do not like her, so she won't like you.
6.Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly, so try doing that.
7.NEVER say to a girl that she is hot, it might make her very uncomfortable--like an object; say she is pretty or beautiful instead.
8.Give her your phone number, MySpace, IM, etc. when you know each other well enough.
9.If she asks if she looks bad or stupid, say no, no matter what you think. Never pause and think though that makes her think your lying
dont wimp out. talk to her whenever you see her. and if you're man enough, go up to her as soon as you se her friends around her. that will prove you're not afraid of rejection and will put you right on the market if you're....rejected.{{no offense}}
tell her to meet u in the hall during class or something
or wait after school
or myspace then tell her the prob then maybe she'll seperate herself if she likes u
Every guy who is really successful with girls knows that the best way to a girl is... thru her friends! You have to get her friend's approval -if they like you, then she will LOVE you! Because they will be encouraging her to get with you.
So, you talk to her friends first! You have to have confidence to be comfy doing this, but just look for an oppourtune moment. Say you see one of her friends drop something, take the chance to speak to the friend, then the rest of the group, including the girl you like =)
its always best when a guy just walks up and starts talking,
who cares what the other people think?
she will notice you soo much more if you just walk up,
trust me(:
confidence is KEY.
just make sure you have something to talk about,
dont just walk up there and say hey,
and she says hey back. and then you just stand there :)
plluuuss im sure after you talk to her this time, orr maybe a couple other times after,
she will make ways to talk to you alone.
she'll want to reach out after you do.
good luck :D
Get to know one of her friends as you'll probably find that'll you have a lot more confidence in talking to someone that doesn't mean much to you than to the girl your falling for, don't make the one you like too jealous, and make sure the friend of hers you talk to doesn't get too close to you.. and to avoid that talk about that cute girl you speak of to her friend, make it obvious you like her, then the path to finally talk to her will open my friend
try going with a group of guy friends so that theycan ditract the others or maybe you can all talk together and in the end she will be confident enough to talk to you alone.
or ask her if you can have a private conversation.
well I would definetly say if you like this girl you better find a way cause you dont never want to have what if.....but idk just get in good with the people she talk 2 and find one of them to help you try to get next to her and if that dont work write her a little note so that way u can slip it in her locker or in her book to meet you somewhere or have a school counselor give her the note to meet you somewhere......it worked for me the gettin to know one of his friends and now were friends....!!
well i hope i helped u Good Luck =D
well, that's tough.. the best thing would be to just approach her when she is kinda far from the group %26amp; tell her you want to talk to her, and then ask her if you guys could go somewhere and talk then or later at another place cause if you just say anything like commenting about the food, etc. she will think it's just a comment, so you need to let her know you want to talk to her.
this is kinda hard but saba tsh all her friends so they get a lunch detition and when at the beggening of luch if you school sells water botls byer one hpefeully shee lugs down and then when she have to go to bathroom go whith her like you do to then go when you here th tlit in the girls bathroom flush flush a stalll just case if trying to listen for thflush and quickly leave go in the hall whait by drinking at th water fountain also uses thi time to thainup a qustion to as her that will lead to aski you out her or her asking herout then when she walks past you say her name then as the qustion you wait after she past you because it will mke it so sh has to stop walking trust mea its harder to ask a girl out whil waking
champ,
whatever you do, dont try that stalker approach suggested by the guy above me, if she has noticed you checking her out in the past (probably has) then if you suddenly run into her ';by accident'; on the way home shes gonna be on yahoo answers that night posting up ';i have a stalker.... pls help!';. you definitely dont want that. im not sure how old you are champ, but you sound between 14-16, and its completely understandable that you dont want to walk up to her while she has all her friends around her. but bro, waiting until she is alone may not even work cos as you said ';i blew my chances at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free';.
all i can say is, instead of waiting for all the stars to allign for a perfect opportunity to talk to this girl, which may be tomorrow, or may be next month, you just be a man walk up to her and say hi. beleive me, if she is cute, and has ';guys around her'; then she aint gonna be single forever.
I can promise you champ, from my 20 years of being on this earth, if you just walked up to her one day while her friends are around her or not, and just said ';hi'; confidently, she WILL notice you more and WILL have you in the back of her mind. there is NOTHING girls like more in a man than confidence. if you say hi to her while her friends are around her that will just show her you are confident. but if you still want to get her byherself just say this CONFIDENTLY
';hi, hows it goin today?'; (her) ';good'; (you) ';Im _____ etc etc';
dont let your nerves get the better of you champ, and remember this saying if it doesnt go as well as planned ';Plenty Of Fish In The Sea, So Go Fishing...... Or Surfing';
good luck and stay strong
We only have lunches together, and even then it is hard.How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
Most girls look to her friends to get an opinion on a guy, so you have to have courage and talk to her and her friends in a group. You can't be scared, but if you're really that scared to talk to her when her friends are around try getting her phone number or add her on facebook or msn if she has it. Good luck! :)How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
I've always wondered this. It's prevented me from talking to many girls. I'd say just wait until the bell rings to go to class and follow her, not like stalking, just see where she goes and take this as an ';alternate'; route to class and when her friends go their separate ways then talk to her.
frist change those lunches to dinner maybe that will work.. and give her a letter that always cute..
Confidence works every time. Just walk up to her with her friends around and start talking to her. It will go a long way.
Just ask her to talk to you,
it can't hurt. Just go up to her, and be like
'Hey, can we hang out? :) '
Smile though, don't be so uptight and look nervous.
try and get her number or write her a letter or just tell her that u need to talk to her private
Go up to her while she's in her group of friends and ask her if you could talk to her or hang out sometime. She might like that. It worked on me. =)
hahhah see shoulda taken the chance while u had it! well if she was free once before, im sure she will b free once again. just this time, DO IT!! or you could try and join the conversation with her and her friends, if ur confident enough.
um, i never understand this about boys.. no offense:) but girls prefer it if you talk to them when their friends are around, and when their alone.. because otherwise it just seems as though you only talk to us when we're alone, and that doesnt feel right.. so speak to her always :) she will appriciate it. xx
Talk about what there talking, its not too hard. They are talking about X, ask questions about X. Get in the conversation.
your best bet would be to find one of these circling friends alone and just ask them to set the two of you up, or just have the friends leave when you come over during lunch.
girls love this kind of thing, and i'm sure one of her friends would me more than glad to help you out.
1.It's all about confidence! Maintain the attitude that she is lucky that you like her (make sure you are making her laugh, and in a nice way)--and if she doesn't see that she is lucky--well, there are plenty of girls who will. If you are not that confident, or you are shy, you should work on this dilemma by trying the ideas with some girls who are not your special crush. Learn the process with some nice girls who are friendly, and are not too scary.
2.Work up to that special one when you have had some good results with this process (and feel like it). Having butterflies in your tummy, and a catch or shake in your voice is fine; just don't give up or fall back just because it makes you feel shaky: that is actually a sign that she is impressive to you--tell her that she impresses you if you want to. Be prepared to tell ';what and why'; you notice her (to show that you mean it)...
3.Compliment her: Tell her she has a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes, but do not say something that is not true. And--don't say them one after the other! (It is highly recommended that you must talk about other things before complimenting or else it feels awkward)
4.Girls like it when boys try to defend them when someone makes fun of them or threatens them. However, in other settings like a workplace or college, these things would rarely occur.
5.In most cases, if you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you do not like her, so she won't like you.
6.Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly, so try doing that.
7.NEVER say to a girl that she is hot, it might make her very uncomfortable--like an object; say she is pretty or beautiful instead.
8.Give her your phone number, MySpace, IM, etc. when you know each other well enough.
9.If she asks if she looks bad or stupid, say no, no matter what you think. Never pause and think though that makes her think your lying
dont wimp out. talk to her whenever you see her. and if you're man enough, go up to her as soon as you se her friends around her. that will prove you're not afraid of rejection and will put you right on the market if you're....rejected.{{no offense}}
tell her to meet u in the hall during class or something
or wait after school
or myspace then tell her the prob then maybe she'll seperate herself if she likes u
Every guy who is really successful with girls knows that the best way to a girl is... thru her friends! You have to get her friend's approval -if they like you, then she will LOVE you! Because they will be encouraging her to get with you.
So, you talk to her friends first! You have to have confidence to be comfy doing this, but just look for an oppourtune moment. Say you see one of her friends drop something, take the chance to speak to the friend, then the rest of the group, including the girl you like =)
its always best when a guy just walks up and starts talking,
who cares what the other people think?
she will notice you soo much more if you just walk up,
trust me(:
confidence is KEY.
just make sure you have something to talk about,
dont just walk up there and say hey,
and she says hey back. and then you just stand there :)
plluuuss im sure after you talk to her this time, orr maybe a couple other times after,
she will make ways to talk to you alone.
she'll want to reach out after you do.
good luck :D
Get to know one of her friends as you'll probably find that'll you have a lot more confidence in talking to someone that doesn't mean much to you than to the girl your falling for, don't make the one you like too jealous, and make sure the friend of hers you talk to doesn't get too close to you.. and to avoid that talk about that cute girl you speak of to her friend, make it obvious you like her, then the path to finally talk to her will open my friend
try going with a group of guy friends so that theycan ditract the others or maybe you can all talk together and in the end she will be confident enough to talk to you alone.
or ask her if you can have a private conversation.
well I would definetly say if you like this girl you better find a way cause you dont never want to have what if.....but idk just get in good with the people she talk 2 and find one of them to help you try to get next to her and if that dont work write her a little note so that way u can slip it in her locker or in her book to meet you somewhere or have a school counselor give her the note to meet you somewhere......it worked for me the gettin to know one of his friends and now were friends....!!
well i hope i helped u Good Luck =D
well, that's tough.. the best thing would be to just approach her when she is kinda far from the group %26amp; tell her you want to talk to her, and then ask her if you guys could go somewhere and talk then or later at another place cause if you just say anything like commenting about the food, etc. she will think it's just a comment, so you need to let her know you want to talk to her.
this is kinda hard but saba tsh all her friends so they get a lunch detition and when at the beggening of luch if you school sells water botls byer one hpefeully shee lugs down and then when she have to go to bathroom go whith her like you do to then go when you here th tlit in the girls bathroom flush flush a stalll just case if trying to listen for thflush and quickly leave go in the hall whait by drinking at th water fountain also uses thi time to thainup a qustion to as her that will lead to aski you out her or her asking herout then when she walks past you say her name then as the qustion you wait after she past you because it will mke it so sh has to stop walking trust mea its harder to ask a girl out whil waking
champ,
whatever you do, dont try that stalker approach suggested by the guy above me, if she has noticed you checking her out in the past (probably has) then if you suddenly run into her ';by accident'; on the way home shes gonna be on yahoo answers that night posting up ';i have a stalker.... pls help!';. you definitely dont want that. im not sure how old you are champ, but you sound between 14-16, and its completely understandable that you dont want to walk up to her while she has all her friends around her. but bro, waiting until she is alone may not even work cos as you said ';i blew my chances at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free';.
all i can say is, instead of waiting for all the stars to allign for a perfect opportunity to talk to this girl, which may be tomorrow, or may be next month, you just be a man walk up to her and say hi. beleive me, if she is cute, and has ';guys around her'; then she aint gonna be single forever.
I can promise you champ, from my 20 years of being on this earth, if you just walked up to her one day while her friends are around her or not, and just said ';hi'; confidently, she WILL notice you more and WILL have you in the back of her mind. there is NOTHING girls like more in a man than confidence. if you say hi to her while her friends are around her that will just show her you are confident. but if you still want to get her byherself just say this CONFIDENTLY
';hi, hows it goin today?'; (her) ';good'; (you) ';Im _____ etc etc';
dont let your nerves get the better of you champ, and remember this saying if it doesnt go as well as planned ';Plenty Of Fish In The Sea, So Go Fishing...... Or Surfing';
good luck and stay strong
How do i let a girl know i like her as more than a friend?
Everytime i talk to girls i end up in the '; Friend Zone';. I don't know whats wrong with me. Am i not sending off the right signal or what. How do i let a girl i want to be more than friends.How do i let a girl know i like her as more than a friend?
i guess u should go to the next step and let her noe that u have some sort of feeling for her..
i guess u should go to the next step and let her noe that u have some sort of feeling for her..
Girl Problems!! Please help me talk to girls...?
im 20 years old and still find it hard to make friends and talk to girls. I've never had a girlfriend, and i'm starting to give up. I dont think im ugly, it's just i'm shy and dont know how to keep girls interested or make them laugh. Can u give me some advice on how to talk to girls? I need to know what to talk about, how to flirt, and how to get a girl comfortable and friendly with me. I need help on topics to talk about with girls too. What if a girl already know basic/introductory things about me, and say we went on a date, what is there to talk about. What do people talk about when they've been going out for a while? please give me some pointers.
One more thing, there is this one girl I met at my work (movie theaters), I met her when i was working, then one day when i went to go watch a movie with friends, she was there ripping tickets, i can get two free tickets so i gave them to my friends and i thought i could show the ticket ripper my work id card and they would think im just walking through to do something for work. So i walked up to her and said hey and said i was just going through to talk to a manager. She didnt buy it and started laughing and joking with me. She started to say i was funny and that i dont have to worry about doing things like that because she could hook me and my friends up with going in for free to movies. So now whenever i c her i say hey and we talk a little. but i dont know what else to say. What is there to say to her when we pass by each other during work. when i c her at work i say hey but what is there to say when we pass each other by again. i dont want it to be awkward and we just pass by each other quietly. also do u think shes interested and can u give me some pointers to help me talk to girls and get closer to this girl. sorry for the long story but it would be greatly appreciated if u help me with these. thanksGirl Problems!! Please help me talk to girls...?
Watch japanese animes %26amp; then apply your common sense. Works like a charm :D Also helps you mature, so that you may handle and avert awkward scenarios.Girl Problems!! Please help me talk to girls...?
Do Not, I repeat, DO NOT try to get pointers from some japanese anime unless you want to stay the way you are. Just ask some easy questions to get it going and try to find something your both into or not. Just walk up and say hey and give a compliment to start it off.
One more thing, there is this one girl I met at my work (movie theaters), I met her when i was working, then one day when i went to go watch a movie with friends, she was there ripping tickets, i can get two free tickets so i gave them to my friends and i thought i could show the ticket ripper my work id card and they would think im just walking through to do something for work. So i walked up to her and said hey and said i was just going through to talk to a manager. She didnt buy it and started laughing and joking with me. She started to say i was funny and that i dont have to worry about doing things like that because she could hook me and my friends up with going in for free to movies. So now whenever i c her i say hey and we talk a little. but i dont know what else to say. What is there to say to her when we pass by each other during work. when i c her at work i say hey but what is there to say when we pass each other by again. i dont want it to be awkward and we just pass by each other quietly. also do u think shes interested and can u give me some pointers to help me talk to girls and get closer to this girl. sorry for the long story but it would be greatly appreciated if u help me with these. thanksGirl Problems!! Please help me talk to girls...?
Watch japanese animes %26amp; then apply your common sense. Works like a charm :D Also helps you mature, so that you may handle and avert awkward scenarios.Girl Problems!! Please help me talk to girls...?
Do Not, I repeat, DO NOT try to get pointers from some japanese anime unless you want to stay the way you are. Just ask some easy questions to get it going and try to find something your both into or not. Just walk up and say hey and give a compliment to start it off.
How to talk to a girl about a future relationship?
Lets say I like a girl and this girl and i have talked a lot and hung out a few times. How would i bring up the possibility of a future relationship with her? It seems like when I or any one does this, the girl runs away or gets awkward about it and nothing happens. How should i do this so she doesnt get awkward about it?How to talk to a girl about a future relationship?
to me it seems like she's feeling a little insecure or maybe she looks at you as a friend or maybe someone to hang out with. if you do have feelings and she's not sending the signals back, you have to back off. she also might of have a bad relationship in her life and she has trust issues.
its not your place to ask her why but maybe you can try. maybe she'll open up to you. don't push for anything more till then.How to talk to a girl about a future relationship?
a guy actually just told me he likes me last night. I didnt run away. Just ask her about it and tell her you may want a relationship with her. Please awnser mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvzfoY5D5wQ69he6Gw6.qUPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090630083512AAni6bI
well show her your affection by hugging her and calling her cute and stuff. then get a little romantic by giving her presents like flowers or stuffed animals. court her. then if you feel you are ready kiss her, then ask her if you want to go steady!
tell her you like and that you dont want to freak her out, that you are just being honest, if it was at all possible that you would like to start a relationship with her. if she says no then just be friends dont push anything.
take 1 step at a time, it will happen eventually.
Tell her you like her.That's the only way to tell her.As for how,there's two way.
If you tell her upfront,which some girls like,it might hurt you if she doesn't feel the same way.She might not know how to react to it and sa something rude.Then again it could bring a huge smile to her face.
Some girls prefer it over the phone. [NOT over the computer! And not texting it either.] It gives them a chance to think about what you said and to tell you how they feel,without hurting your feelings.Or to scream and cry from happiness,hahah.
Either way,there's only one way to tell her.If she's a shy girl,tell her over the phone.If you've got a hunch that she likes you alot and that she's a quick thinker,tell her upfront.
Good luck :)
I think the direct approach is the best way to go just ask her face to face is she interested in a relationship with you if she says yes that's great yall can start dating if she says no tell her no hard feelings you would like to remain friends and if she gives you the I don't kno line tell her to sleep on it and get back to you if she doesn't get back to you then that's a no and just let it go good luck
How about instead of talking about a ';future relationship'; you just ask her out, like, on a date? You can get the chance to know each other, and find out if she's even interested. The worst that will happen is she will say no, and then you will have your answer, right? Good Luck!
to me it seems like she's feeling a little insecure or maybe she looks at you as a friend or maybe someone to hang out with. if you do have feelings and she's not sending the signals back, you have to back off. she also might of have a bad relationship in her life and she has trust issues.
its not your place to ask her why but maybe you can try. maybe she'll open up to you. don't push for anything more till then.How to talk to a girl about a future relationship?
a guy actually just told me he likes me last night. I didnt run away. Just ask her about it and tell her you may want a relationship with her. Please awnser mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvzfoY5D5wQ69he6Gw6.qUPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090630083512AAni6bI
well show her your affection by hugging her and calling her cute and stuff. then get a little romantic by giving her presents like flowers or stuffed animals. court her. then if you feel you are ready kiss her, then ask her if you want to go steady!
tell her you like and that you dont want to freak her out, that you are just being honest, if it was at all possible that you would like to start a relationship with her. if she says no then just be friends dont push anything.
take 1 step at a time, it will happen eventually.
Tell her you like her.That's the only way to tell her.As for how,there's two way.
If you tell her upfront,which some girls like,it might hurt you if she doesn't feel the same way.She might not know how to react to it and sa something rude.Then again it could bring a huge smile to her face.
Some girls prefer it over the phone. [NOT over the computer! And not texting it either.] It gives them a chance to think about what you said and to tell you how they feel,without hurting your feelings.Or to scream and cry from happiness,hahah.
Either way,there's only one way to tell her.If she's a shy girl,tell her over the phone.If you've got a hunch that she likes you alot and that she's a quick thinker,tell her upfront.
Good luck :)
I think the direct approach is the best way to go just ask her face to face is she interested in a relationship with you if she says yes that's great yall can start dating if she says no tell her no hard feelings you would like to remain friends and if she gives you the I don't kno line tell her to sleep on it and get back to you if she doesn't get back to you then that's a no and just let it go good luck
How about instead of talking about a ';future relationship'; you just ask her out, like, on a date? You can get the chance to know each other, and find out if she's even interested. The worst that will happen is she will say no, and then you will have your answer, right? Good Luck!
How can i talk to girls without getting nervous?
okay so i live in the san fernando valley and every time when i get close to girls like walking down the streets or when im in the mall or even a damn liquor store i get nervous my face turns red and i start twitching why do i even twitch? if they talk to me i start blushing and we all get in a awkward moment can anyone help me with that please i dont want to blush its really embarassing i had this problem since the 3rd grade im only 14 and latino!How can i talk to girls without getting nervous?
you need confidance! tell your self ...
im kick @$$!!
im one hot @$$ diue and im gonna get that girl!...lol
that used to happen to me so i wore makeup, and a confidence boost...
obiously makeup isnt an option...so go for the confidence!How can i talk to girls without getting nervous?
why don't you tell them the truth. I get nervous talking to girls and if I start blushing, I'm sorry. it just might work.
you need confidance! tell your self ...
im kick @$$!!
im one hot @$$ diue and im gonna get that girl!...lol
that used to happen to me so i wore makeup, and a confidence boost...
obiously makeup isnt an option...so go for the confidence!How can i talk to girls without getting nervous?
why don't you tell them the truth. I get nervous talking to girls and if I start blushing, I'm sorry. it just might work.
How do I talk to this girl more?
Been talking with this girl at school. She seems cool and is interested in our conversations. I'm gonna ask her for her number and talk to her by texting and stuff. But I was just wondering, if she has a limited texting thing or none at all, how do I keep talking to her? And if I do manage to talk to her, how often would it be cool to text her and talk. I don't want to come off as a needy douchebag or anything.How do I talk to this girl more?
i think if she has a limited texting thing or none at all,you dont text to her by text asking question.you just tell somthing about u but not detail or joke.How do I talk to this girl more?
If she doesn't have unlimited texting, ask her if you can call her after nine (usually everyone has free nighttime minutes). But yeah, just keep talking to her how you do. Maybe she'll get the hint that you like her.
Text etiquette 101 - text her once and don't text again until you receive a reply
i think you should ask for her number and text her when she first texts you that will relive the pressure from you and you know she wants to talk to you
a female loves a man to be concerned about her well being... we love a good listener and someone we can depend on, but we don't want a man to be too pushy... i would say keep in touch maybe three times a week or so... keep her wondering sometimes...lol
Okay, I kind of have this issue. I don't have a phone, so when someone asks for my number, I give them my email. It works for me. If you don't have an email, get one. If she doesn't have an email, you're in trouble sweetheart. You could always try to meet up on weekends, and if her parents don't like it, do a group thing, just make sure the group knows what you're doing. Email is back and forth, so as long as you don't double send things, you'll be fine. Texting however is more abrupt. I would try texting her after school, and if you think you do it too much, just ask her about homework and start a conversation from there. Never double message though, it's annoying.
i think if she has a limited texting thing or none at all,you dont text to her by text asking question.you just tell somthing about u but not detail or joke.How do I talk to this girl more?
If she doesn't have unlimited texting, ask her if you can call her after nine (usually everyone has free nighttime minutes). But yeah, just keep talking to her how you do. Maybe she'll get the hint that you like her.
Text etiquette 101 - text her once and don't text again until you receive a reply
i think you should ask for her number and text her when she first texts you that will relive the pressure from you and you know she wants to talk to you
a female loves a man to be concerned about her well being... we love a good listener and someone we can depend on, but we don't want a man to be too pushy... i would say keep in touch maybe three times a week or so... keep her wondering sometimes...lol
Okay, I kind of have this issue. I don't have a phone, so when someone asks for my number, I give them my email. It works for me. If you don't have an email, get one. If she doesn't have an email, you're in trouble sweetheart. You could always try to meet up on weekends, and if her parents don't like it, do a group thing, just make sure the group knows what you're doing. Email is back and forth, so as long as you don't double send things, you'll be fine. Texting however is more abrupt. I would try texting her after school, and if you think you do it too much, just ask her about homework and start a conversation from there. Never double message though, it's annoying.
How do you talk to a girl when you freeze up around them?
Theres this girl who i like alot more then any of the girls i have ever like and i can always talk to any girl its just shes different because i just freeze up whenever i try talk to her like i'll try to say something and end up walking away and she knows alot of people (i do to but not as much as she does) so i think if i dont find an answer soon i will not have any chance so can some plzzzzzzzzzzzz help me with this prob.How do you talk to a girl when you freeze up around them?
breathe in
breathe out.How do you talk to a girl when you freeze up around them?
just tell her you feel about her. tell her you have got to get it off your chest that she makes your heart skip a beat .GIRLS love for you to be yourself even if you stumble at first just keep talking it will come to you of what to say and she may be waiting for you to talk to her.
breathe in
breathe out.How do you talk to a girl when you freeze up around them?
just tell her you feel about her. tell her you have got to get it off your chest that she makes your heart skip a beat .GIRLS love for you to be yourself even if you stumble at first just keep talking it will come to you of what to say and she may be waiting for you to talk to her.
What is the best way to talk to girls?
how can i talk to girls with more confidence? i get so shy around pretty girls and i dont know why. then they start to think that i am boring because i just cant think of things to say. and when i try to be myself and find somthing to talk about my brain is just a complete blank, what should i do?What is the best way to talk to girls?
Pretty girls are human too, just like you, and they get nervous too.
Imagine you're talking to your friend or with a sister. It's not that hard. Girls like attention, someone to listen to them, and someone gentle and understanding. Talk in a calm soothing voice, and ask as many questions as possible about them. It makes you seem interested and sensitive, and you don't have to think of anything to say about yourself. Also, girls like to talk.
Ask them about what bands they like, laugh in response to jokes, smile and calm down. It's not that hard.What is the best way to talk to girls?
it sounds like your intimidated. Don't think over things to much, like what they look like and stuff like that (unless you give them a compliment) Just be outgoing , ask questions like -how are you doing? -what are you doing over the week end? or what did you do over the weekend?get into it, smile and be yourself.
just say something random..idk .....stuff like that makes me laugh...or have another friend with u and star a conversation with him and like try to get the girls to talk with u!
Grab their titties!
Pretty girls are human too, just like you, and they get nervous too.
Imagine you're talking to your friend or with a sister. It's not that hard. Girls like attention, someone to listen to them, and someone gentle and understanding. Talk in a calm soothing voice, and ask as many questions as possible about them. It makes you seem interested and sensitive, and you don't have to think of anything to say about yourself. Also, girls like to talk.
Ask them about what bands they like, laugh in response to jokes, smile and calm down. It's not that hard.What is the best way to talk to girls?
it sounds like your intimidated. Don't think over things to much, like what they look like and stuff like that (unless you give them a compliment) Just be outgoing , ask questions like -how are you doing? -what are you doing over the week end? or what did you do over the weekend?get into it, smile and be yourself.
just say something random..idk .....stuff like that makes me laugh...or have another friend with u and star a conversation with him and like try to get the girls to talk with u!
Grab their titties!
How do you become good, close friends with a girl?
What you should talk to her about, ask her to do something with you etc. I an hopeless at talking to girls.How do you become good, close friends with a girl?
Compliments always works, but be sure you actually mean what you say, people can tell if you're not being sincere. A guy I know became my friend just by telling me that he thought I seemed interesting and that he wanted to get to know me better. After that we just started talking, and he asked me if I wanted to get together and do something... we went out and had sushi and played guitar hero at his place, nothing special but we had a nice time. Try to find things you both have in common and go on from there, ask her questions about what she likes, and be sure to tell her what you like as well. What you should avoid talking about with a girl you've just met is probably sex, hygiene things etc... don't tell her things that are 'too much information', it's off putting. Good luck.
Compliments always works, but be sure you actually mean what you say, people can tell if you're not being sincere. A guy I know became my friend just by telling me that he thought I seemed interesting and that he wanted to get to know me better. After that we just started talking, and he asked me if I wanted to get together and do something... we went out and had sushi and played guitar hero at his place, nothing special but we had a nice time. Try to find things you both have in common and go on from there, ask her questions about what she likes, and be sure to tell her what you like as well. What you should avoid talking about with a girl you've just met is probably sex, hygiene things etc... don't tell her things that are 'too much information', it's off putting. Good luck.
How do i get to know a girl that i really like?
I can to talk to girls that i see as my friends just fine but i cant talk to girls i like at all. When i try to talk to a girl i like, i get all nervous and end up doing or saying something stupid. Also i cant flirt with any girl... I think the prettier the girl the more stupid i end up acting.... could someone please help me?How do i get to know a girl that i really like?
heres what you do. Have a very short convo with her in person as friends. Then get her screenname or fone number. after that you can talk 2 her online or text her and you will be getting to know her without talking in person. After tht you both wud be comfortable with each other becuz u wud kno how she is and u wudnt be nervousHow do i get to know a girl that i really like?
Girls think its cute when guys mix up their words. So don't get in a panic if you do. Just laugh it off. Smile a lot and tease them but also flirt. Don't be only nice to them. make them work. Girls go crazy when you play hard to get.
To flirt, touch them a lot, hug, smile, and tease. :)
heres what you do. Have a very short convo with her in person as friends. Then get her screenname or fone number. after that you can talk 2 her online or text her and you will be getting to know her without talking in person. After tht you both wud be comfortable with each other becuz u wud kno how she is and u wudnt be nervousHow do i get to know a girl that i really like?
Girls think its cute when guys mix up their words. So don't get in a panic if you do. Just laugh it off. Smile a lot and tease them but also flirt. Don't be only nice to them. make them work. Girls go crazy when you play hard to get.
To flirt, touch them a lot, hug, smile, and tease. :)
How should I start a conversation with a girl at a park, street, or bar. HELP PLEASE?
Ok so I am soo shy at talking to girls that I don't know, so I want to know some ideas how to start a conversation with a pretty lady that I would like to talk to.
Give me some conversation lines if you want to.How should I start a conversation with a girl at a park, street, or bar. HELP PLEASE?
1. Listen. Nothing is more flattering than truly being listened to. A girl will love it when you pick up small details that she mentioned. Slipping in little details is a way she has of telling you something important that she doesn't want to say directly. Pay attention to these details.
2. Ask questions. Use the little details you paid attention to to give you ideas for the questions.
3. Don't be afraid to chime in yourself. Girls like to learn about you, too. Don't interrupt her or derail the conversation, but it's appropriate and recommended to respond to her with something from your own life. For example, if she's talking about a trip she took to Paris, you can respond by telling her how you might like to travel one day.
4. Don't make her feel uncomfortable. Don't make fun of her (unless you're flirting) or say things that will make her feel stupid (eg. ';Why in the world do you think THAT?';) This can lead to awkward pauses in which she'll think ';maybe he isn't that nice of a guy...';
5. Avoid awkward pauses. If you don't know what to say after she finishes talking, don't do the nervous 'heh...heh...heh...'; laugh. This may lead to a long, silent pause, during which she'll pay more attention to her faults.
6. Be interesting. Talk about yourself/your point of view, but for the most part ask her what SHE thinks. But don't go overboard: don't ONLY ask her questions or she'll feel like she's being interrogated or pressured.
7. Do something! That is - if you're at a table or on the bus, ask if she wants to play cards. Similarly, if near an arcade, ask if she wants to play DDR or a racing game! Not only will you both have fun, but you'll also have something to talk about later and remember for the rest of your lives. If you do play a game with her, don't be too competitive. Give her a chance to win but without looking like your doing it. A good way of giving her that chance without faking it, is by practicing your weak skills in that game.
8. *Ask her what activities she's interested in e.g. what sports/films/tv programs; then work conversation and activities around this. For example, if you are both interested in ';Friends'; or ';Family Guy'; on TV then you already have something to make conversation on. Or if she says she likes going to the arcade, you have somewhere to go and make conversation at etc.
9. Try to end the conversation by mentioning a way to keep the relationship going- another time to talk, exchanging numbers or screen names is always a good way to say goodbye.
Just remember, girls are just people, we're nervous too.. =)web hosting sites
Give me some conversation lines if you want to.How should I start a conversation with a girl at a park, street, or bar. HELP PLEASE?
1. Listen. Nothing is more flattering than truly being listened to. A girl will love it when you pick up small details that she mentioned. Slipping in little details is a way she has of telling you something important that she doesn't want to say directly. Pay attention to these details.
2. Ask questions. Use the little details you paid attention to to give you ideas for the questions.
3. Don't be afraid to chime in yourself. Girls like to learn about you, too. Don't interrupt her or derail the conversation, but it's appropriate and recommended to respond to her with something from your own life. For example, if she's talking about a trip she took to Paris, you can respond by telling her how you might like to travel one day.
4. Don't make her feel uncomfortable. Don't make fun of her (unless you're flirting) or say things that will make her feel stupid (eg. ';Why in the world do you think THAT?';) This can lead to awkward pauses in which she'll think ';maybe he isn't that nice of a guy...';
5. Avoid awkward pauses. If you don't know what to say after she finishes talking, don't do the nervous 'heh...heh...heh...'; laugh. This may lead to a long, silent pause, during which she'll pay more attention to her faults.
6. Be interesting. Talk about yourself/your point of view, but for the most part ask her what SHE thinks. But don't go overboard: don't ONLY ask her questions or she'll feel like she's being interrogated or pressured.
7. Do something! That is - if you're at a table or on the bus, ask if she wants to play cards. Similarly, if near an arcade, ask if she wants to play DDR or a racing game! Not only will you both have fun, but you'll also have something to talk about later and remember for the rest of your lives. If you do play a game with her, don't be too competitive. Give her a chance to win but without looking like your doing it. A good way of giving her that chance without faking it, is by practicing your weak skills in that game.
8. *Ask her what activities she's interested in e.g. what sports/films/tv programs; then work conversation and activities around this. For example, if you are both interested in ';Friends'; or ';Family Guy'; on TV then you already have something to make conversation on. Or if she says she likes going to the arcade, you have somewhere to go and make conversation at etc.
9. Try to end the conversation by mentioning a way to keep the relationship going- another time to talk, exchanging numbers or screen names is always a good way to say goodbye.
Just remember, girls are just people, we're nervous too.. =)
How do you meet a girl when she is with her friends?
I often want to meet and flirt with a beautiful girl, but find myself reluctant to because I don't know how to talk to girls when they are with their friends.How do you meet a girl when she is with her friends?
Be polite and respectful to her friends. Address the group. Don't focus in on her too much, you don't want to single them out. But make it obvious that you like HER. Compliment her on something she's wearing. Listen intently when she talks. Before you leave, ask if you can have her number. Give her friends a warm smile and you should be good to go.How do you meet a girl when she is with her friends?
Always be confident and pull her to the side. If you are a gentlemen then her friends will like you too and that'll make you a little more cofortable.
Be polite and respectful to her friends. Address the group. Don't focus in on her too much, you don't want to single them out. But make it obvious that you like HER. Compliment her on something she's wearing. Listen intently when she talks. Before you leave, ask if you can have her number. Give her friends a warm smile and you should be good to go.How do you meet a girl when she is with her friends?
Always be confident and pull her to the side. If you are a gentlemen then her friends will like you too and that'll make you a little more cofortable.
How do I get a girl to talk to me for more than a minute?
I work at this pool where she and her friends come in a couple times a week. I have talked to her before and she always smiles and says hi whenever I say hi and I guess she checks me out whenever I walk by. I am pretty fit and I have tried to always be nice and polite around her but I don鈥檛 know how or when to talk to her.
I鈥檝e been talking to one of my guy friends who is really tight with her and he keeps telling me to go for it before it too late. What do I do?
Wouldn鈥檛 it be kinda weird if I just came and sat down next to her and asked her for her number? I don鈥檛 see how that would help me out. Do I really have to be the one to take the first step?
How do I get a girl to talk to me for more than a minute?
try to find out what TV shows she likes or hobbies she likes and you could if you wanted to research them then try to talk to her generally. then you can get to know her but not so you become friends or she will want it to stay that way and so when you think your both comfortable then you could flirt and then ask her outHow do I get a girl to talk to me for more than a minute?
Take her cell phone and throw it on the concrete floor.
Go up to her and do this:
';Hi';
She goes, ';Hi';
';Um ... look, I was just over there and I couldn't help but notice how pretty you look, so I was just wondering if we could go on a date sometime?';
And let nature take it's course from there.
yeah man=)
start talking to her (one of your regular convos) and then ask if you could get her number
if you get it call and find out her interests, and if you guys have anything in common
then continue from there
! ! !=D good luckk
There r thousand ways to talk to her for ur whole life.
start with any of the topic 's like Tea, coffee or some kind of simple help what she requires in the pool.
as u work there it would be easy to provide her more facilities.
dont wait for the god to give u an oppurtunity.
ur friend is right.
go take a chance.
best of luck.
Um....yes you do. A lot of women believe that the man should initiate contact and ask the girl out. When you go up to her be cute and say something like ';So when are you gonna go out with me?'; That will be the first thing out of ur mouth and that will grab her attention making you stand out from most other guys. Don't be intimidated it's nuthin but a thing.....and so what if she says no? You work at a pool. How many other hot chicks are there? :) Good luck
The best thing to do would be to talk to her and tell her she is pretty and you like her personality.. But dont make it too in her face, talk about a movie that is out at the cinema and ask her to go out with you!
ok,
When she leave's the pool walk up her and say:
You: Hi
She: hi
You: so you're leaving?
She: yup
You: so when you're comming around here again?
She: eeh some answer about when she comes XD
You: Nice, so you like the pool?
She: yes/no
You: ok, so eeh can i maybe have your telephone number so whe can contact each other??
She: Yes ofcourse! *gives phone number*
You: thanks! i'll call you!
She: ok :D
this could be it XD
It wouldn't be weird. Girls like confidence in a guy and if you go up and sit down next to her and say, ';I would really like to get to know you better, do you mind if I call you later?' that would get you a lot more ground with her than if you wait for her to just offer you her number.
I know that sounds like a pretty big step and it does take getting up the nerve to do it. But, if you can just get past the awkward feeling and put on a brave, confident face and just ask her nicely, but directly, I'm certain you will get the answer you looking for.
Good Luck.
as a life guard? if ur tan and skinny she is missin the point if not uhh sorry no luck
I鈥檝e been talking to one of my guy friends who is really tight with her and he keeps telling me to go for it before it too late. What do I do?
Wouldn鈥檛 it be kinda weird if I just came and sat down next to her and asked her for her number? I don鈥檛 see how that would help me out. Do I really have to be the one to take the first step?
How do I get a girl to talk to me for more than a minute?
try to find out what TV shows she likes or hobbies she likes and you could if you wanted to research them then try to talk to her generally. then you can get to know her but not so you become friends or she will want it to stay that way and so when you think your both comfortable then you could flirt and then ask her outHow do I get a girl to talk to me for more than a minute?
Take her cell phone and throw it on the concrete floor.
Go up to her and do this:
';Hi';
She goes, ';Hi';
';Um ... look, I was just over there and I couldn't help but notice how pretty you look, so I was just wondering if we could go on a date sometime?';
And let nature take it's course from there.
yeah man=)
start talking to her (one of your regular convos) and then ask if you could get her number
if you get it call and find out her interests, and if you guys have anything in common
then continue from there
! ! !=D good luckk
There r thousand ways to talk to her for ur whole life.
start with any of the topic 's like Tea, coffee or some kind of simple help what she requires in the pool.
as u work there it would be easy to provide her more facilities.
dont wait for the god to give u an oppurtunity.
ur friend is right.
go take a chance.
best of luck.
Um....yes you do. A lot of women believe that the man should initiate contact and ask the girl out. When you go up to her be cute and say something like ';So when are you gonna go out with me?'; That will be the first thing out of ur mouth and that will grab her attention making you stand out from most other guys. Don't be intimidated it's nuthin but a thing.....and so what if she says no? You work at a pool. How many other hot chicks are there? :) Good luck
The best thing to do would be to talk to her and tell her she is pretty and you like her personality.. But dont make it too in her face, talk about a movie that is out at the cinema and ask her to go out with you!
ok,
When she leave's the pool walk up her and say:
You: Hi
She: hi
You: so you're leaving?
She: yup
You: so when you're comming around here again?
She: eeh some answer about when she comes XD
You: Nice, so you like the pool?
She: yes/no
You: ok, so eeh can i maybe have your telephone number so whe can contact each other??
She: Yes ofcourse! *gives phone number*
You: thanks! i'll call you!
She: ok :D
this could be it XD
It wouldn't be weird. Girls like confidence in a guy and if you go up and sit down next to her and say, ';I would really like to get to know you better, do you mind if I call you later?' that would get you a lot more ground with her than if you wait for her to just offer you her number.
I know that sounds like a pretty big step and it does take getting up the nerve to do it. But, if you can just get past the awkward feeling and put on a brave, confident face and just ask her nicely, but directly, I'm certain you will get the answer you looking for.
Good Luck.
as a life guard? if ur tan and skinny she is missin the point if not uhh sorry no luck
How to talk to a girl that you think is cute for the very first time?
i work at a restraunt and i spotted this girl that is very cute, but she was with her family, she kept on looking at me, but i couldnt seem to figure out if she liked me or not. how do i get her alone so i can talk to her? i need tips. also examples in general for other places as well other than in the restraunt. like malls, stores, etc.How to talk to a girl that you think is cute for the very first time?
maybe you could slip and note inn her money like meet by the bathroom in 5 minutes. and start by sayin hi wuz up warz goin on stuff like dat icebreakersHow to talk to a girl that you think is cute for the very first time?
when her family isn't looking, pass her a note saying your phone #, address, name, age, etc. You can talk on the phone and arrange a date with her! well, of COURSE get to know her first!
maybe you could slip and note inn her money like meet by the bathroom in 5 minutes. and start by sayin hi wuz up warz goin on stuff like dat icebreakersHow to talk to a girl that you think is cute for the very first time?
when her family isn't looking, pass her a note saying your phone #, address, name, age, etc. You can talk on the phone and arrange a date with her! well, of COURSE get to know her first!
What are some ways a guy can get more confidence to talk to the girl he likes (2nd try)?
The girl I like and I were friends before I really discovered how I felt about her. Now that I realize it, talking to her has been difficult and infrequent. She and I will see each other and even hang out with a group of people and yet never really talk anymore. I think this is because I get really nervous and shy around her or some such. Any ideas on how to overcome this?What are some ways a guy can get more confidence to talk to the girl he likes (2nd try)?
maybe if you go out with her but also have some mates with you,then you'll become more confident and then the real you will come out good luck:)
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maybe if you go out with her but also have some mates with you,then you'll become more confident and then the real you will come out good luck:)
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How to talk to a girl about our relationship?
I like this girl, pretty sure she likes me... So how do I talk to her about if she likes me too? What do i say? When? How? We're going out with some friends to pizza hut tomorrow... Should I do it then?How to talk to a girl about our relationship?
First off, just be yourself around her and your friends, laugh, joke, and have fun. That will get her eyes on you. Don't crowd her, but glance at her and when she looks at you, simply smile at her. Casually, walk over to her and just talk about whatever comes to mind. Ask her about herself and what she likes, or takes in school. Make sure that you get to sit next to her, if possible. Stake out your territory. If she seems into you, at some point reach out for her hand. If she allows you to hold it and looks at you, give her your best grin. You'll find out if she likes you w/o saying a word, or having to ask.
My first serious bf in school never asked me out, he just told me he would pick me up Sat. night at 7 pm and to be ready. He was sure that if he asked me that I would say no, and he was right. OBTW, we ended up married after high school.How to talk to a girl about our relationship?
no, youll be in a group. talk to her when you alone.
tell her what you feel
when this happened to me - the guy just kinda said it. like. he was trying to say it in different ways, but by not saying it AT ALL. but. anyway, it didn't work out due to . things. but yeah.
Don't bound into the going out thing. well. 15 year olds etc. do that. i did lol. but say like. when you're not just with all your friends, whne its less people / you and her. Just try to lead up to it. I'm sure it won't go per shaped. Good luck !
no dont do it tomorrow!
tomorrow just uber flirt with her, then ask her if your alone if shes free the following night. ask her out when your on your own not in a group.
Girls Love it when You Say somthing First. You Start Off By Saying: Umm.. ugh.. I Kinda Like You.. I Was Wondering if you feel the same way, And Say It When You Two Are Alone, in Person, never though text or e-mail, its inportant you do it in person, it makes her feel more special, and dont do it when you two go to pizza hut, DUH, tell her you'll take her home, and walk or drive, her home, just you two, and tell her then, make sure you sit by her at dinner, just make sure she knows you liek her, drop hints, pull out her chair for her, and slip your hand around her shoulder when you have the chance, do it when your acting liek yoru yawning, it will work, it'll be a sucess, i have faith in you, im pretty sure she probably likes you. Have faith in yourself
(: Good Luck
First off, just be yourself around her and your friends, laugh, joke, and have fun. That will get her eyes on you. Don't crowd her, but glance at her and when she looks at you, simply smile at her. Casually, walk over to her and just talk about whatever comes to mind. Ask her about herself and what she likes, or takes in school. Make sure that you get to sit next to her, if possible. Stake out your territory. If she seems into you, at some point reach out for her hand. If she allows you to hold it and looks at you, give her your best grin. You'll find out if she likes you w/o saying a word, or having to ask.
My first serious bf in school never asked me out, he just told me he would pick me up Sat. night at 7 pm and to be ready. He was sure that if he asked me that I would say no, and he was right. OBTW, we ended up married after high school.How to talk to a girl about our relationship?
no, youll be in a group. talk to her when you alone.
tell her what you feel
when this happened to me - the guy just kinda said it. like. he was trying to say it in different ways, but by not saying it AT ALL. but. anyway, it didn't work out due to . things. but yeah.
Don't bound into the going out thing. well. 15 year olds etc. do that. i did lol. but say like. when you're not just with all your friends, whne its less people / you and her. Just try to lead up to it. I'm sure it won't go per shaped. Good luck !
no dont do it tomorrow!
tomorrow just uber flirt with her, then ask her if your alone if shes free the following night. ask her out when your on your own not in a group.
Girls Love it when You Say somthing First. You Start Off By Saying: Umm.. ugh.. I Kinda Like You.. I Was Wondering if you feel the same way, And Say It When You Two Are Alone, in Person, never though text or e-mail, its inportant you do it in person, it makes her feel more special, and dont do it when you two go to pizza hut, DUH, tell her you'll take her home, and walk or drive, her home, just you two, and tell her then, make sure you sit by her at dinner, just make sure she knows you liek her, drop hints, pull out her chair for her, and slip your hand around her shoulder when you have the chance, do it when your acting liek yoru yawning, it will work, it'll be a sucess, i have faith in you, im pretty sure she probably likes you. Have faith in yourself
(: Good Luck
How do you talk to girls in high school?
I'm Mexican, and I'm going to a school with mostly white girls. This is my first week, but I don't really know how to talk to them. They always seem to be talking about dresses and gossiping. There's only 2 other guys in my class. What can I do?How do you talk to girls in high school?
Girls always love a sense of humor, so spark up something funny and just be yourself around them and hopefully they will fall for you. Even smile at them before you make your move. good luck!How do you talk to girls in high school?
dude, only two other guys in your class! umm the odds are definately on your side. you have all the opportunity in the world to talk to them. just be confident and introduce yourself, believe girls LOVE to be talked to and make new friends, especially if their boys :) good luck
do what i do..just stare at them and when they look back smile and look somewhere else
Just smile. Act normal. Don't come off as a douche. the main idea is to talk about them and not yourself because that leads to douchieness if you talk about yourself. Keep it interesting.
um just say hi lol jk to start off you should like tap them and sa i dont get this or can i borrow a pencil or if like the teacher assigns homework and they like do a sigh of despair say something like ';not agian'; cept not as lame lol
go over and say ';hey! what up?'; not that hard.
all you need is confidence and to be yourself:)
i'm in high school and yea i talk to any guy that goes up to me and says hey or hi. it's simple.
Just talk to some chicks and see what you have in common. Most girls don't want to be treated like they're some sort of different species. As for the stuck up ones, tell them to go to hell.
Most important, remember girls are people too... not just girls... and everyone likes to be heard, so, the key is to listen more than talk.
Interest yourself in their interests just a little, but always be yourself. Don't try to go too far out of your way to identify with them.
All in all, just be a friend... respect them.
Relax, man, you'll do fine.
How do you talk to girls in high school? Talk to them like you would to anyone else, not like you would to ';the guys'; but like anyone you don't know yet, friendly. Almost all girls are to shy to confront guys, but not all. When a guy comes up and starts talking to a girl just because he wants to, shows that he's brave and can hold his own. Try to grab one and talk to her when she's not around her friends, (unless you want an audience) like at her locker or in the halls. It has the privacy you need for a first time, talk about the homework in class, or how kookie the science teacher is, just have fun!
Dude first think that race has nothing to do with it at all. There is nothing in your appearance that will stop a girl from liking you. Nothing at all!! Usually the trend right now is with online chat to break the ice on myspace and facebook. I however just love talking to any girl in my class if I want to. Some thing to say if you want to talk to them would be questions about their opinion about the class. The real question you should be asking is which girl do i think i really want to talk to. When you find the answer than the rest should be easy. As for the other girls you just want to be friends with just talk about other kids in you class social events or anything you want. Dude, don't be shy you'll get used to it.
Well, girls in high school are mostly concerned about their looks and rank in popularity rather than about love, or bf/gf. However some girls like unique, interesting guys who aren't afraid of expressing some sort of opinion. I, myself like guys who are fun, athletic, and not cocky, meaning not prideful. But be urself, and try talking to them or answering questions for them. Don't worry about it too much though. Good luck!
Girls always love a sense of humor, so spark up something funny and just be yourself around them and hopefully they will fall for you. Even smile at them before you make your move. good luck!How do you talk to girls in high school?
dude, only two other guys in your class! umm the odds are definately on your side. you have all the opportunity in the world to talk to them. just be confident and introduce yourself, believe girls LOVE to be talked to and make new friends, especially if their boys :) good luck
do what i do..just stare at them and when they look back smile and look somewhere else
Just smile. Act normal. Don't come off as a douche. the main idea is to talk about them and not yourself because that leads to douchieness if you talk about yourself. Keep it interesting.
um just say hi lol jk to start off you should like tap them and sa i dont get this or can i borrow a pencil or if like the teacher assigns homework and they like do a sigh of despair say something like ';not agian'; cept not as lame lol
go over and say ';hey! what up?'; not that hard.
all you need is confidence and to be yourself:)
i'm in high school and yea i talk to any guy that goes up to me and says hey or hi. it's simple.
Just talk to some chicks and see what you have in common. Most girls don't want to be treated like they're some sort of different species. As for the stuck up ones, tell them to go to hell.
Most important, remember girls are people too... not just girls... and everyone likes to be heard, so, the key is to listen more than talk.
Interest yourself in their interests just a little, but always be yourself. Don't try to go too far out of your way to identify with them.
All in all, just be a friend... respect them.
Relax, man, you'll do fine.
How do you talk to girls in high school? Talk to them like you would to anyone else, not like you would to ';the guys'; but like anyone you don't know yet, friendly. Almost all girls are to shy to confront guys, but not all. When a guy comes up and starts talking to a girl just because he wants to, shows that he's brave and can hold his own. Try to grab one and talk to her when she's not around her friends, (unless you want an audience) like at her locker or in the halls. It has the privacy you need for a first time, talk about the homework in class, or how kookie the science teacher is, just have fun!
Dude first think that race has nothing to do with it at all. There is nothing in your appearance that will stop a girl from liking you. Nothing at all!! Usually the trend right now is with online chat to break the ice on myspace and facebook. I however just love talking to any girl in my class if I want to. Some thing to say if you want to talk to them would be questions about their opinion about the class. The real question you should be asking is which girl do i think i really want to talk to. When you find the answer than the rest should be easy. As for the other girls you just want to be friends with just talk about other kids in you class social events or anything you want. Dude, don't be shy you'll get used to it.
Well, girls in high school are mostly concerned about their looks and rank in popularity rather than about love, or bf/gf. However some girls like unique, interesting guys who aren't afraid of expressing some sort of opinion. I, myself like guys who are fun, athletic, and not cocky, meaning not prideful. But be urself, and try talking to them or answering questions for them. Don't worry about it too much though. Good luck!
How do I smooth talk a girl?
I need to know how to pick up a girl. And right now there are alot of girls that I could possibly go out with. im 14 and i need some adviceHow do I smooth talk a girl?
Your young dude. Give it some time.How do I smooth talk a girl?
Tell her you just got your library card and your gonna check her out........lolz
you dont have to be that smooth my last boyfriend wasnt but he knew what to say to me
do not try to act cool! girls (well at least I) hate that. just talk with the girl and get to know her as friends then ask her out. when u guys are friends first it won't be as akward if u guys do eventually go out. but try to find out if she likes you too before you as her out. if she doesn't and u still ask her out, if she says no it'll be all akward between you two after.
you tell her what you know she wants to hear duhh!! ..but you shouldn't do that!! u need to be you, and keep it real, bcuz girls know when u are tryin to smooth talk them.
hey dude, just be yourself..thats what chicks dig! and if shes not into u, shes not for u man. and be sweet
ok 1st off never say ';smooth talk a girl';
next just be yourself and if she likes you ask her out
complements compliments complements my friend.
just dont go overboard and try not to freak them out.
All you need to do is ask questions about her. Ask everything and anything you can think of-- and don't talk about yourself! Girls love to talk, especially about themselves. You will seem empathetic and caring without really doing anything.
Ok well first off, you need to be yourself. You don't want to act like a ladies man because not all girls are into that.You just need to act like the guy you are and be honest.
If you want to date a girl, just ask her. Girls are just as afraid as you are. They only thing she can say is no.
I hope this helps.
Good luck.
:)
Okaii well, I'm a 14 year old girl so I think I could help you with this one, First off all, A girl doesn't exactly want you to smooth talk her cause then she'll think your a player :P Just be there as a friend and she'll like that more, but if you're not willing to take my advice and still want to smooth talk her , just compliment her on her hair or something on her body NOT what she's wearing , she'll appreciate it more :) and if she takes it nicely just ask her out to the movies or something like that
Society has taught you that you need to ';smooth talk'; a girl, but believe me, that's not what girls want. I'm 21 and when I go to the bar, the guys that I have to most fun talking to are the ones that do not try to ';smooth talk'; me. Girls honestly just want you to be yourself... and plus you'll find that if a girl digs you when you are being yourself, you have a much better chance of getting along with her through the rest of your relationship. There's nothing lame about just saying ';hi'; to a girl.. you don't have to be a Don Juan when striking a conversation. It's fake and girls will see right through it.
Your young dude. Give it some time.How do I smooth talk a girl?
Tell her you just got your library card and your gonna check her out........lolz
you dont have to be that smooth my last boyfriend wasnt but he knew what to say to me
do not try to act cool! girls (well at least I) hate that. just talk with the girl and get to know her as friends then ask her out. when u guys are friends first it won't be as akward if u guys do eventually go out. but try to find out if she likes you too before you as her out. if she doesn't and u still ask her out, if she says no it'll be all akward between you two after.
you tell her what you know she wants to hear duhh!! ..but you shouldn't do that!! u need to be you, and keep it real, bcuz girls know when u are tryin to smooth talk them.
hey dude, just be yourself..thats what chicks dig! and if shes not into u, shes not for u man. and be sweet
ok 1st off never say ';smooth talk a girl';
next just be yourself and if she likes you ask her out
complements compliments complements my friend.
just dont go overboard and try not to freak them out.
All you need to do is ask questions about her. Ask everything and anything you can think of-- and don't talk about yourself! Girls love to talk, especially about themselves. You will seem empathetic and caring without really doing anything.
Ok well first off, you need to be yourself. You don't want to act like a ladies man because not all girls are into that.You just need to act like the guy you are and be honest.
If you want to date a girl, just ask her. Girls are just as afraid as you are. They only thing she can say is no.
I hope this helps.
Good luck.
:)
Okaii well, I'm a 14 year old girl so I think I could help you with this one, First off all, A girl doesn't exactly want you to smooth talk her cause then she'll think your a player :P Just be there as a friend and she'll like that more, but if you're not willing to take my advice and still want to smooth talk her , just compliment her on her hair or something on her body NOT what she's wearing , she'll appreciate it more :) and if she takes it nicely just ask her out to the movies or something like that
Society has taught you that you need to ';smooth talk'; a girl, but believe me, that's not what girls want. I'm 21 and when I go to the bar, the guys that I have to most fun talking to are the ones that do not try to ';smooth talk'; me. Girls honestly just want you to be yourself... and plus you'll find that if a girl digs you when you are being yourself, you have a much better chance of getting along with her through the rest of your relationship. There's nothing lame about just saying ';hi'; to a girl.. you don't have to be a Don Juan when striking a conversation. It's fake and girls will see right through it.
How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
So there's this girl in my grade at school. I don't know why it just was all of a sudden but I have recently started to like her. She is one of the cutest girls I have ever seen and shes very smart too. When it comes to talking to girls that I have never talked to before I am the shyest guy around. I know close to nothing about her. So how would I go about starting a conversation with her. I only see her like once a day for like 2seconds.
Plz can I get some answers other than
just do it...or
just say wats up...or
just start asking her some questionsHow can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
OK. Since i'm a girl I should know about these things so I'm going to try to help you. Having a crush is very nerve-wracking when it comes to talking to them. All girls are different so you might want to try different approaches. First, work on saying Hi. It might sound easy, but it's not. If you have a friend thats a girl you could try practicing with her or getting advice from her. Also, if you're in the same class in a period of time you should try to start conversations in class about homework, tests, etc. If you are in the same math class, for example, and she is having trouble with math, but you understand it, you could ask her if she wants you to help her and you two could maybe meet in the library or something. Or maybe you could ask to try to figure it out with her.... ask her on a study date is what i'm trying to say!
Also, if you do get her as a girlfriend, here are a few tips:
1] Most girls love chocolates and sweets, but don't overwhelm her with them!
2] Most girls do not like to rush into relationships. SOme girls do, though, so, try to notice if she is the kind of girls who do.
3] Girls love to talk so, instead of you talking, just listen! But remember, if she asks you something, try to converse!
Good luck!How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
omg!n u never talked to a girl what r u aomish or somethin like that, hahaha loser
Star with hi and a qwestion
bump into her then apologose then compliment her
jast say hi to her
take a chance or you'll regret never knowing besides if she says no at least you kno and girlz like guy who are brave enough to talk to them
don't get yourself all worked up. just act like she's any friend you would talk to and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
well try to find mutual friends first. or find out who her friends r and maybe u can meet her at a party or something where u can start talking to her. then go on from there
unfortunately going up to the girl and saying hi whats up is the only good way to start talking to her. you don't wanna open w/ some cheesy line and have her blow u off!just be casual w/ her at first get to know her and things will flow from there on.
start by something as simple as asking her a pencil or something like that. or ';accidentally'; bumb into her or something.
and then gradually keep talking to her. and also get a GOOD friend or urs to talk to her.
Introduce yourself and get a conversation going , what ever comes to mind .
You say she's smart, so before school or something ask her to help you with homework. Then you can spend more time with her and get to know her. And, if you end up not likeing her, you'll just stop seeing her when you're done being tutored.
Ok first off heres a good way to start you accidently bump into her and knock her books out or make her drop something pick it up for her and go hey and if she answers back ask her her name and just start to work up a lil bit and whne u guys are good friends just ask her to go out with you any other questions u can just email me.
well you'll never get over your fear unless you try. So just go ask her. The wrost she could say is no! good luck. heres a plan: accidently bump into her and help her pick up her books then (before write a note) slip it into one of her books (stupid,simple, and easy) hope it helps!!
U NO WHT I THINK U SHOULD DO IS 2 TELL SOME1 LIKE UR FRIEND OR BRO 2 TELL HER THT U LIKE HER OR JUST WRITE LETTER 2 HER OR U CAN JUST PRETEND SHES SOMETHING THT U REALLY LOVE ALOT AND CAN JUST MAKE U ADMIT THT U LIKE HER
U JUST LIKE HER FOR LOOKS!?!?!?!?!?!? That really hurts my heart..... Anyways just become friends ( say hi and wats ur name and all that stuff) first then start flirting. Boys are so.... horrible minded and don't like girls if they aren't HOT!!!!!! %26gt;(
FInd one of your friends who is either friends with her or friends with a friends of her. Take your time and dont be creepy... or if you happen to make eye contact just say whats up... If you go that way you gotta say whats up like every day and just make it a thing.
oh man that's a great question.
I just recently started having the same situation with a girl in one of my classes and it might seem a little too obvious if i just went up to her and started talking to her because i haven't said a word to her in my first semester of school.
so i've been looking for opportunities to drop a remark or compliment on her.
like when she asks for a pencil or does something, add your opinion and stuff (something nice and funny), so you won't seem like a totaly stranger.
and slowly start asking her questions like ';hey what'd you get on that last test?'; etc.
however, if you don't know anything about her, then it's probably not a good idea. you might want to get to know her first so you'll know she isn't a total b it ch.
i think that you should ask one of your friends to see if she would want to go out some time
Wow, when I think back on all the times in school I was in your situation and never did anything about it, I just want to kick myself. But then I realize that what I really wish is to be back in that time with what I know now.
That probably wasn't much help, except for this one small thing: Just do it. Maybe you'll look stupid, maybe she'll do or say something really mean, I don't know. But she is probably not the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with anyway (statistical probability of a bit less than zero), so just start building a hardened skin. If you just grit your teeth and do it, damn the consequences, you might be pleasantly surprised. Good luck.
say hi so her at first. do this everyday when you see her. even though she doesnt mind you. when you get a chance to talk to her and i mean really talk to her, ask her about her likes and dislikes, etc. when you're done you could ask her if you could meet up again next time. go with the flow of your conversation. you'll get through it.
Introduce yourself, find common ground by asking her how was her weekend or if she has plans for the weekend or what do you like to do in your spare time then offer to do it with her.
Notice something about her. Comment.
Does she carry a laptop or a cell phone or something. The whole idea is to get her started talking. Once the conversation starts, PARTICIPATE!
Enjoy!
ok first off. Dont act dorkie. and talk about really dorkie stuff. You should really find something that she likes. some how find out something she likes. Maybe ask her what she's interested in doing or what she likes doing. Then see if you have the same interest. If you do then Great. If not then try again. Dont ask too many questions because you dont her thinking your a stalker, or anything But be calm and normal about it. See what types of movies she likes, music, sports? Tell her you think she is cute, or pretty. Dont force it on her but ill make a conversation.
you %26gt;%26gt; how was your weekend?
her %26gt;%26gt; good, Yours?
you %26gt;%26gt; good i did ... what did you do?
her %26gt;%26gt; i did my nails, and watched some movies.
There is an example its quite simple!
Hope this helps
what i said to my self when i was in school, was y waste time flirting. i knocked this hot girl out, and f***ed the sh** out of her, it was hot, she woke up sore and had no idea what happened.
You could sent her a note saying you like her and dose see want to go out with you include you name and a very cool picture of you. If you don't want to sent her a note then practice what you are going to say to her before you say it and say it with no fear and don't be mean be to her. If you love her then say wait for the 4th or 6th date and say you love her. but if you want to talk to her wait until she's alone then go up to her and say you want to talk to her.
Plz can I get some answers other than
just do it...or
just say wats up...or
just start asking her some questionsHow can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
OK. Since i'm a girl I should know about these things so I'm going to try to help you. Having a crush is very nerve-wracking when it comes to talking to them. All girls are different so you might want to try different approaches. First, work on saying Hi. It might sound easy, but it's not. If you have a friend thats a girl you could try practicing with her or getting advice from her. Also, if you're in the same class in a period of time you should try to start conversations in class about homework, tests, etc. If you are in the same math class, for example, and she is having trouble with math, but you understand it, you could ask her if she wants you to help her and you two could maybe meet in the library or something. Or maybe you could ask to try to figure it out with her.... ask her on a study date is what i'm trying to say!
Also, if you do get her as a girlfriend, here are a few tips:
1] Most girls love chocolates and sweets, but don't overwhelm her with them!
2] Most girls do not like to rush into relationships. SOme girls do, though, so, try to notice if she is the kind of girls who do.
3] Girls love to talk so, instead of you talking, just listen! But remember, if she asks you something, try to converse!
Good luck!How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
omg!n u never talked to a girl what r u aomish or somethin like that, hahaha loser
Star with hi and a qwestion
bump into her then apologose then compliment her
jast say hi to her
take a chance or you'll regret never knowing besides if she says no at least you kno and girlz like guy who are brave enough to talk to them
don't get yourself all worked up. just act like she's any friend you would talk to and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
well try to find mutual friends first. or find out who her friends r and maybe u can meet her at a party or something where u can start talking to her. then go on from there
unfortunately going up to the girl and saying hi whats up is the only good way to start talking to her. you don't wanna open w/ some cheesy line and have her blow u off!just be casual w/ her at first get to know her and things will flow from there on.
start by something as simple as asking her a pencil or something like that. or ';accidentally'; bumb into her or something.
and then gradually keep talking to her. and also get a GOOD friend or urs to talk to her.
Introduce yourself and get a conversation going , what ever comes to mind .
You say she's smart, so before school or something ask her to help you with homework. Then you can spend more time with her and get to know her. And, if you end up not likeing her, you'll just stop seeing her when you're done being tutored.
Ok first off heres a good way to start you accidently bump into her and knock her books out or make her drop something pick it up for her and go hey and if she answers back ask her her name and just start to work up a lil bit and whne u guys are good friends just ask her to go out with you any other questions u can just email me.
well you'll never get over your fear unless you try. So just go ask her. The wrost she could say is no! good luck. heres a plan: accidently bump into her and help her pick up her books then (before write a note) slip it into one of her books (stupid,simple, and easy) hope it helps!!
U NO WHT I THINK U SHOULD DO IS 2 TELL SOME1 LIKE UR FRIEND OR BRO 2 TELL HER THT U LIKE HER OR JUST WRITE LETTER 2 HER OR U CAN JUST PRETEND SHES SOMETHING THT U REALLY LOVE ALOT AND CAN JUST MAKE U ADMIT THT U LIKE HER
U JUST LIKE HER FOR LOOKS!?!?!?!?!?!? That really hurts my heart..... Anyways just become friends ( say hi and wats ur name and all that stuff) first then start flirting. Boys are so.... horrible minded and don't like girls if they aren't HOT!!!!!! %26gt;(
FInd one of your friends who is either friends with her or friends with a friends of her. Take your time and dont be creepy... or if you happen to make eye contact just say whats up... If you go that way you gotta say whats up like every day and just make it a thing.
oh man that's a great question.
I just recently started having the same situation with a girl in one of my classes and it might seem a little too obvious if i just went up to her and started talking to her because i haven't said a word to her in my first semester of school.
so i've been looking for opportunities to drop a remark or compliment on her.
like when she asks for a pencil or does something, add your opinion and stuff (something nice and funny), so you won't seem like a totaly stranger.
and slowly start asking her questions like ';hey what'd you get on that last test?'; etc.
however, if you don't know anything about her, then it's probably not a good idea. you might want to get to know her first so you'll know she isn't a total b it ch.
i think that you should ask one of your friends to see if she would want to go out some time
Wow, when I think back on all the times in school I was in your situation and never did anything about it, I just want to kick myself. But then I realize that what I really wish is to be back in that time with what I know now.
That probably wasn't much help, except for this one small thing: Just do it. Maybe you'll look stupid, maybe she'll do or say something really mean, I don't know. But she is probably not the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with anyway (statistical probability of a bit less than zero), so just start building a hardened skin. If you just grit your teeth and do it, damn the consequences, you might be pleasantly surprised. Good luck.
say hi so her at first. do this everyday when you see her. even though she doesnt mind you. when you get a chance to talk to her and i mean really talk to her, ask her about her likes and dislikes, etc. when you're done you could ask her if you could meet up again next time. go with the flow of your conversation. you'll get through it.
Introduce yourself, find common ground by asking her how was her weekend or if she has plans for the weekend or what do you like to do in your spare time then offer to do it with her.
Notice something about her. Comment.
Does she carry a laptop or a cell phone or something. The whole idea is to get her started talking. Once the conversation starts, PARTICIPATE!
Enjoy!
ok first off. Dont act dorkie. and talk about really dorkie stuff. You should really find something that she likes. some how find out something she likes. Maybe ask her what she's interested in doing or what she likes doing. Then see if you have the same interest. If you do then Great. If not then try again. Dont ask too many questions because you dont her thinking your a stalker, or anything But be calm and normal about it. See what types of movies she likes, music, sports? Tell her you think she is cute, or pretty. Dont force it on her but ill make a conversation.
you %26gt;%26gt; how was your weekend?
her %26gt;%26gt; good, Yours?
you %26gt;%26gt; good i did ... what did you do?
her %26gt;%26gt; i did my nails, and watched some movies.
There is an example its quite simple!
Hope this helps
what i said to my self when i was in school, was y waste time flirting. i knocked this hot girl out, and f***ed the sh** out of her, it was hot, she woke up sore and had no idea what happened.
You could sent her a note saying you like her and dose see want to go out with you include you name and a very cool picture of you. If you don't want to sent her a note then practice what you are going to say to her before you say it and say it with no fear and don't be mean be to her. If you love her then say wait for the 4th or 6th date and say you love her. but if you want to talk to her wait until she's alone then go up to her and say you want to talk to her.
Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Its ridiculous. I try to have a conversation with some girls I known by seeing around the area and they never listen to me or pay attention! I have personality and talking about an interesting topic and they don鈥檛 want to talk. How can I keep them interested?Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Ask them about themselves, or their day, Girls really like to talk about themselves, I know this isn't exactly what you want, but it'll work. Once they get a chance to talk about themselves (be sure to actually listen) then they will be more likely to listen to what you have to say and participate in the conversation.
Ask them about themselves, or their day, Girls really like to talk about themselves, I know this isn't exactly what you want, but it'll work. Once they get a chance to talk about themselves (be sure to actually listen) then they will be more likely to listen to what you have to say and participate in the conversation.
HOW DO I SWEET TALK A GIRL?
I am 13 and having problems with girls i was told to sweet talk the girl but i dont know how i want to get to the point where i can sarinade her wih sweet child o mine but i dont know how im sure when i get to that point shell fall for meHOW DO I SWEET TALK A GIRL?
just tell her shes beautiful and compliment herdark scarlet brown color
just tell her shes beautiful and compliment her
How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
So there's this girl in my grade at school. I don't know why it just was all of a sudden but I have recently started to like her. She is one of the cutest girls I have ever seen and shes very smart too. When it comes to talking to girls that I have never talked to before I am the shyest guy around. I know close to nothing about her. So how would I go about starting a conversation with her. I only see her like once a day for like 2seconds.
Plz can I get some answers other than
just do it...or
just say wats up...or
just start asking her some questionsHow can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
OK. Since i'm a girl I should know about these things so I'm going to try to help you. Having a crush is very nerve-wracking when it comes to talking to them. All girls are different so you might want to try different approaches. First, work on saying Hi. It might sound easy, but it's not. If you have a friend thats a girl you could try practicing with her or getting advice from her. Also, if you're in the same class in a period of time you should try to start conversations in class about homework, tests, etc. If you are in the same math class, for example, and she is having trouble with math, but you understand it, you could ask her if she wants you to help her and you two could maybe meet in the library or something. Or maybe you could ask to try to figure it out with her.... ask her on a study date is what i'm trying to say!
Also, if you do get her as a girlfriend, here are a few tips:
1] Most girls love chocolates and sweets, but don't overwhelm her with them!
2] Most girls do not like to rush into relationships. SOme girls do, though, so, try to notice if she is the kind of girls who do.
3] Girls love to talk so, instead of you talking, just listen! But remember, if she asks you something, try to converse!
Good luck!How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
omg!n u never talked to a girl what r u aomish or somethin like that, hahaha loser
Star with hi and a qwestion
bump into her then apologose then compliment her
jast say hi to her
take a chance or you'll regret never knowing besides if she says no at least you kno and girlz like guy who are brave enough to talk to them
don't get yourself all worked up. just act like she's any friend you would talk to and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
well try to find mutual friends first. or find out who her friends r and maybe u can meet her at a party or something where u can start talking to her. then go on from there
unfortunately going up to the girl and saying hi whats up is the only good way to start talking to her. you don't wanna open w/ some cheesy line and have her blow u off!just be casual w/ her at first get to know her and things will flow from there on.
start by something as simple as asking her a pencil or something like that. or ';accidentally'; bumb into her or something.
and then gradually keep talking to her. and also get a GOOD friend or urs to talk to her.
Introduce yourself and get a conversation going , what ever comes to mind .
You say she's smart, so before school or something ask her to help you with homework. Then you can spend more time with her and get to know her. And, if you end up not likeing her, you'll just stop seeing her when you're done being tutored.
Ok first off heres a good way to start you accidently bump into her and knock her books out or make her drop something pick it up for her and go hey and if she answers back ask her her name and just start to work up a lil bit and whne u guys are good friends just ask her to go out with you any other questions u can just email me.
well you'll never get over your fear unless you try. So just go ask her. The wrost she could say is no! good luck. heres a plan: accidently bump into her and help her pick up her books then (before write a note) slip it into one of her books (stupid,simple, and easy) hope it helps!!
U NO WHT I THINK U SHOULD DO IS 2 TELL SOME1 LIKE UR FRIEND OR BRO 2 TELL HER THT U LIKE HER OR JUST WRITE LETTER 2 HER OR U CAN JUST PRETEND SHES SOMETHING THT U REALLY LOVE ALOT AND CAN JUST MAKE U ADMIT THT U LIKE HER
U JUST LIKE HER FOR LOOKS!?!?!?!?!?!? That really hurts my heart..... Anyways just become friends ( say hi and wats ur name and all that stuff) first then start flirting. Boys are so.... horrible minded and don't like girls if they aren't HOT!!!!!! %26gt;(
FInd one of your friends who is either friends with her or friends with a friends of her. Take your time and dont be creepy... or if you happen to make eye contact just say whats up... If you go that way you gotta say whats up like every day and just make it a thing.
oh man that's a great question.
I just recently started having the same situation with a girl in one of my classes and it might seem a little too obvious if i just went up to her and started talking to her because i haven't said a word to her in my first semester of school.
so i've been looking for opportunities to drop a remark or compliment on her.
like when she asks for a pencil or does something, add your opinion and stuff (something nice and funny), so you won't seem like a totaly stranger.
and slowly start asking her questions like ';hey what'd you get on that last test?'; etc.
however, if you don't know anything about her, then it's probably not a good idea. you might want to get to know her first so you'll know she isn't a total b it ch.
i think that you should ask one of your friends to see if she would want to go out some time
Wow, when I think back on all the times in school I was in your situation and never did anything about it, I just want to kick myself. But then I realize that what I really wish is to be back in that time with what I know now.
That probably wasn't much help, except for this one small thing: Just do it. Maybe you'll look stupid, maybe she'll do or say something really mean, I don't know. But she is probably not the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with anyway (statistical probability of a bit less than zero), so just start building a hardened skin. If you just grit your teeth and do it, damn the consequences, you might be pleasantly surprised. Good luck.
say hi so her at first. do this everyday when you see her. even though she doesnt mind you. when you get a chance to talk to her and i mean really talk to her, ask her about her likes and dislikes, etc. when you're done you could ask her if you could meet up again next time. go with the flow of your conversation. you'll get through it.
Introduce yourself, find common ground by asking her how was her weekend or if she has plans for the weekend or what do you like to do in your spare time then offer to do it with her.
Notice something about her. Comment.
Does she carry a laptop or a cell phone or something. The whole idea is to get her started talking. Once the conversation starts, PARTICIPATE!
Enjoy!
ok first off. Dont act dorkie. and talk about really dorkie stuff. You should really find something that she likes. some how find out something she likes. Maybe ask her what she's interested in doing or what she likes doing. Then see if you have the same interest. If you do then Great. If not then try again. Dont ask too many questions because you dont her thinking your a stalker, or anything But be calm and normal about it. See what types of movies she likes, music, sports? Tell her you think she is cute, or pretty. Dont force it on her but ill make a conversation.
you %26gt;%26gt; how was your weekend?
her %26gt;%26gt; good, Yours?
you %26gt;%26gt; good i did ... what did you do?
her %26gt;%26gt; i did my nails, and watched some movies.
There is an example its quite simple!
Hope this helps
what i said to my self when i was in school, was y waste time flirting. i knocked this hot girl out, and f***ed the sh** out of her, it was hot, she woke up sore and had no idea what happened.
You could sent her a note saying you like her and dose see want to go out with you include you name and a very cool picture of you. If you don't want to sent her a note then practice what you are going to say to her before you say it and say it with no fear and don't be mean be to her. If you love her then say wait for the 4th or 6th date and say you love her. but if you want to talk to her wait until she's alone then go up to her and say you want to talk to her.
Plz can I get some answers other than
just do it...or
just say wats up...or
just start asking her some questionsHow can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
OK. Since i'm a girl I should know about these things so I'm going to try to help you. Having a crush is very nerve-wracking when it comes to talking to them. All girls are different so you might want to try different approaches. First, work on saying Hi. It might sound easy, but it's not. If you have a friend thats a girl you could try practicing with her or getting advice from her. Also, if you're in the same class in a period of time you should try to start conversations in class about homework, tests, etc. If you are in the same math class, for example, and she is having trouble with math, but you understand it, you could ask her if she wants you to help her and you two could maybe meet in the library or something. Or maybe you could ask to try to figure it out with her.... ask her on a study date is what i'm trying to say!
Also, if you do get her as a girlfriend, here are a few tips:
1] Most girls love chocolates and sweets, but don't overwhelm her with them!
2] Most girls do not like to rush into relationships. SOme girls do, though, so, try to notice if she is the kind of girls who do.
3] Girls love to talk so, instead of you talking, just listen! But remember, if she asks you something, try to converse!
Good luck!How can I talk to a girl I have never talked to before at school...?
omg!n u never talked to a girl what r u aomish or somethin like that, hahaha loser
Star with hi and a qwestion
bump into her then apologose then compliment her
jast say hi to her
take a chance or you'll regret never knowing besides if she says no at least you kno and girlz like guy who are brave enough to talk to them
don't get yourself all worked up. just act like she's any friend you would talk to and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
well try to find mutual friends first. or find out who her friends r and maybe u can meet her at a party or something where u can start talking to her. then go on from there
unfortunately going up to the girl and saying hi whats up is the only good way to start talking to her. you don't wanna open w/ some cheesy line and have her blow u off!just be casual w/ her at first get to know her and things will flow from there on.
start by something as simple as asking her a pencil or something like that. or ';accidentally'; bumb into her or something.
and then gradually keep talking to her. and also get a GOOD friend or urs to talk to her.
Introduce yourself and get a conversation going , what ever comes to mind .
You say she's smart, so before school or something ask her to help you with homework. Then you can spend more time with her and get to know her. And, if you end up not likeing her, you'll just stop seeing her when you're done being tutored.
Ok first off heres a good way to start you accidently bump into her and knock her books out or make her drop something pick it up for her and go hey and if she answers back ask her her name and just start to work up a lil bit and whne u guys are good friends just ask her to go out with you any other questions u can just email me.
well you'll never get over your fear unless you try. So just go ask her. The wrost she could say is no! good luck. heres a plan: accidently bump into her and help her pick up her books then (before write a note) slip it into one of her books (stupid,simple, and easy) hope it helps!!
U NO WHT I THINK U SHOULD DO IS 2 TELL SOME1 LIKE UR FRIEND OR BRO 2 TELL HER THT U LIKE HER OR JUST WRITE LETTER 2 HER OR U CAN JUST PRETEND SHES SOMETHING THT U REALLY LOVE ALOT AND CAN JUST MAKE U ADMIT THT U LIKE HER
U JUST LIKE HER FOR LOOKS!?!?!?!?!?!? That really hurts my heart..... Anyways just become friends ( say hi and wats ur name and all that stuff) first then start flirting. Boys are so.... horrible minded and don't like girls if they aren't HOT!!!!!! %26gt;(
FInd one of your friends who is either friends with her or friends with a friends of her. Take your time and dont be creepy... or if you happen to make eye contact just say whats up... If you go that way you gotta say whats up like every day and just make it a thing.
oh man that's a great question.
I just recently started having the same situation with a girl in one of my classes and it might seem a little too obvious if i just went up to her and started talking to her because i haven't said a word to her in my first semester of school.
so i've been looking for opportunities to drop a remark or compliment on her.
like when she asks for a pencil or does something, add your opinion and stuff (something nice and funny), so you won't seem like a totaly stranger.
and slowly start asking her questions like ';hey what'd you get on that last test?'; etc.
however, if you don't know anything about her, then it's probably not a good idea. you might want to get to know her first so you'll know she isn't a total b it ch.
i think that you should ask one of your friends to see if she would want to go out some time
Wow, when I think back on all the times in school I was in your situation and never did anything about it, I just want to kick myself. But then I realize that what I really wish is to be back in that time with what I know now.
That probably wasn't much help, except for this one small thing: Just do it. Maybe you'll look stupid, maybe she'll do or say something really mean, I don't know. But she is probably not the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with anyway (statistical probability of a bit less than zero), so just start building a hardened skin. If you just grit your teeth and do it, damn the consequences, you might be pleasantly surprised. Good luck.
say hi so her at first. do this everyday when you see her. even though she doesnt mind you. when you get a chance to talk to her and i mean really talk to her, ask her about her likes and dislikes, etc. when you're done you could ask her if you could meet up again next time. go with the flow of your conversation. you'll get through it.
Introduce yourself, find common ground by asking her how was her weekend or if she has plans for the weekend or what do you like to do in your spare time then offer to do it with her.
Notice something about her. Comment.
Does she carry a laptop or a cell phone or something. The whole idea is to get her started talking. Once the conversation starts, PARTICIPATE!
Enjoy!
ok first off. Dont act dorkie. and talk about really dorkie stuff. You should really find something that she likes. some how find out something she likes. Maybe ask her what she's interested in doing or what she likes doing. Then see if you have the same interest. If you do then Great. If not then try again. Dont ask too many questions because you dont her thinking your a stalker, or anything But be calm and normal about it. See what types of movies she likes, music, sports? Tell her you think she is cute, or pretty. Dont force it on her but ill make a conversation.
you %26gt;%26gt; how was your weekend?
her %26gt;%26gt; good, Yours?
you %26gt;%26gt; good i did ... what did you do?
her %26gt;%26gt; i did my nails, and watched some movies.
There is an example its quite simple!
Hope this helps
what i said to my self when i was in school, was y waste time flirting. i knocked this hot girl out, and f***ed the sh** out of her, it was hot, she woke up sore and had no idea what happened.
You could sent her a note saying you like her and dose see want to go out with you include you name and a very cool picture of you. If you don't want to sent her a note then practice what you are going to say to her before you say it and say it with no fear and don't be mean be to her. If you love her then say wait for the 4th or 6th date and say you love her. but if you want to talk to her wait until she's alone then go up to her and say you want to talk to her.
Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Its ridiculous. I try to have a conversation with some girls I known by seeing around the area and they never listen to me or pay attention! I have personality and talking about an interesting topic and they don鈥檛 want to talk. How can I keep them interested?Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Ask them about themselves, or their day, Girls really like to talk about themselves, I know this isn't exactly what you want, but it'll work. Once they get a chance to talk about themselves (be sure to actually listen) then they will be more likely to listen to what you have to say and participate in the conversation.
Ask them about themselves, or their day, Girls really like to talk about themselves, I know this isn't exactly what you want, but it'll work. Once they get a chance to talk about themselves (be sure to actually listen) then they will be more likely to listen to what you have to say and participate in the conversation.
HOW DO I SWEET TALK A GIRL?
I am 13 and having problems with girls i was told to sweet talk the girl but i dont know how i want to get to the point where i can sarinade her wih sweet child o mine but i dont know how im sure when i get to that point shell fall for meHOW DO I SWEET TALK A GIRL?
just tell her shes beautiful and compliment her
just tell her shes beautiful and compliment her
Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Its ridiculous. I try to have a conversation with some girls I known by seeing around the area and they never listen to me or pay attention! I have personality and talking about an interesting topic and they don鈥檛 want to talk. How can I keep them interested?Why don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
well ye maybe its not about what u talk about maybe you have bad breath smell
if not
change subject dont talk about your self
start convr with asking them how they r doin whats goin on
if u like to talk toooo much they will avoid youWhy don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Brush your teeth
well ye maybe its not about what u talk about maybe you have bad breath smell
if not
change subject dont talk about your self
start convr with asking them how they r doin whats goin on
if u like to talk toooo much they will avoid youWhy don鈥檛 girls talk to me?
Brush your teeth
How do I talk with girls?
I am a dead on guy and I am good looking (don't want to sound cocky) but when I am on my own with a girl, I don't know how to have a simple conversation with them. Like there is just always awkward silences! I hate it! I just get nervous! Can you please help me and tell me what to talk about and how to be yourself and confident around girls? ThanksHow do I talk with girls?
You shold be kissing not talking lol no im playing but really anytime its an awkward silence just say ';awkward silence not liking this'; or somthing along those lines and let her know you can also just do some fun things like tickle her or play a game if your not sexually active.
Things to talk about
HER lol
say she's pretty or her eyes are
ask her what she lieks about you
ask how many kids she wants
if she's a virgin (dont sound like a pervert)
dont keep asking her stuff though it'll soun dlike 21 questions just go with the flow
if your over the phone tell her to turn her tv on and watch somthing fun with you just relax and dont hold your tounge even if its kinda corny SAY IT dont hide who you are for anyone because if she cant accept you then dismiss her and move onHow do I talk with girls?
try fluff talking- like ask her
what did u do yesterday?
-...........then continue asking more qs. This is just to break the silence to get her speaking.
You shold be kissing not talking lol no im playing but really anytime its an awkward silence just say ';awkward silence not liking this'; or somthing along those lines and let her know you can also just do some fun things like tickle her or play a game if your not sexually active.
Things to talk about
HER lol
say she's pretty or her eyes are
ask her what she lieks about you
ask how many kids she wants
if she's a virgin (dont sound like a pervert)
dont keep asking her stuff though it'll soun dlike 21 questions just go with the flow
if your over the phone tell her to turn her tv on and watch somthing fun with you just relax and dont hold your tounge even if its kinda corny SAY IT dont hide who you are for anyone because if she cant accept you then dismiss her and move onHow do I talk with girls?
try fluff talking- like ask her
what did u do yesterday?
-...........then continue asking more qs. This is just to break the silence to get her speaking.
How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
I'm a guy, I can talk to a girl no problem. When it comes to a girl I like I just get nervous because I'm scared too look stupid or over-stressed. I did ask this girl out in person before, I got her number, facebook, etc. and when I asked she did say yes, but had to cancel because she forgot she made plans with her best friend and apologized.
Anyway, how do I go talk to a girl I like and not feel like such a dud?How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Act like she is a friend, don't talk to her like a friend because you want to stay away from that 'just friends' relationship, but when you get around her just stay cool....
~WilliamHow do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Look, I had a crush on a girl once and I, too was scared to talk, but i overcame my fear and got into a new relationship
Trust it, u gotta act think that she is a normal girl. You gotta make yourself think that you just want to be good friends, and thats how u wont get nervous talking to her.
Just do everything that you do to your freinds who are girls, and when you boost your confidence up, then you can think about liking her.
if you make yourself face the fear of taking to girls that you like, then its easier every time. imagine yourself talking to her and the conversation, over and over, make it good, not what you fear would happen but how you want it to go....go for it
Hmm just be yourself, i can't really give any tips.. i mean what answer are you expecting? or not text her? it's kinda shallow but i did that to my gf and she seems fine with it and of course i told her in person too..
its actually very easy, its just hard to explain.
you just need to man up and talk to her lol.
its a lot easier if its a random girl at a party because you will never see her again. or shell be really drunk
Just joke around a lot. That always used to work for me in high school and stuff. I just acted goofy around girls. Because honestly, once you make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. She'll realize you're funny and trustworthy and she can just have a good time around you and then there's no pressure after that. Just talk to her honestly man but don't be so serious.
man, just be YOURSELF..if she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork or whatever then the hell with tha beeach! Plenty of fish in tha see lad!..keep fishing, and you'll hook up with the right women..
You just gotta fight the fear of rejection. Most people get scared cause they dont wanna get up the courage and have the girl/guy say no. But you just gotta get through that. Dont let fear determine what you do in life. And i know its hard but really if you ask and she says no then how much different is your life. But if she says yes well then you'll be on cloud nine. And i'm sure you already know but make sure when you ask a girl out make sure your body language conveys confidence. Very Important.
text her
It's natural to think you'd be a dud, but the truth is the girl will be flattered even if you are a dud!! just be yourself, be wacky and crazy. I am like that when I first see a guy that I like. You have to go in with the confidence that you are not any less if this girl happens to say no, you'll find another girl to just go say HI to. Forget about me rejected or being a dud, and you will see how much easier it can be to talk to someone new!! I know it sounds impossible, but I've done it for years and I have met many great guys, it'll work on girls too!
That is easy. You just have to be confident and be willing to be shot down if it is to happen. If you act all nervous and not confident she will pick that up and will be turned off. You just have to go in their confident. NOT COCKY just confident and be a gent. Some woman like guys who are jerks but woman like a gent.
i suggest talking to girls that you don't like romantically first. it won't be as awkward. and you will get practice. you can talk about the same thing to the girl that you like as the one you don't. hope this helps. ♥
i cant really help you since its your nerves, and i cant change your personality. but if your at a place that you are passionate about or know alot about such as starbucks, see the girl, go up, introduce yourself, and ask her if the drink/snack is worth buying. wait for her answer... and then say, great! thanks... i'll try that next time, and maybe you can join me? just stay calm, cool, and collected. stick to what you know! good luck!
be yourself.
im a girl and thats what i like when guys talk to me.
and always be confident in yourself.
if you emabress yourself, shell forget about it at one point, move on.
good luck%26lt;3
well its sortof akward but all you need to do is start by saying '; Hi my name is......'; welll there u go
THe more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just suck it up. All the feelings you have are normal. Be SURE to show confidence as that is one of the most attractive qualities girls subconsciously/consciously look for in a guy.
You just gotta suck it up and do it. Note, laughter is ALWAYS a great way into a girl's heart! So just try to get a laugh outa her first then the rest will fall into play!
Be ur self
if she smiles at you when u pass by then u get the idea she likes you
or ask her friends if they like you tehn go for it
I'm a girl.
Girls...sometimes they don't mind guys that are nervous. That means they like us.
It's sweet, when they get nervous, cause it also means they won't pressure us that much.
Talk about music, or things you both like. Just ask her questions like you would your best friend that's a guy. I mean, don't bring up sports unless she likes them or whatever.
Just ask her about her favorite colors, her friends, act like your just a friend but be sort of flirty. Make eye contact, ';accidentally'; brush her skin, smile, tickle her if she likes that. Just be yourself and don't think about your feelings.
Hope this helps.
Just be yourself.
ANSWER:
Here is some advice on attracting girls:
* Be yourself and be confident.
* The question is ';How do you attract A girl?'; not any particular girl or THIS girl. The best way to attract a girl is by being a man. Learn all about yourself as a man and relish your manliness. I don't mean turn into Paul Bunyan, but rather indulge the manly things you like to do, whatever they may be. Play sports, fart loudly and ceremoniously, fix things, don't be bashful about scratching your crotch, at some point in the relationship with a girl you must casually tell her that you will have to bend her over and make her your *****, belch with your friends, get dirty, play cards, get a Jeep, go outdoors, learn about cars, learn about computers, feast on grand meals you cook with your buddies on the grill over beers, shoot stuff, blow things up, play with growing a beard (it'll look like crap, but that's okay -- you are a man), play with dogs. Do NOT primp your hair pretty and try to look some certain way, work out because you want to have pretty muscles, try and be something you aren't -- that's gay. If you just have a good time and enjoy doing the manly things you want to do then you'll either bump into some girl that digs it or you'll have enough fun you don't care anyhow (which is even more attractive to a lot of women). When you can truthfully answer the above question with a ';who cares?'; then you are just about there. Oh, also, talk to every girl you meet with a smile on your face. And make a point to meet every pretty girl you see. But when you meet them don't stress about what you say to meet them, just say something stupid that clearly conveys you are not cool, you know you are not cool but you don't care because your confident enough that it doesn't matter.
* Be nonchalant sometimes. And become totally sweet. Be unpredictable.
* There are many ways to do so, but to answer this assessing what your current barriers are would be the first way to start. And if you have any friends who are girls, ask them what you should do differently if you aren't happy with this area of your life. If not, you could rely on a sister for advice.
* Show her that you really like her, and don't keep her guessing.
* Be yourself. Yes, it sounds so cliche but it is true. They will get to know the real you eventually so why not let them fall in love with the right person. Always be honest about your past and things you have done. There is nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward but never pretend to be someone you are not. Don't play games rather let her know how you feel. If you are open, honest and yourself and she still doesn't like you then you don't need her anyways.
* Think you are sexy, and they will too.
* Personally being a girl myself, to attract a girl, stare at her, make her feel special. Talk to her, don't always ignore her, or try to act all tough. Get to know her, tell her how you feel. Don't play with her emotions, just tell her straight up. But get to know her first, and try to see if she feels the same, otherwise just telling her straight up can be quite risky. Just trying to spend time with her, talking with her, or staring at her would usually get a girls attention though. It would flatter her, and she would sooner or later be interested, unless she's already taken.
* Be three things; smart, nice, and no pushover. From my experiences, girls like all of the above, smart - have a future, aspirations for a good job, etc. Be nice, respectful, kind, but not too kind, don't be a freakin pushover. If some Neanderthal thug comes trying to own you, if he insults you, insult him back, if you're a nice guy, you have brains and you can shut him up!
* One of the common mistakes that guys make when trying to attract a girl is when they try to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. This does not impress us girls. Sometimes they like being cared for, but don't be overprotective of her. Compliment her on how she looks. Some like the romantic type, and some like the action guy. It depends, so try to get to know the girl first before making a move to be sure that she'll like what you're doing. Never forget to be yourself. Also, try to make the first move, like asking her out on date, unless the girl you're trying to impress is confident enough to do it before you. But normally we think that guys should make the first move. Good luck!
* Smile, compliment without being cheesy, hang out with her.
* Being funny helps.
* Also being a girl, to attract girls, don't be afraid to talk to us. If you are friends with a girl you like, touch her arm or even tickle her. If a girl kiddingly pushes you, push her back...gently. We like it when guys can feel comftorble around us and have real converations. I know everyone says this but eye contact is really important. Most guys get embarrassed if you make eye contact and look away, but if you
You have to have this mentality like ';YO im tha Sh!t '; without being arrogant. just think of things that you are good at that no one else is and think to yourself ';yeah im the best at doing 'x' in here. no one else is that good. if im good at that, then I can go talk to her'; that sort of thing. And remember, if she says no to you or is a *****, its her mistake for not talking to you
Ahh! Okay, well, I am a girl and it's driving me nuts that the kid I like will not talk to me because he is too nervous. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to not overthink it. If you think of something, just say it. Talk about absolutely whatever with her! She will think you're nice and that's when you'll get the friendship starting. And also, it would look really cute if you looked stupid or over-stressed. Just don't think about what you're going to say to her ahead of time or else that will make you even more nervous.
i can talk to my crush... but if i dont kno my crush then im just a chicken lol.
ummm pretend shes a guy.
obviously we have to have confidence in ourself for anything to happen first .we have to do somthing that makes us a little cocky but not maucho man lift wieghts do something better than just think about sex all the time .. we have to understand that women feel the same way too .
Just remember that girls feel the same way, actually it might be worse! Relax. Just remember to look hr in the yes and speak your mind. When you talk to your friends do you analyze everything you say?
Just have the mentality of not caring at all. If you look like an idiot, so what man? Just go and do it man. That's the kind of confidence you need to have. Works for me.
okay one very important thing - DO NOT TEXT HER
i have ended many relationships on account of the boy only texting me as a flirty text buddy and never doing anything in reality or asking me out anywhere cause they were too nervous. just man up and talk to her. girls are okay with guys looking stupid or over stressed they think its cute lol. talk to her more often, youll eventually get over the nervousness.
The important thing is not to be cocky or worry about what your friends think. Girls appreciate it when guys are sweet and nice. And chances are they'll think it's cute that you're nervous!
I totally understand how you feel. I seem to do that sometimes when I'm around a guy that i like. What I do when I'm talking to a guy that I like I pretend it's one of my friends but I flirt at the same time. It usually works and you have to feel more comfortable around the girl. Just take a deep breath, calm down, and hope for the best. hope that helps! :)
Anyway, how do I go talk to a girl I like and not feel like such a dud?How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Act like she is a friend, don't talk to her like a friend because you want to stay away from that 'just friends' relationship, but when you get around her just stay cool....
~WilliamHow do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Look, I had a crush on a girl once and I, too was scared to talk, but i overcame my fear and got into a new relationship
Trust it, u gotta act think that she is a normal girl. You gotta make yourself think that you just want to be good friends, and thats how u wont get nervous talking to her.
Just do everything that you do to your freinds who are girls, and when you boost your confidence up, then you can think about liking her.
if you make yourself face the fear of taking to girls that you like, then its easier every time. imagine yourself talking to her and the conversation, over and over, make it good, not what you fear would happen but how you want it to go....go for it
Hmm just be yourself, i can't really give any tips.. i mean what answer are you expecting? or not text her? it's kinda shallow but i did that to my gf and she seems fine with it and of course i told her in person too..
its actually very easy, its just hard to explain.
you just need to man up and talk to her lol.
its a lot easier if its a random girl at a party because you will never see her again. or shell be really drunk
Just joke around a lot. That always used to work for me in high school and stuff. I just acted goofy around girls. Because honestly, once you make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. She'll realize you're funny and trustworthy and she can just have a good time around you and then there's no pressure after that. Just talk to her honestly man but don't be so serious.
man, just be YOURSELF..if she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork or whatever then the hell with tha beeach! Plenty of fish in tha see lad!..keep fishing, and you'll hook up with the right women..
You just gotta fight the fear of rejection. Most people get scared cause they dont wanna get up the courage and have the girl/guy say no. But you just gotta get through that. Dont let fear determine what you do in life. And i know its hard but really if you ask and she says no then how much different is your life. But if she says yes well then you'll be on cloud nine. And i'm sure you already know but make sure when you ask a girl out make sure your body language conveys confidence. Very Important.
text her
It's natural to think you'd be a dud, but the truth is the girl will be flattered even if you are a dud!! just be yourself, be wacky and crazy. I am like that when I first see a guy that I like. You have to go in with the confidence that you are not any less if this girl happens to say no, you'll find another girl to just go say HI to. Forget about me rejected or being a dud, and you will see how much easier it can be to talk to someone new!! I know it sounds impossible, but I've done it for years and I have met many great guys, it'll work on girls too!
That is easy. You just have to be confident and be willing to be shot down if it is to happen. If you act all nervous and not confident she will pick that up and will be turned off. You just have to go in their confident. NOT COCKY just confident and be a gent. Some woman like guys who are jerks but woman like a gent.
i suggest talking to girls that you don't like romantically first. it won't be as awkward. and you will get practice. you can talk about the same thing to the girl that you like as the one you don't. hope this helps. ♥
i cant really help you since its your nerves, and i cant change your personality. but if your at a place that you are passionate about or know alot about such as starbucks, see the girl, go up, introduce yourself, and ask her if the drink/snack is worth buying. wait for her answer... and then say, great! thanks... i'll try that next time, and maybe you can join me? just stay calm, cool, and collected. stick to what you know! good luck!
be yourself.
im a girl and thats what i like when guys talk to me.
and always be confident in yourself.
if you emabress yourself, shell forget about it at one point, move on.
good luck%26lt;3
well its sortof akward but all you need to do is start by saying '; Hi my name is......'; welll there u go
THe more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just suck it up. All the feelings you have are normal. Be SURE to show confidence as that is one of the most attractive qualities girls subconsciously/consciously look for in a guy.
You just gotta suck it up and do it. Note, laughter is ALWAYS a great way into a girl's heart! So just try to get a laugh outa her first then the rest will fall into play!
Be ur self
if she smiles at you when u pass by then u get the idea she likes you
or ask her friends if they like you tehn go for it
I'm a girl.
Girls...sometimes they don't mind guys that are nervous. That means they like us.
It's sweet, when they get nervous, cause it also means they won't pressure us that much.
Talk about music, or things you both like. Just ask her questions like you would your best friend that's a guy. I mean, don't bring up sports unless she likes them or whatever.
Just ask her about her favorite colors, her friends, act like your just a friend but be sort of flirty. Make eye contact, ';accidentally'; brush her skin, smile, tickle her if she likes that. Just be yourself and don't think about your feelings.
Hope this helps.
Just be yourself.
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Here is some advice on attracting girls:
* Be yourself and be confident.
* The question is ';How do you attract A girl?'; not any particular girl or THIS girl. The best way to attract a girl is by being a man. Learn all about yourself as a man and relish your manliness. I don't mean turn into Paul Bunyan, but rather indulge the manly things you like to do, whatever they may be. Play sports, fart loudly and ceremoniously, fix things, don't be bashful about scratching your crotch, at some point in the relationship with a girl you must casually tell her that you will have to bend her over and make her your *****, belch with your friends, get dirty, play cards, get a Jeep, go outdoors, learn about cars, learn about computers, feast on grand meals you cook with your buddies on the grill over beers, shoot stuff, blow things up, play with growing a beard (it'll look like crap, but that's okay -- you are a man), play with dogs. Do NOT primp your hair pretty and try to look some certain way, work out because you want to have pretty muscles, try and be something you aren't -- that's gay. If you just have a good time and enjoy doing the manly things you want to do then you'll either bump into some girl that digs it or you'll have enough fun you don't care anyhow (which is even more attractive to a lot of women). When you can truthfully answer the above question with a ';who cares?'; then you are just about there. Oh, also, talk to every girl you meet with a smile on your face. And make a point to meet every pretty girl you see. But when you meet them don't stress about what you say to meet them, just say something stupid that clearly conveys you are not cool, you know you are not cool but you don't care because your confident enough that it doesn't matter.
* Be nonchalant sometimes. And become totally sweet. Be unpredictable.
* There are many ways to do so, but to answer this assessing what your current barriers are would be the first way to start. And if you have any friends who are girls, ask them what you should do differently if you aren't happy with this area of your life. If not, you could rely on a sister for advice.
* Show her that you really like her, and don't keep her guessing.
* Be yourself. Yes, it sounds so cliche but it is true. They will get to know the real you eventually so why not let them fall in love with the right person. Always be honest about your past and things you have done. There is nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward but never pretend to be someone you are not. Don't play games rather let her know how you feel. If you are open, honest and yourself and she still doesn't like you then you don't need her anyways.
* Think you are sexy, and they will too.
* Personally being a girl myself, to attract a girl, stare at her, make her feel special. Talk to her, don't always ignore her, or try to act all tough. Get to know her, tell her how you feel. Don't play with her emotions, just tell her straight up. But get to know her first, and try to see if she feels the same, otherwise just telling her straight up can be quite risky. Just trying to spend time with her, talking with her, or staring at her would usually get a girls attention though. It would flatter her, and she would sooner or later be interested, unless she's already taken.
* Be three things; smart, nice, and no pushover. From my experiences, girls like all of the above, smart - have a future, aspirations for a good job, etc. Be nice, respectful, kind, but not too kind, don't be a freakin pushover. If some Neanderthal thug comes trying to own you, if he insults you, insult him back, if you're a nice guy, you have brains and you can shut him up!
* One of the common mistakes that guys make when trying to attract a girl is when they try to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. This does not impress us girls. Sometimes they like being cared for, but don't be overprotective of her. Compliment her on how she looks. Some like the romantic type, and some like the action guy. It depends, so try to get to know the girl first before making a move to be sure that she'll like what you're doing. Never forget to be yourself. Also, try to make the first move, like asking her out on date, unless the girl you're trying to impress is confident enough to do it before you. But normally we think that guys should make the first move. Good luck!
* Smile, compliment without being cheesy, hang out with her.
* Being funny helps.
* Also being a girl, to attract girls, don't be afraid to talk to us. If you are friends with a girl you like, touch her arm or even tickle her. If a girl kiddingly pushes you, push her back...gently. We like it when guys can feel comftorble around us and have real converations. I know everyone says this but eye contact is really important. Most guys get embarrassed if you make eye contact and look away, but if you
You have to have this mentality like ';YO im tha Sh!t '; without being arrogant. just think of things that you are good at that no one else is and think to yourself ';yeah im the best at doing 'x' in here. no one else is that good. if im good at that, then I can go talk to her'; that sort of thing. And remember, if she says no to you or is a *****, its her mistake for not talking to you
Ahh! Okay, well, I am a girl and it's driving me nuts that the kid I like will not talk to me because he is too nervous. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to not overthink it. If you think of something, just say it. Talk about absolutely whatever with her! She will think you're nice and that's when you'll get the friendship starting. And also, it would look really cute if you looked stupid or over-stressed. Just don't think about what you're going to say to her ahead of time or else that will make you even more nervous.
i can talk to my crush... but if i dont kno my crush then im just a chicken lol.
ummm pretend shes a guy.
obviously we have to have confidence in ourself for anything to happen first .we have to do somthing that makes us a little cocky but not maucho man lift wieghts do something better than just think about sex all the time .. we have to understand that women feel the same way too .
Just remember that girls feel the same way, actually it might be worse! Relax. Just remember to look hr in the yes and speak your mind. When you talk to your friends do you analyze everything you say?
Just have the mentality of not caring at all. If you look like an idiot, so what man? Just go and do it man. That's the kind of confidence you need to have. Works for me.
okay one very important thing - DO NOT TEXT HER
i have ended many relationships on account of the boy only texting me as a flirty text buddy and never doing anything in reality or asking me out anywhere cause they were too nervous. just man up and talk to her. girls are okay with guys looking stupid or over stressed they think its cute lol. talk to her more often, youll eventually get over the nervousness.
The important thing is not to be cocky or worry about what your friends think. Girls appreciate it when guys are sweet and nice. And chances are they'll think it's cute that you're nervous!
I totally understand how you feel. I seem to do that sometimes when I'm around a guy that i like. What I do when I'm talking to a guy that I like I pretend it's one of my friends but I flirt at the same time. It usually works and you have to feel more comfortable around the girl. Just take a deep breath, calm down, and hope for the best. hope that helps! :)
How should i talk to a girl in school?
Okay at first, I was like a who cares kindda guy who wouldn't talk too much and I didn't care how did I look and all that stuff but not anymore.. Though I still am shy when it comes talking to girls specially approaching them.. I like a girl and she is new to school... She is amazing and makes me breathless everytime i see her! So how should I approach her... wudn't it be kindda weird if I go and strt talking to her without her knowing who I am and wud it freak her out? Also her sister is in my class but that girl is same age as me. I know first I have to be friends with her and all that but the problm is how should I strt the conversation and tht should I be friends with her sister who is in my class and then slowly hang-out with them and then move on??? Pls help! ladies especially...tell me how will u feel?How should i talk to a girl in school?
Hey man, I'm gonna assume you are younger than me. I've been in similir situations a couple times in high school, and college. New students are usually easy to talk to because they are scared no one will approach them as friends. If the new girl is ot, she usually gets a boy friend pretty fast, so you need to move in. She won't think your wierd for talking to her, because technically everyone who talks to a new student is talking to them the first time, so you arean't doing anything everyone else isn't doing nyway. I say talk to the girl you like before getting to know her sister. If her sister likes you first, and tells the girl, the girl might not want to step on the sister's territory... so definately talk to the sister you like first! Then say, I think your sister is in my class, so that she will tell her sister you guys have class together, and then the sister might be more apt to tell you that you are liked when the right time comes. But, DO NOT be afraid to approach her. You snooze you lose! Best wishes, and Good Luck man!How should i talk to a girl in school?
plz go up to her..do it b4 u start to immortalize her..making her seem more bigger/important than what it is..which is just a crush
Hey man, I'm gonna assume you are younger than me. I've been in similir situations a couple times in high school, and college. New students are usually easy to talk to because they are scared no one will approach them as friends. If the new girl is ot, she usually gets a boy friend pretty fast, so you need to move in. She won't think your wierd for talking to her, because technically everyone who talks to a new student is talking to them the first time, so you arean't doing anything everyone else isn't doing nyway. I say talk to the girl you like before getting to know her sister. If her sister likes you first, and tells the girl, the girl might not want to step on the sister's territory... so definately talk to the sister you like first! Then say, I think your sister is in my class, so that she will tell her sister you guys have class together, and then the sister might be more apt to tell you that you are liked when the right time comes. But, DO NOT be afraid to approach her. You snooze you lose! Best wishes, and Good Luck man!How should i talk to a girl in school?
plz go up to her..do it b4 u start to immortalize her..making her seem more bigger/important than what it is..which is just a crush
How do I talk to a girl when she is with her boyfriend or a guy she knows?
Theres a girl I like and I want to talk to but she is with someone. She is with a guy and I feel awkward. What should I say? I hate to wait because its my only chance I may get.
How do I talk to a girl when she is with her boyfriend or a guy she knows?
The best thing is to wait, but if you can't, maybe you should start as a friend, then she will know you and may be she leaves the other guy for you. If not, you will pass some time with her. You will get a chance.
How do I talk to a girl when she is with her boyfriend or a guy she knows?
The best thing is to wait, but if you can't, maybe you should start as a friend, then she will know you and may be she leaves the other guy for you. If not, you will pass some time with her. You will get a chance.
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