How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?

Okay well I blew my chance at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free, but now her friends bother/circle her, and I can't get her alone to talk to her, or even like try to flirt with her.





We only have lunches together, and even then it is hard.How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
Most girls look to her friends to get an opinion on a guy, so you have to have courage and talk to her and her friends in a group. You can't be scared, but if you're really that scared to talk to her when her friends are around try getting her phone number or add her on facebook or msn if she has it. Good luck! :)How can I talk to a girl if her friends are always around her?
I've always wondered this. It's prevented me from talking to many girls. I'd say just wait until the bell rings to go to class and follow her, not like stalking, just see where she goes and take this as an ';alternate'; route to class and when her friends go their separate ways then talk to her.
frist change those lunches to dinner maybe that will work.. and give her a letter that always cute..
Confidence works every time. Just walk up to her with her friends around and start talking to her. It will go a long way.
Just ask her to talk to you,


it can't hurt. Just go up to her, and be like


'Hey, can we hang out? :) '


Smile though, don't be so uptight and look nervous.
try and get her number or write her a letter or just tell her that u need to talk to her private
Go up to her while she's in her group of friends and ask her if you could talk to her or hang out sometime. She might like that. It worked on me. =)
hahhah see shoulda taken the chance while u had it! well if she was free once before, im sure she will b free once again. just this time, DO IT!! or you could try and join the conversation with her and her friends, if ur confident enough.
um, i never understand this about boys.. no offense:) but girls prefer it if you talk to them when their friends are around, and when their alone.. because otherwise it just seems as though you only talk to us when we're alone, and that doesnt feel right.. so speak to her always :) she will appriciate it. xx
Talk about what there talking, its not too hard. They are talking about X, ask questions about X. Get in the conversation.
your best bet would be to find one of these circling friends alone and just ask them to set the two of you up, or just have the friends leave when you come over during lunch.





girls love this kind of thing, and i'm sure one of her friends would me more than glad to help you out.
1.It's all about confidence! Maintain the attitude that she is lucky that you like her (make sure you are making her laugh, and in a nice way)--and if she doesn't see that she is lucky--well, there are plenty of girls who will. If you are not that confident, or you are shy, you should work on this dilemma by trying the ideas with some girls who are not your special crush. Learn the process with some nice girls who are friendly, and are not too scary.


2.Work up to that special one when you have had some good results with this process (and feel like it). Having butterflies in your tummy, and a catch or shake in your voice is fine; just don't give up or fall back just because it makes you feel shaky: that is actually a sign that she is impressive to you--tell her that she impresses you if you want to. Be prepared to tell ';what and why'; you notice her (to show that you mean it)...


3.Compliment her: Tell her she has a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes, but do not say something that is not true. And--don't say them one after the other! (It is highly recommended that you must talk about other things before complimenting or else it feels awkward)


4.Girls like it when boys try to defend them when someone makes fun of them or threatens them. However, in other settings like a workplace or college, these things would rarely occur.


5.In most cases, if you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you do not like her, so she won't like you.


6.Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly, so try doing that.


7.NEVER say to a girl that she is hot, it might make her very uncomfortable--like an object; say she is pretty or beautiful instead.


8.Give her your phone number, MySpace, IM, etc. when you know each other well enough.


9.If she asks if she looks bad or stupid, say no, no matter what you think. Never pause and think though that makes her think your lying
dont wimp out. talk to her whenever you see her. and if you're man enough, go up to her as soon as you se her friends around her. that will prove you're not afraid of rejection and will put you right on the market if you're....rejected.{{no offense}}
tell her to meet u in the hall during class or something


or wait after school


or myspace then tell her the prob then maybe she'll seperate herself if she likes u
Every guy who is really successful with girls knows that the best way to a girl is... thru her friends! You have to get her friend's approval -if they like you, then she will LOVE you! Because they will be encouraging her to get with you.





So, you talk to her friends first! You have to have confidence to be comfy doing this, but just look for an oppourtune moment. Say you see one of her friends drop something, take the chance to speak to the friend, then the rest of the group, including the girl you like =)
its always best when a guy just walks up and starts talking,


who cares what the other people think?


she will notice you soo much more if you just walk up,


trust me(:


confidence is KEY.


just make sure you have something to talk about,


dont just walk up there and say hey,


and she says hey back. and then you just stand there :)


plluuuss im sure after you talk to her this time, orr maybe a couple other times after,


she will make ways to talk to you alone.


she'll want to reach out after you do.


good luck :D
Get to know one of her friends as you'll probably find that'll you have a lot more confidence in talking to someone that doesn't mean much to you than to the girl your falling for, don't make the one you like too jealous, and make sure the friend of hers you talk to doesn't get too close to you.. and to avoid that talk about that cute girl you speak of to her friend, make it obvious you like her, then the path to finally talk to her will open my friend
try going with a group of guy friends so that theycan ditract the others or maybe you can all talk together and in the end she will be confident enough to talk to you alone.


or ask her if you can have a private conversation.
well I would definetly say if you like this girl you better find a way cause you dont never want to have what if.....but idk just get in good with the people she talk 2 and find one of them to help you try to get next to her and if that dont work write her a little note so that way u can slip it in her locker or in her book to meet you somewhere or have a school counselor give her the note to meet you somewhere......it worked for me the gettin to know one of his friends and now were friends....!!





well i hope i helped u Good Luck =D
well, that's tough.. the best thing would be to just approach her when she is kinda far from the group %26amp; tell her you want to talk to her, and then ask her if you guys could go somewhere and talk then or later at another place cause if you just say anything like commenting about the food, etc. she will think it's just a comment, so you need to let her know you want to talk to her.
this is kinda hard but saba tsh all her friends so they get a lunch detition and when at the beggening of luch if you school sells water botls byer one hpefeully shee lugs down and then when she have to go to bathroom go whith her like you do to then go when you here th tlit in the girls bathroom flush flush a stalll just case if trying to listen for thflush and quickly leave go in the hall whait by drinking at th water fountain also uses thi time to thainup a qustion to as her that will lead to aski you out her or her asking herout then when she walks past you say her name then as the qustion you wait after she past you because it will mke it so sh has to stop walking trust mea its harder to ask a girl out whil waking
champ,


whatever you do, dont try that stalker approach suggested by the guy above me, if she has noticed you checking her out in the past (probably has) then if you suddenly run into her ';by accident'; on the way home shes gonna be on yahoo answers that night posting up ';i have a stalker.... pls help!';. you definitely dont want that. im not sure how old you are champ, but you sound between 14-16, and its completely understandable that you dont want to walk up to her while she has all her friends around her. but bro, waiting until she is alone may not even work cos as you said ';i blew my chances at talking to this cute girl, by not talking to her when she was free';.


all i can say is, instead of waiting for all the stars to allign for a perfect opportunity to talk to this girl, which may be tomorrow, or may be next month, you just be a man walk up to her and say hi. beleive me, if she is cute, and has ';guys around her'; then she aint gonna be single forever.


I can promise you champ, from my 20 years of being on this earth, if you just walked up to her one day while her friends are around her or not, and just said ';hi'; confidently, she WILL notice you more and WILL have you in the back of her mind. there is NOTHING girls like more in a man than confidence. if you say hi to her while her friends are around her that will just show her you are confident. but if you still want to get her byherself just say this CONFIDENTLY





';hi, hows it goin today?'; (her) ';good'; (you) ';Im _____ etc etc';





dont let your nerves get the better of you champ, and remember this saying if it doesnt go as well as planned ';Plenty Of Fish In The Sea, So Go Fishing...... Or Surfing';





good luck and stay strong