Sunday, November 21, 2010

How to be confident when you want to talk to a girl?

Hi. I am pretty shy with girls, so I was wondering how I can build my confidence when I go up to a girl and also how to talk to a girl/things to say when you go up to a girl and want to talk to her.How to be confident when you want to talk to a girl?
how would you talk to a guy.................get it? Relax, if you're nervous they'll be nervous too. Don't make it awkward or anything just talk..How to be confident when you want to talk to a girl?
Just grab your balls and tell her straight up.
Pretend it doesn't matter if you get rejected.



It shouldn't matter. If you get rejected, just find a new girl.



Simple :) There are what... 3 billion of them?
you pretend youre black
Grow a set and say ';Hi, what's up?';



Generally conversation leads itself from there, for normal human beings.
They don't bite and remember many gurls find confidence sexy
just tell your self you only live once. You have nothing to lose. If she rejects you you had a better chance approaching her then not and having a 0 percent chance.
just talk to her just go with the flowmake jokes if she likes u then shell laugh if not then ur boned
just smile at her and look her in her eyes and say hi and pay her a nice compliment, we gals like that.
there just like guys, the only difference is they have no balls.
first of all relax practice what your going to say before you say it

don't let the girl see that you are nervous act

start with small talk and build up to a deeper conversation
maintain eye contact, smile, and make small talk. be funny. and never use cheesy pickup lines.
just tell yourself shes just a girl and chill out be yourself dont be thinking :omg what is she thinking of me right now...just go with the flow



dont be nervous cause girls can see right thru nervousness and its kinda of a sign of weakness and no one likes weak guys..
just go for it, dont hesitate, the more you do, the harder it gets
forget that fact they they are a ';girl you like'; and talk to them like you would any other person, if they like ur personality from there, u might have a chance
Don't think about being shy. Try to picture yourself as being a confident person even when you may not be. Or if all else fails just ';grab your balls and do it';
Just walk up to her and tell her the truth and if she says no, you will know that she is missing out.
Just know someone from her group and gradually get into the group's conversation if they let you. If they are talking about a teacher, for example, tell your experience to them somehow and pay a special attention to the girls u like.





Answer mine?

First question under my profile titled ';Should I ask her out?';
i just think

you know what ***** it, im going to talk to this guy right now...





it works for me....
don't be shy. girls love confidence, just not too much..

haha :p



say something like.. ';hey, how are you?';

or ';hey, what's up'; say anything decent.
Walk around naked in public. Once you can do that, talking to girls is easy.
u just got to realize that everyone gets rejected in life

life is too short

so just ask away! you might get lucky

and when u do get rejected keep your head up high and still be confident

chicks dig that
Work on that by talking to people that you dont know. Try your hand at small talk when you go to a drivethru. the clerk at a store...etc. Just start small
Okay, I grew up in a all-woman household (mom, aunt, and their mom.) I would hardly even talk to boys until 10th grade. Somehow going to an all-girls school gave me the confidence to talk to boys (they told us it would.) The main thing you have to remember (this was hard for me, but it should be easier for a guy talking to a girl because we're more willing to talk to you about guy-ish stuff than you are to us about girly stuff) is that talking to a guy is no different than talking to a girl. Don't talk about gross stuff or stuff you'd only do with your guy friends, because most girls don't like that, but you can talk to us about 80% of the stuff you talk to guy friends about. There's no set list of stuff you can/can't talk to us about. You should probably start with the more tomboyish girls, and if she's in a conversation about something you know something about, put your two cents in or ask a question.
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