What would a girl see in a guy that makes a girl want to go out with him?

I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I never really talk to girls. I'm nice but very shy when not around my friends. I'm tall, not really athletic just average, play basketball, and have glasses. I'm not popular but not a nerd, just average. What would make a girl want to go out with me and how could i overcome my shyness?What would a girl see in a guy that makes a girl want to go out with him?
Just be yourself. dont think about what you say. i used to be like that and i got none of the guys, now i am friends with about everyone because i speak up and say what i think and crack jokes. im in 8th grade and i was like that last year. you'll get the hang of it, just start hanging out with girls and try to make them laugh, not in a stupid way but do something or (i no this is mean) make fun of someone to try to loosen the mood. hope i helped. and i have a question that i'd love your opinion on if you have time. it's the last one i asked lol. thanksWhat would a girl see in a guy that makes a girl want to go out with him?
All girls are different. We don't want the same thing. If you consider yourself an ';average'; guy, you can expect to get an ';average'; girl. It's all about the mindset and how you see yourself.



Instead of being shy, don't be afraid to talk to new people. If you've got something to say, say it (if appropriate!). You say you play basketball, showcase your skills. Try getting contacts and making new friends with people with similar personalities to your own.



You can ask a lot of girls what they like in a guy and you'll get a load of answers. Girls are always changing their minds, so you shouldn't even try to change for one person or go for a certain crowd of girls.



Good Luck! :-D
simple; confidence in yourself!! one of the hottest things to me about a guy is when he is sure about himself. with that, he is not afraid to be funny, cute, silly, or protective. a way you could overcome your shyness is to really not care about what others say, and (this will sound cliche) but believe in yourself! just be confident. come up to a girl, strike up a conversation, and make her laugh! trust me, us girls like that! :)
Well i'm 14 going on 15 in 8th goin in 9th.ha ha ha. what i look for is a cute face a cute smile.someone who is nice to me but also jokes around and isn't always serious. someone who wraps there arms around my waist and kisses my neck...man i LOVE that.just al little tip most girls do. ummm... someone who will stand up and protect me.(mainly because i'm little i'm 5'0 and 95 pounds) ummmmm.....someone who i can run into there arms whenever i'm cryin and they will ask who the hell they gotta wip. Thats all i can tell you so hope this helped...oh and get a six pack we love that in wv i mean love it.
just talk to other girl and make conversation with them andif they seem to like you try give them hints that you like them by saying nice things to them like,i like you hair and your cute stuff like that. and hangout with them.
Confidence not cocky but sure of himself and full of life%26gt;
You looked in that mirror for 13 years. That face looked back.

You have had 13 years to learn its flaws. You see them well.

Someone on the outside - doesn't see that face at all.



Your emotion, self feeling (pride, or shame) all blur, and blind you to who you are. Puberty makes it much worse. It really is a season of insanity. Guys come out of the fog and madness around 22-24. Its about 10 years away. (good luck).



You are shy but want a girl. What for? What do you hope to have - when you have her? Think about it - you have some reason for it.



Girls are just as human as you. Yes they are alien and a-logical but they are totally human. They can be brilliant, they have their own very consistent logic, and they have their own motives.



Did you think why you wanted the girl? Is it for the same reason as any other guy? Are all guys identical - clones of each other or do they have different ideas, different hopes, different expectations ... different wants? Guys all have different reasons.



If you can't tell what a guy sees in a girl, or if he has this motive or that one - why would you be able to see it better in a girl?

My point: every girl is different. You can't get a silver bullet that makes every woman want you - and you really don't want it even if you had it.



The girl you are crushing on - take the time (like 3 months min) to learn about her. Try to understand her motives. Those cheezy ';favorite color, favorite movie, favorite food'; sorts of questions - they are to give you ideas about things to buy her, movies to as her to go to, and restaurants you could go to. They are not bad as a jumping off point to get ideas about what a girl might want - might like.



Study the girl - know her, and dont approach her like you are a wolf, and she is some steak you want to turn into wolf-poop (by eating her with a consumerist attack) - and you might find that she is willing to share what she is looking for, and open to finding it in you.



Just be willing to hear ';Im not ready and might not be until Im 22'; because if she says it in words, and you cant hear that - then she says it in actions, you get a broken heart and when she is 22 - she finds someone unlike you.