I'm in ninth grade and I have gone out with girls before. In my French class there is this really cute single girl. I have tried to talk to her and tried to become friendly with her but she barely ever talks! Usually when I talk to girls, they talk too much but I really like this girl and she is mute -.- how do I get her to like or even just acknowledge me?How do I get a quiet girl to notice me?
If she is quiet then I am pretty sure she has already noticed you. Quiet girls usually talk with their ears and eyes rather then mouth. Translation: They're more observative.
If you want her to talk back come into her world. You are not going to get her talking much by talking like you would to your friends. Talk calm, soft and sutle-- like she would. This will make it so that whenever you talk to her she'll feel relaxed and more calm. Besides, people are subconsciously attracted to people that act like them.
Ask her questions like, ';Did you do the homework in French class last night?'; And if she did it you can pretend that you didn't get one part of it and ask for help. You can also ask her for help for class work as well. Basically say things she can relate to. Ask questions that she can't shake her head yes or no to.
If you ever notice that she speaks French real well TELL HER! Say something like you're having a hard time writting in French and you need someone to help you out a little. Plus girls love compliments! So find anything to compliment her on and it will work. Just don't pile her in too many!
Eye contact is always good. It lets her know that you are interested/attracted to her. At least that's what I would think! lol [[=
Overall, just give her some time to get comfortable around you. Just be super nice to her and smile whenever you talk to her. Say hi in the hallways. This will really trigger something in her brain that lets her know you are interested. GOOD LUCK!!! [[=How do I get a quiet girl to notice me?
I'm guessing there's homework, projects, in-class discussion?
Use any of those to get her to talk if the rest fails.
She could be shy, or she could simply not be interested.
How is she with her friends?
Have you noticed her around campus?
Can you get any clues as to what her interests are, from a binder or a concert shirt or something. As many have said, some girls aren't comfortable opening up to people they don't know, most of the time, guys.
You can't get people to like you, and I'm assuming she knows you exist. Try and see what she's like outside of class, maybe she's just not confident in French class and doesn't want the teacher to notice her?
Does she ever take a quick glance at you? Does she ever stop talking of pause in the hallway when you go by? Anything like this means that she really like you and just doesn't know what to say. If you are in Spanish say something to her in spanish and either she will have to reply back, or she won't know what you said and ask you. Don't worry if none of that works. People that are shy just take time to get to know a person. Does she have any friends? Maybe talk to then. Just don't be so to friendly because then she will think you are just a weirdo.
If you notice something like a band or a movie, start talking to her about it and if you don't know anything research it. Ask her what music shes into or what she likes to do in her free time. See if she would go to a movie or get ice cream. Just keep trying to talk to her she'll come around, shes shy just give it time, talk to her a little each day.
Remember, if she doesn't gab a lot, that doesn't mean she is completely uninterested or hates you. Find out what she likes. Ask her if she wants to study together after. You know, classic things. Give her a compliment. If she smiles back or seems interested enough to talk, you can maybe become friends and then you'll see. Some girls don't like to talk a lot, flirt, or open up to guys they don't know yet.
try to sit with her... but ask first! don't talk too much... i've noticed girls don't really like loud guys, try being friends with her but don't try too hard, and maybe she doesn't like you now cause you give the appearance of a male whore... idk if you hang out with too many girls but don't give that appearance
good luck
Try to get her number and text her, start out by just asking about homework and then get a little more comfortable with her smile at her and say hi in the hall ways, maybe go out with a huge bunch of friends and invite her.
Tease, tease, tease.
It will get you noticed and her talking.
idk, if she's smart ask her for help on something. if you're doing some kind of group or partner project then ask her to be in your group. good luck.
i say try to get to know her better and start making her laugh
thats wat i aways do
just keep talking to her and be really friendly. ask her about herself, make her come out of her shell. good luck! =)
try texting or note passing
if you dont have her number get it
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