Is this a rude response when a girl talks about her ex?

Say your having dinner with a girl and she brings up her ex and talks about him, saying how they enjoy doing this and that. The girl doesn't have much friends, so she resorted to being friends with her ex.



What if I were to say ';If I wanted to know about [ex's name], I'd ask him out on a date';, and then change the subject. Would she think I am rude? Is this a rude response when a girl talks about her ex?
she might like you and have said that in a quick shy manner



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that would be rude dude dont say that unless she talks about him on everything you do together Is this a rude response when a girl talks about her ex?
yeah, pretty much.

but hey, do what you gotta do.
Good come back and so what if she gets an attitude
Yeah, but like kelly said, do what you gotta do.
yea that was a dick head thing to say
Well it depends on how she'd take it. If she took it like: Yeah he's right i'm on a date with HIM not on a date with my ex, it'd be okay.

In all honesty, I think that guys and girls should never talk about exes. It puts a little bit of strain on both parts
Yes, it's rude but it gets the point across. No one wants to hear about your sainted husband or wife either or the one you divorced.
No I say that's funny as hell, she shouldn't be talking bout an ex when shes with you unless you asked.
She might think you think she still have feeling for her ex
Maybe--but it's funny.
yeah that is rude

u could just be like.. okayyyy lets talk about somethin else

n she will probably get that it is bothering u n she will stop
Probably yes. Even though its true... might not be the most tactful way of saying it.



Would be better to just change the subject tactfully... like oh yeah, well I like going here... and doing this....



But if she is constantly talking about her ex.. she may no be over him yet. That is a sticky situation.



Be careful... but communication is the key.
If she still hangs out with him and talks that much about him, she is NOT over him. Find a new gal.
I think I would take it as rude, but then again I'd never be rude enough to bring up my ex during a date lol. I guess if you say it like your mad she'd take it bad, but if you said it calmly and nicely it should go over okay.
She would think that you were a little rude, a little jealous, and a bit angry. I'd use a more subtle approach to tell her.
Yeah pretty much. But she shouldn't have brought his name up during the dinner either.
yeah she would think it was rude,

but if i was you i woudnt care what she thought.



cause if she goes out on a date with you and then talks about her ex then she seems like a pretty dumb *****!!
yea but i would say ';can we not tlk about ur ex..its bothering me?'; tht would b a lil less rude then wat u want to say
Her behavior is rude and insensitive. I think your response is kind of funny and she deserves it.
just atlk about your ex too, see how she likes that.


yes, there are better ways to change the subject
Just tell her you're not comfortable talking about him.

Or get used to it, which is probably the best idea if they are friends.

I used to go out with a girl like that, it can get really annoying but she will be offended if you don't let her talk about them sometimes.
ya u would try saying it in a little nicer form
That would be a rude answer, but she's rude to talk about her ex during a date with another person. Big no-no.
She might have...

just tell her you dont want to hear abou what your ex does and doesnt do
Yea she would think you were rude lol but she shouldn't be talking about an ex at dinner with you... She had it coming :)
Yeah a little in my opinion. I would just let her talk, and try not to pay attention to it. Or try to look for an opening in her words to change the topic. Like if she says ';My ex likes baseball'; say ';I like baseball too, I watch it every time it's on!'; etc
Yeah that is pretty rude and shows you already feel threatened.

I think there are other ways of changing the subject. Just bring up a different topic anytime she goes there and talks abotu her ex, that way it is subtle and will not annoy her or stop her from wanting to see you.
ummm its a little harsh.... try another approch....that being said its pretty fooish to talk oddles about an ex on a date.
I'm a girl and I think its rude to bring up an ex on a date..

I honestly don't think what you said was bad at all
answer 1: OBVIOUSLY!!!



Answer 2: ID DITCH U, U DUMB@$$