How hard is it to talk to a girl with two children (1 and 2 yrs) while she's dealing with them?

While they are crying, screaming, stooling up themselves, and spilling things? How hard would it be for that girl to talk on the phone? And how much can that tire her out?How hard is it to talk to a girl with two children (1 and 2 yrs) while she's dealing with them?
I have 2 kids, ages 2 and almost 5, and I NEVER make phone calls when they are around unless I absolutely HAVE TO.



';Mom she's sitting too close to me!'; Then she kicks him, then he yells, then he hits her, then she cries....



Its impossible to talk on the phone with 2 little kids around.How hard is it to talk to a girl with two children (1 and 2 yrs) while she's dealing with them?
dude it really depends on the situation. i would try and speak to her when they're asleep (if she isnt exhausted already and in bed herself!)
it's incredibly hard. Imagine trying to keep 2 babies occupied, quiet, unharmed,while listening and comprehending what he other person is saying on the phone. Her attention is elsewhere, so don't be offended if she's not completely devoted to the call.
A good Mom would get off the phone and deal with her children who obviously need attention! You looking to become their Daddy? If not then drop her, she's looking to find someone to help with those kids!
It's very difficult for a mom to talk while dealing with children.
It's VERY hard. If you can't understand that, go off somewhere by yourself and grow up, so you don't bother other people.
It's definitely a full time job. u are busy trying to keep your eye on them to make sure they aren't doing something that will kill them. it is an exhausting thing, especially with no help.
she obviously is n unfit mother sounds like myex daughter inlaw kids crying screaming breaking things n allshe cares is being on the phone i suggest u forget that can of worms give those kids a break if u on the phone with her tell her u call her later for her to tend to her kids needs
LOl 1 child can be alot let alone 2 let alone going to school or working fulltime but if you guys are friends %26amp; have a good connection it shouldnt be hard. I have dated a couple and sure its hard at first but you have to understand that the kids come first %26amp; once you do and you work around them %26amp; her schedule things become easier %26amp; better. You can talk to her while she's getting ready for bed or cooking or something. I've never had a problem %26amp; i've never tried to compete against the kids or even her if you do you're done pretty much. You can't make it about you you have to accept that whether its your kid or not they come first %26amp; 99% of the time a woman would choose them over a friend or lover. It is very hard at times but why you have to especially in the beginning come up with things you can do that fit into her schedule like a family movie that you all can watch %26amp; while the kids watch you could talk to about her day or whatever. Obviously the kids will interrupt at times but thats to be expected and even 5 minutes of them focused on Wall-E is 5 minutes to talk with her... Obviously you can't be to serious in talk around them but again you have to take some set backs. Also you can still get more grown up movies and watch them after the kids go to bed it can help her unwind and settled down herself %26amp; is low mantaince. She can get ready for bed and sit down next to you and even fall asleep there or whatever but still its time with her... Movies also can be calming for kids so that again helps to settle them down allowing her more time to focus attention else where.
Why don't you visit her and see what it's like in person!
Some days you people around here just make me nuts! Why in hell would you assume that this girl is a bad mom just because she's able to talk on the phone and change a diaper at the same time?



Every day moms use potentially dangerous appliances (irons, stoves) while there's kiddies running amok! Why can't she tuck the phone on her shoulder and talk to a friend for 5 while changing the baby?????



No one said she's making million dollar deals with Donald Trump that require her full attention and she's therefore ignoring her kids.....You all just assume that while she's on the phone they're under the counter drinking bleach or something!



You're all just nasty sometimes!



Add: Sorry....to answer your question...when you have small kids you learn to multitask but yes it tires you out and bed feels good at night.
Well, if they are anything like my daughter Id imagine it would be nearly impossible for her. When Im on the phone my daughter knows I am distracted and she gets into EVERYTHING that she knows she is not supposed to.