Friday, November 12, 2010

How can I start to talk to an American girl?

I'm Japanese male.

I found an attractive girl in my class. I really want to get know her.

BUT I still have poor English. Do American girl (teenager) talk with non-native speakers even though I cannot speak perfectly? I know well that I have to brush up my English skills first, but I have a crush on this girl. What can I do? How can I move first? Please give me some advices. Thank you!How can I start to talk to an American girl?
Aww I'm sorry us american girls can be a big pain to talk to (for you out of townrs anyway) The best advise I have for you is to relax. If a girl rejects you because you aren't great at english then you are too good for her anyway. How you know that you've got a girl that's actually worth your time? is easy. She has to accept you for how and who you are, and have manors. Now that's a girl that's worth it.



As for making a move. No one can give you better advise then to say, Just go for it! take a deep breath, walk up to your girl, bluntly ask her out. If you try being all ';nice guy'; with an American girl, she will only see you as a friend. You want her to see you as boyfriend material right? Well in that case, talk to her a lot, ask her questions about herself, tell her a few thing about yourself then go for the punch line and say something like ';Im going to the mall later, you can join if you want'; (by saying ';if you want'; you will not look foolish. )



Whatever you do, dont show her that you are desperate or needy EVER this is a huge turn off.





good luck my dear!

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