What do you think? How should I react? My fiance has 3-4 guy friends who all have gfs or wives. One girl is?

so insecure and jealous, she has excluded me and another girl and there fore none of us really hang out anymore. I have tried to be friends with the other girls, but I think this one has told lies on me. She has told lies to me about other people, so that is why I think that.



My fiance and I built a hosue in the summer. No One ever threw us a party or gave us anything. Now this other couple has bought a house and the trash talking girl is throwing them a party. I am hesitant to go. One reason, they never call my fiance and me to do things and go out with out us.

It hurts my feelings, and I am done with it, but these are my bf's friends and girlfriends that exclude him.



I don't see why we should go to a housewarming party- if they never invite us anywhere else.



The girls are nice to me. They just never call. We used to do things together, but that has stopped.



AM I wrong?What do you think? How should I react? My fiance has 3-4 guy friends who all have gfs or wives. One girl is?
I think you should go, and here are a few reasons why.



1. If the trash talker is a gf, she probably won't be around forever, but your fiance's friend will likely always be a friend. Help your guy out. Go for him, and help his friendship.



2. Show trash girl that you aren't afraid of her BS. Go with a genuine smile and disprove all of the crap she says about you.



Guys can get led around by their girls. I have fallen into that trap myself and deeply regret how I treated my friends and family. Your fiance's friends my not be standing up for themselves, but I guarantee they like you both. The trouble makers won't last forever. Enjoy the partyWhat do you think? How should I react? My fiance has 3-4 guy friends who all have gfs or wives. One girl is?
I think you're being petty, vindictive, and childish. Yes, you're wrong.
Are you wrong about what?



Honey - you seem very shallow and insecure, too. Nobody is under any obligation to buy you a housewarming gift or throw you a party.. If you wait for other people to do stuff like this you'll be waiting a long time.



If you want to get together with some of the other girls, call them and make plans. You're a grown up. Grown ups recognise that some people get along better than others. You are not required to include people you don't get on with in your circle of friends.
Get a life... what about your friends?



Geez make new friends if that is so important.
Not wrong. I would rise above it and go to party to show you are above the pettyness and then just focus on you and your Fiance.
No, if they are are rude, self centered and talk trash all the time then you do not need to be around them and let others that might know you think you are like them. Just forget them and find better friends from now on to hang out with .Why be stressed out over someone Else's actions?
Well for one you wrong to assume they are jealous and insecure it could be they just don't like you that's possible. My spouse has friend I don't like and some friends who girls I don't like to hang with they are simply not my type of ppl and he is the same with my friends. There is no guarantee that all the girlfriends or spouses of the friends are going to mesh like the original friends did.
I don't know if this a case of right or wrong. You have ever right to not go if you don't want to. I do however think this situation seems like something that someone in high school would go through. You're not a part of their clique. So the hell what? Make new friends. Hell, be each other's friend. But why would it matter so much that you're accepted by them? That's rather juvenile.
Yes, you are wrong.

You want. You do.



Only an extremely close friend could be so brazen as to plan and throw a house-warming party on your behalf - someone like a sister or brother.

Getting invited to a party is far more trivial than planning and throwing one.



You do not have to be close friends with your bf's friends gf's....

You are treating these /acquaintances/ as though they were your close friends.