Thursday, October 28, 2010

Can someone help me stop chokin when i see this girl at school we talk on the phone with no probs. plz HELP ME

Me and this girl talk on the phone almost every night for 1 to 2 hrs but i'm also nervous then How do i stop the nervousness. ( shes also the first girl i've tried to date in high school So if u could give me some tips i would really luv it!! P.S. I'm a poet will that help too?Can someone help me stop chokin when i see this girl at school we talk on the phone with no probs. plz HELP ME
a poet? thats nice! listen i wish i could give you a manual of all the right things you should do, but every girl is different. the best thing that you can do, no lie, is just force yourself to talk to her and come up with some conversation. it happens to all of us to get so nervous around people that we like, but the best way to get over it is just to confront that fear. practice makes perfect. the more you talk to her in person, even if you'll still be nervous, the more you'll like it and the more you'll want to do it. so ante up and get in there!Can someone help me stop chokin when i see this girl at school we talk on the phone with no probs. plz HELP ME
if yall talk on the phone that much, im guessing yall are good friends. on the phone, ask her if she gets the same way that you do when yall see each other.
Stop being shy and Get out of Your Shell. Thank you
think before you speak and take a few deep breaths. slow down your speech and if you get nervous at making eye contact a good trick is to look at their nose lol you cant tell the difference
Tell her how u feel when u talk to her on the phone, maybe that will make it a little easier. Or u could write her a poem, wich would be really sweet.
welll

when you choke, try to calm down

cause u cant just keep having normal convos on the phone

hang out with her more so you get used to her so that u wont be nervous so much

get to know her more also, ask her about her likes, dislikes, etc.

write her a poem if you want to
This happened to my daughter. She is probably as nervous as you are. Find a mutual interest such as sports or music and begin your face to face conversation that way. Also keep a notepad and pen handy during your phone conversations, make notes...You can always find healthy topics from your notes. If not poetry always works....Good Luck
ok well first you need to get to know her better.........but don't scare her.....and if your 14 or up yes poems would be lovley........but not if your 13 or younger that would just scare her away..........you'll get use to it.........ps:good luck
USE THE POET FACTOR! The best thing you can do is give her poetry. That will make her feel special, like you took the time to write this wonderful/beautiful thing about her! Try to just start a conversation. Start out slow and work your way up to a great conversation. Just be yourself. Do you know if she likes you too? If she does, than tell her how you feel. It will also help break the ice.
relax before u go to talk to her at school, start out with ';hey'; then whenever u start to feel nervous just think, wuts the worst thing that could happen?
hmm strange. you just need to relax, if you talk to her on the phone that much, obviously you have something to talk about and you dont need to worry about her not liking you so just act confident even if you dont feel it, and before you know it you will be!
Man you got to grow pair..and just be you and just try to think of her as just another girl...your foot is already in the door...just stop thinking so hard.
This is the best composition for your poetry. It is the only sincere love which gives birth to a poet. So forget your nervousness %26amp; tell her frankly that you love her %26amp; she is your poetry.
tell her ur nervous and she will be cool with it and it will calm you down. I always just tell people I'm nervous and then I feel better. If she asks you why you're nervous, just say I guess it's from talking to you. That will sound sweet. Girls like sweet behavior.
Well I think u should just pretend that u are talkin to her on the phone scince their are no problems on the phone
Just be yourself man. She probably knows what type of person you are from the way you talk on the phone. Just be calm and talk to her. She must like you if she talks to you alot on the phone.
try scoring some downers on the street, and pop them before school, this should definitly help you remain calm.............try VALLIUM 10MG. TO START........................
The poetry thing will work in high school with the right girl. If you're talking on the phone a few hours a night you can probably pull it off, if she knows that you're into it. But if you spring it on her, like the only reason you're writing is because of her, then it could be a bit weird.



Come to think of it if your'e choking otherwise don't do the poetry thing. You need to find a way to materialize your common interests into conversation. Don't make it about ';talking'; to her in real life, just talk to her in real life. Eventually somewhere down the line you can tell her how you really feel and see what happens.
try to c her as a friend u normally talk to. when u think of girls different it makes things harder. just talk to her and don't worry about wat happens
This has always worked for me. Just offer to eat her Pu55y, if she says no, then she's a f4g. LOLZ
You say your a poet....................well then write her a poem about how you fell about her. Then either read it to her over the phone or give it to her at school.

Good Luck %26amp; God Bless!!!
If she talks on the phone with you almost every night for about 1 or 2 hours, then she probably likes you. I don't think a girl would talk to a guy that much unless she liked talking to him as a friend or boy friend.



Just try to relax and enjoy her company and conversation. Be yourself. Share some of your poetry with her and ask her what she thinks about it.



Talk to her about her interest and what she likes. Enjoy her friendship.
she's a sure catch.. all you need is an ounce of courage to say the things that must be said..

you're being a poet might be an advantage that if she's romantic enough to read your piece she might be head over heels in love with you.

you can send her poems, be it creative, might hang it on a tree which she can pick it up on her way home, don't forget to include to ask her out it might be your last chance.. just be cool.. and say it.. ';sieze the opportunity of the moment or the moment passes you by!';
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