*10 POINTS * How to talk girl? (special situation!)?

Okay. The situation is a bit weird. I like this girl. The girl likes me. But we can't be together.. ANYWAYS... she wants to meet up with me before the summer is over and i agreed. So its just going out for a drink (not beer and stuff) but im not talkative. I have NO clue what to say. Its funny cause we don't have much in common. Please don't say be funny cause im not. *about the girl--%26gt; cute, smart, out going... yeahh...About me--%26gt; smart, average joe look, quiet... 10 Points for best answer in 1.5 days.*10 POINTS * How to talk girl? (special situation!)?
You have a few options to work with here as far as not knowing what to say. I think that if you go with one of these and it works then your nerves will go away and you'll be able to keep talking. Here goes:

1. Make small talk (Weather, Sports, Music, Movies) about stuff you know she likes. When she responds, just follow her lead and carry out the conversation from there.

2. Ask her questions. There is not a girl alive that I know of who doesn't like to talk about herself. Not to mention that when she sees you taking more interest in her she will totally love it. If she asks a question back just answer and if you can't get a conversation out of it try asking her another question.

3. If you and this girl have more memories together than your question suggests then try reminiscing. Bring up fun memories you guys have had together. A lot of guys don't remember things like that or if they do they don't bring it up so she'll like you letting her know that she's included in your memories.

I think a combination of these things would be best to balance everything out and sound less planned. After you've broken the ice it will be easier to just talk to her and enjoy hanging out. Good luck.*10 POINTS * How to talk girl? (special situation!)?
well, i would recommend that you do something very special, like one of those things only you and her would know about. she will know that you're really into her.
ask hows life..

i dont no how old you are, but hows work/uni/college whatever..

tell some jokes, make her laugh,
Talk about the summer! how was it? what did both of you did...etc..

good luck
Talk about the future and what you would both like to do. If you really like each other then talk about the future as a couple and what you want to do with each other.

Hope that helps.
talk about y u dont want to skool to start or y u want it to start
ha.well maybe you shouldnt go for a ';drink' take ter to somewhere fun, whiere you can laugh together and hav a great time,, like to a carnival or something
Just ask her a lot about herself and being funny is the best way to go but you cant try to be funny you just have to talk to her and let everything happen naturally.
Go ahead and talk about current events. You don't have to be funny, if you make an interesting conversation, that should be good enough. Try to get over being quiet/shy because I know personally that helps nothing. Compliment her at times, and look at her eyes when you talk.
Just ask about what she like to do for fun. And how many brothers and sisters does she have. also compliment her on her hair even if she says that she didn't do anything to it tell her it looks nice. And always open the doors for her especially the car door and let her order first.
tell her that you aren't really talkative but you mean well she will most likely start a cool conversation even if you don't say that lol



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ask her how her summer was and what she likes to do for fun. ASk questions with who what where when and why because it requires more talking and the conversation will flow better than saying do you like the show the simpsons and she replies yes. Ask her whats ur favourite tv show and questions like that.
well of course its going to be awkward between you two. she basically asked you out on the date. just ask about her interests. then you talk about yours. and you may end up having stuff in common. ask her about where she wants to travel ; her fave music ; then if its going well say ' we should really do this again sometime ' ( :





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hopefully shes alot more talkative, cause 2 quiet people dont make a great date, if shes quiet your gona have to talk! make sure dont ask random questions either just ask normal stuff like so what ya do this summer, and just some cool stuff. make a joke or two but dont struggle yourself to think of one. the joke will just come to you dont try too hard to be funny. be cool and relax, and just make sure you have enough to pay for the drinks,ya dont wana look cheap~~
Ask her about what she's doing during the year.



Tell her about your plans.



Talk about hobbies, pets, families, friends.



Girls (especially outgoing ones) love to talk about themselves. So it shouldn't be too hard.



At the end, say something sweet, followed by, ';I'll miss you.';
compliment her talk about weird teachers u have i allways have funny stories about teachers ecasionaly rub ur knee on her she will wonder if u did that on perpose or if that was an accident also u should tell her that u were really nervouse cause u think that she is really prett and only say pretty cause hot says that ur a player. then at the end of the night say u had a good time and kiss her call her the next day ask her if she had a good time and if she says yeas then set up another date
Since she's an out going girl she's probably going to talk a lot, so just answer her questions and do you best to contribute to the conversation. If it gets to an awkward silence point then ask her a question about herself like about her career/school or what's her favorite summer movie.
no girl likes a fake, be yourself. it may seem stupid but all we want is an honest and smart guy, if u are sincere and are just acting natural than she will see and like u for who u realy are and not think u strange for acting weird and pretending to be someone else. im a girl i should no lol %26lt;:D if u are both intelligent that should give you enough in common right there.
just talk,

start out with small topics that aren't too deep, like how you guys are feeling about school, movies you guys like, dont like, teachers, etc.

then, if you guys get comfortable with that, just talk... like, it doesnt really matter what you talk about...

make eye contact with her, but not so intense she has to look away...

be polite in little things, like waiting for her outside the restaurant and then opening the door for her, and doing cute stuff...



but dont go overboard.. it will most likely be a turnoff if you're doign every single thing for her.
ok dude lets check it...it seems your best aspect that is that your smart if shes a smart girl talk to her about books and literature not dumb teenage gossip...you dont have to talk just listen to her and add things periodically...she will think your a deep listener and girls dig that and that way your awkward quiet issue wont show and then you can relax and have fun good luck



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She likes you so she knows you are quiet. Girls like to talk so ask her about her. Let her do the talking. Oh yea if she boars you just smile and act like you are listening to her. Ask her things like how does that make you feel. Woman love to talk about there feelings.
just be yourself and open up to her. just talk about anything!
just get to know her, ask her about her life and stuff, you might find you had more in common than you thought
well firstly ask her what shes been doing over the summer,,and then like if she says something like erm, went to a festival,,gig or summit kinda move the conversation onto that and say stuff like did ya have a good time,,who sung what,,what music you into,did ya get any pics.that way the conversation will go on and on.trust me.hope that helps :)
I'm sure you'll get other comments on what to say but don't forget your body language. Read up on it a bit.
1.Be friendly.

2. Try to communicate by any means, making a statement, asking a question.

3.Try to look interetsed.

4. RELAX. Its not the end of the world. Talk like you are talking to your sister.

5. Get to know whats she's intertested in and resaerch it.

6. Know in advance what you will talk about.

7. Keep your eye lids relaxed and sholders down. If you'r eyes are wide, it shows you are nervous.

8.RELAX!! %26lt;- I'm serious about this it is probably the most vital thing to do when meeting new people.

9. Don't drink too much to relax. You'll just look stupid when you'r drunk.

10. Have Fun and take risks, thats whats lifes all about.
Just talk about how your summer went and ask what her future (immediate, not life) plans are. Just picture her as one of your friends and talk to her like that. Nothing serious, just casual. Ask questions, what her likes and dislikes are...blah blah blah and have fun. If she's outgoing, I'm sure she will do most of the talking.
ok soo first start of by asking her about her then she will ask you about you, basic knowledge. ok then complement her about how she looks
well just be yourself and have fun with her she likes u for who u are so u don't have to be funny just bring out watever ur mind tells u hope that helped and god bless
Small talk usually helps to start conversations up.

You could always comment on her hair, clothes, eyes or something, then on about that. (like asking questions)

Or talk about something she has or is at the place you two meet up. (like music or something)

Also think about why you like her, that has to bring up some type of conversation, talk about the things you two have in common. (like how you can't be together, or actual things you two might enjoy doing together, or the things you like, values...anything really)

Im sure she's probably in the same position as you are, worried about not having things to talk about...so take a deep breath relax and just let it flow :)



good luck!! sorry if this was no help to you!
theres always something to talk about.

ask her questions about her and share stories about you.

get to know each other better.

if you already know each other good then try to make casual conversation.

if you go out to eat or to get something to drink ask her stuff like whats her favorite food and drink or something.

ask her about her day and stuff like that.

best advice i can give you witch aint always easy..

be yourself and talk like you would with a friend or something.

and you said dont say be funny but you aint gotta be a comedian to make someone laugh. just make her smile and giggle tell her shes beautiful and stuff like that.

girls like to hear that.

best of luck though hope it goes good.