I don't have problems talking to girls in general, and I don't have problems with getting girls to like me, or going out with girls, or getting laid, either. I mean I'm not like great, but it deff happens on a regular basis lol. Like i dont go more than a month or 2 without getting into another relationship, usually.
(thats just to fill you in on the background)
with that said... this girl's latina, im white. Don't ask me why i go for spanish girls sometimes, cuz people have given me sh*t before about it. Idk, i like white girls and spanish girls. Also, she doesn't ever really talk to ANYbody. Like, ill be walking with friends or sometimes alone after class, and ive noticed that she doesn't ever walk with anybody- she walks alone. She's usually looking bored or sad/frowning, and sometimes she'll sleep thru the history class i have her in. She's attractive to ME, but on the other hand nobody else really thinks she is, at least nobody flirts with her or gives her the look, that ive noticed. She dresses kind of ghetto/spanish/mexican, if that's any help as to her personality or whatever. Just tryin to give all the info.
I only have a couple more questions:
1) what's the chance that since I only see her during and right after that class (we walk the same way), that she DOES have friends, but she simply ONLY likes other hispanic people, and therefore CHOOSES to not talk to anybody else, out of racism? She does sort of appear to not like whites or blacks or ANYbody but spanish... but im not so sure.
2) not to be conceited, but im an athletic goodlooking white guy with friends and money, better than avg. popularity, although im only about 5'7 and shes like 5'3... what are my chances of getting with her?
3) when and where and how should i talk to her? what should i say as an icebreaker?
4) im myself almost always, which is im talkative sometimes and chill/quiet/tired sometimes, and i dress preppy/athletic/surfer and i always speak my mind and i sound cool but still white, as i DO go to a pretty white school... would me being white turn her off? what do i do? LollllHow to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Well sounds like me and my past crush when I was in a all white H. school too. The cute jock never came up to me cuz he didn't have the gutts! Anyhow, maybe you will :).
1. It's not that she's racist. I was like that too. Prolly cuz she's independent (like most latinas grow up to be at such a young age that we don't care what else happens around us)
2.height doesn't matter obviously since you seem to like the ';laid back chick'; part about her. As long as she's shorter then you it works. So good chance there.
3.Just make eye contact, smile, and say hello!! to her with a smirk like you jocks do lol. umm lunch is a great place to start too! so get inline behind her or something and just say some remark about lunch...like that looks yummy or something funny.
4. Just be yourself just like she is herself and try to get to know her and her culture...her language. And I donno about you but I would love for my bf to know how to dance salsa! ;)How to get a quiet girl to talk to me? also a couple more... 10pts best answer, 2pts every answer! =)?
Oh my fricken gosh. You are a pig. Enough said. Get a life and talk to her yourself.
wow. you seem a little full of yourself there. but just say hi if she wants to talk to you she will don't force her to.
I think xlpps said it all. thumbs up for you x
lol
gave up half way through
talk to her and go for it
lol hm dont stress so much. If you force yourself on her then she will be more hesitant, ya know? Ask her some questions about how shes feeling/weekend/hmwk. Give her compliments!~ Dont give complements like sexy or anything...just genereal things...like hair or something thats TRUE. Be a gentalman, hold open doors for her and what not...
I can understand how you get agrivated about people thinking you are full of yourself, but be easy on describing yourself. Also sometimes people just get offened easy, so be careful on your wording. Its not only how you say it, but how you it is recieved...
just approach her tell her you like her.ask her out.(i just hope you dont play her)the height doesnt matter.act as if you are interested in history and ask her history questions.tell her how attractive and beautiful she is and buy her something nice.(listen to her first,see if you can hear what she is in need of or would like.good luck.
1- try to either talk to her or ask other people about her
2- Your chances are very good...unless she is racist...which i don't think so because most of the time people just like to hang out with people like them...
3- in class maybe? when your allowed to talk. what to say is what is interesting at the time...like a project...or something
4- its great ur ur self ^-^ likye i said...people tend to hang out with groups they feel that they fit in...try to kinda be open to her i guess...she could be shy i think...
Just talk to her. get to know her and just get to be her friend first because you dont just want to get into it and than just break up after a couple of weeks so just take it slow and just talk to her like a normal person and also just be her friend because than you will start o grow to be more than just friends. So just take it slow.
Make sure she aint taken...Cause i talk wit alot of latinas Most of them will have a Boyfriend out of school...And Yes itz true most of the time they are looking for a Spanish guy, Its hard to find a Spanish and White person together these days Especially the latinas that Dress ghetto/mexican.Are looking for a Latino guy with the same style
You Do have a chance depending on her expectations...Since most of the Time Latinas will always want to speak spanish to their loved ones since thats there style of showing love.
Start out by Talking with her and Try to become close with her...And shes gonna want to give a guy like you a chance. This gonna take time since you sound like a different type from her
Im shy too! So I think I can help! : )
1. Well she is shy so she probably doesn't feel comfortable talking to people out of her race.
2. I think if you give it a shot. You could actually end up with her. Girls like a guy who is funny, smart, nice, and honest.
3. Maybe before class starts you can talk to her. On purpose ask her what the homework was last night for a different class. Or plain out say you like her.
4. Probably not, just be yourself. Tell her you like her (blank) or tell her you think she is pretty. Girls love to hear that, but only say it if you mean it. Because, girls may think your just trying to go out with them.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!! Don't freak out!!!! : )
OK --- easy easy easy.
If you're so good at talking with girls, then why are you asking for advice on what to say for an icebreaker?
You're just a funny guy aren't you.
I would just let things ride, you're probably good at that.
You should slow down with the girls too, even though that'd probably kill your ego and your sex life. Chill out. You're not going to get a good consistant girlfriend if you bounce around so much.
Playa.
Broooooo, chillax dude...
You need to just go up to her and say ';I like your (fill in the blank).'; No matter how cliche that is.
Heres something that happened to a close friend o mine: He simply went up to some rocker chick with pink hair, said Hey, I like your hair, and he asked what music she listened to, and BAM, convrsation started. Simple as bakin brownies
Talk to her like you arent in love with her lol. Just as you met your friends. You know?
And wtf bro! Who honestly gives two Sh*ts about your race these days...
And REALLY listen to what she says bro. It helps to stare into her eyes... And thats my favorite technique to continuing conversations, a little secret between you and me, and whoeva reads this.
As for what others think, Im in the same position. She is the cutest girl ive EVER seen in my eyes, and shes also a really cool one indeed. But I noticed that everyone has a set taste. If you noticed, there are many similarities between the girls you like.
With that said, GOOD LUCK. I want to know how this turns out! lol
Sunday, December 11, 2011
How do i talk to this girl?
Ok, I'm a junior and I really suck with talking to girls (I freeze up and get really tense when I start talking to a hot girl). I've only actually had one girlfriend mostly because girls never really take the time to get to know me. Well anyways there's this one girl (shes a freshman) that I've wanted to talk to for a while but I just can't bring myself to do it. I don't know when to talk to her and what exactly to say because I only see her once during the day and she's always with her friends which is during P.E. (she has team sports and I have weight training so I only really see her while we take attendance unless my class ends up in the gym like we usually do once a week). When we take attendance she's at the end of her line and I'm at the begging of mine (we have to stand on the wall) so I'm like 10 feet away from her. When we go in the gym she usually sits in the corner with her friends and I usually play basketball or something like that. Also after we come out of the locker rooms and when she walks by me she always whispers something to her friend and giggles, I've also seen her staring at me from time to time. When would be a good time to go over and talk to her and I really got no clue what the hell I'd say. Can someone give me some pointers on what I should do and don't leave some BS answer about ';just go do it'; or something like that because that doesn't help if you haven't noticed. Thanks everyone.How do i talk to this girl?
i used to have the same problem just tell yourself shes one of your guy friends and pretend she is in your head then when you get to know her slowly introduce it to your self and get comfortable with it
i used to have the same problem just tell yourself shes one of your guy friends and pretend she is in your head then when you get to know her slowly introduce it to your self and get comfortable with it
How does a guy talk to a girl?
Asked this already, but just want some more advice.
I'm 23 and can't ever seem to pick up a girl. I've been told that I'm too smart and intimidating. I don't think I come of like that, I mean I'm a smart guy, but not that smart. I've also been told that I stand out even though I don't try and I draw attention, but I don't really want this. So I guess that's all just natural or something. I hang out with girls, but then it's like they don't want to talk to me again. When I go to bars even the slutty girls just kind of ignore me, well they say hi and talk, but there never seems to be any interest. When I do find out a girl was interested it's always later. Things like ';I was really into you when I met you'; or '; So and so had a crush on you and wanted to hang out when she was in town';. My question is how do I talk to girls to keep all of this from happening. I would really like to meet a girl here. I've been told I over talk myself and things like that. Please help.How does a guy talk to a girl?
I see the problem here, it is clear as day. Here's the scoop.... its good that you are talking, conversation skill/technique is the smoking gun to landing any woman, and I do mean ANY woman. So, you are talking, so that is great; however, here is your problem: you talk about the wrong things.
Talking about the wrong things will turn off a woman on so many levels. Ask yourself this.... what do you talk about most of the time? Do you talk about yourself? Your career or your tastes? Do you bother to ASK questions?
One of the keys to melting a woman's panties is to ask ask ask! Display some form of geniune interest in her life; not too much though, she will get turned off. Trust me, it isn't your smarts; women place little to no emphasis on socio-economic status or cultural background. What counts is this....
The 2 main traits in a man that attract women are, in strict order: 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence. The key is to incorporate a sense of humor into your conversational technique... the confidence will take care of itself since it is a product of the convo-humor factor.
Try to keep 95% of the convo about HER, 5% or less about you, VERY important. If you fail to do this, she will interpret it as ';approval talk';, even if you are not trying to impress her... she will think you are insecure and are seeking her approval by talking about your credentials and pros. This will make you severely unattractive, since women are turned off by men who constantly seek approval from others.
Good luck buddy, let me know if you need any help I'd be happy to give you some tips!skin whiteners bleach creams
I'm 23 and can't ever seem to pick up a girl. I've been told that I'm too smart and intimidating. I don't think I come of like that, I mean I'm a smart guy, but not that smart. I've also been told that I stand out even though I don't try and I draw attention, but I don't really want this. So I guess that's all just natural or something. I hang out with girls, but then it's like they don't want to talk to me again. When I go to bars even the slutty girls just kind of ignore me, well they say hi and talk, but there never seems to be any interest. When I do find out a girl was interested it's always later. Things like ';I was really into you when I met you'; or '; So and so had a crush on you and wanted to hang out when she was in town';. My question is how do I talk to girls to keep all of this from happening. I would really like to meet a girl here. I've been told I over talk myself and things like that. Please help.How does a guy talk to a girl?
I see the problem here, it is clear as day. Here's the scoop.... its good that you are talking, conversation skill/technique is the smoking gun to landing any woman, and I do mean ANY woman. So, you are talking, so that is great; however, here is your problem: you talk about the wrong things.
Talking about the wrong things will turn off a woman on so many levels. Ask yourself this.... what do you talk about most of the time? Do you talk about yourself? Your career or your tastes? Do you bother to ASK questions?
One of the keys to melting a woman's panties is to ask ask ask! Display some form of geniune interest in her life; not too much though, she will get turned off. Trust me, it isn't your smarts; women place little to no emphasis on socio-economic status or cultural background. What counts is this....
The 2 main traits in a man that attract women are, in strict order: 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence. The key is to incorporate a sense of humor into your conversational technique... the confidence will take care of itself since it is a product of the convo-humor factor.
Try to keep 95% of the convo about HER, 5% or less about you, VERY important. If you fail to do this, she will interpret it as ';approval talk';, even if you are not trying to impress her... she will think you are insecure and are seeking her approval by talking about your credentials and pros. This will make you severely unattractive, since women are turned off by men who constantly seek approval from others.
Good luck buddy, let me know if you need any help I'd be happy to give you some tips!
How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
For the past couple of weeks I've noticed a girl looking at me at the bus stop. I didn't think anything of it. But I found it weird when she kept doing it. Recently I was standing outside the little shelter at the bus stop. The girl stood in between me and the shelter. That was odd because there wasn't a lot of room between me and the shelter. Then several minutes later, she sits on the floor right behind me. Another day, as everyone was getting off the bus, I saw her get out. I kept my eyes on her. Then I saw her looking at me or at my direction at a distance. I think this would be a great opportunity to give it a shot and see if she's interested (I'm always wrong at reading girl's body language). I believe she's younger than me and we both attend the same college (same bus stop as well).
I only have a few weeks of school left and you know what, with the right plan, I'll give it my all. I'm tired of not trying just because I'm going to be rejected. I need to take risks and learn from it. The only problem is that I find it hard to approach people. It takes me a while to get comfortable talking to them. Honestly I'm not much of a talker but if there's good chemistry with the right person, I'll do fine. I need some suggestions. I don't want to approach her and end up making it an awkward moment if I don't talk much or whatever. I hate those silent awkward moments and want to avoid that. When would it be a good time to ask for her number? I'm not very good at asking girls for their numbers and end up not getting it. Thanks in advance. Any advice would be really helpful. I only have a few weeks of school and went to give it everything I have and more.
I just hope she was looking at me and perhaps likes me. Why else would she keep looking at me right? I just dont consider myself attractive especially since I have some facial piercings and a fw tattoos which may be a turn off for some girls. Plus I look a little bit older for my age despite only being 20. I'd like to get to know her and see where this goes. I never had a girlfriend and rarely talk to girls. My goal is to take her out somewhere and get her number.How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
Ehh, I'm in the same boat as you, as far as never having a date. I would suggest you just say hi and introduce yourself to her. Try to hang out with her, make her laugh. If you can't make her laugh, most girls have no problem with that. Don't rush or pressure yourself into getting her number or becoming her bf so quickly... wait until your comfortable enough than make your move, but don't take too long, either. Good luck! You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders man ;PHow can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
I'm with the others here: go for it! Because, really, what's there to lose? By the way, there are plenty of women who find piercings and tattoos attractive. I'm one of them. :D
Anyway, good luck!
Bring up something that the two of you have in common (which you already stated: you both attend the same college). Ask her what classes she has, how they're going, if she needs any help, etc. By doing this it won't seem creepy or anything because you're showing a genuine interest in her. From there on, the conversation should start flowing. I don't know what it'll be about but don't think too hard about what to say or else she'll notice.
When you get to know her a little better, ask her for her contact number before you have to leave. Just a simple, ';it's time for me to go now. Do you mind if I can get your number? I really enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to keep in touch if you don't mind.'; and then you can set up another date with her.
Blunt answer. . .
Dude, they are women. There are billions of them. If you think she's interested and she might be, go for her. Stand up, buff out your chest, and get in the game. Seize the moment or let it pass you by. Go up to her and say Hi. Ask her how she's doing, find out the basics, and feel how things are. If she's going for it, ask her number. OR you could ask if she has facebook or something. You aren't going to hit a baseball without a bat sitting in the stands. You have to step up to the plate and swing. Remember, life doesn't end from one woman/girl. If you strike out, hold your head up high and go on. There is always another around the corner. Good luck.
I only have a few weeks of school left and you know what, with the right plan, I'll give it my all. I'm tired of not trying just because I'm going to be rejected. I need to take risks and learn from it. The only problem is that I find it hard to approach people. It takes me a while to get comfortable talking to them. Honestly I'm not much of a talker but if there's good chemistry with the right person, I'll do fine. I need some suggestions. I don't want to approach her and end up making it an awkward moment if I don't talk much or whatever. I hate those silent awkward moments and want to avoid that. When would it be a good time to ask for her number? I'm not very good at asking girls for their numbers and end up not getting it. Thanks in advance. Any advice would be really helpful. I only have a few weeks of school and went to give it everything I have and more.
I just hope she was looking at me and perhaps likes me. Why else would she keep looking at me right? I just dont consider myself attractive especially since I have some facial piercings and a fw tattoos which may be a turn off for some girls. Plus I look a little bit older for my age despite only being 20. I'd like to get to know her and see where this goes. I never had a girlfriend and rarely talk to girls. My goal is to take her out somewhere and get her number.How can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
Ehh, I'm in the same boat as you, as far as never having a date. I would suggest you just say hi and introduce yourself to her. Try to hang out with her, make her laugh. If you can't make her laugh, most girls have no problem with that. Don't rush or pressure yourself into getting her number or becoming her bf so quickly... wait until your comfortable enough than make your move, but don't take too long, either. Good luck! You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders man ;PHow can I talk to this girl? She keeps looking at me. Any advice? I have no experience with women.?
I'm with the others here: go for it! Because, really, what's there to lose? By the way, there are plenty of women who find piercings and tattoos attractive. I'm one of them. :D
Anyway, good luck!
Bring up something that the two of you have in common (which you already stated: you both attend the same college). Ask her what classes she has, how they're going, if she needs any help, etc. By doing this it won't seem creepy or anything because you're showing a genuine interest in her. From there on, the conversation should start flowing. I don't know what it'll be about but don't think too hard about what to say or else she'll notice.
When you get to know her a little better, ask her for her contact number before you have to leave. Just a simple, ';it's time for me to go now. Do you mind if I can get your number? I really enjoyed our conversation and I'd like to keep in touch if you don't mind.'; and then you can set up another date with her.
Blunt answer. . .
Dude, they are women. There are billions of them. If you think she's interested and she might be, go for her. Stand up, buff out your chest, and get in the game. Seize the moment or let it pass you by. Go up to her and say Hi. Ask her how she's doing, find out the basics, and feel how things are. If she's going for it, ask her number. OR you could ask if she has facebook or something. You aren't going to hit a baseball without a bat sitting in the stands. You have to step up to the plate and swing. Remember, life doesn't end from one woman/girl. If you strike out, hold your head up high and go on. There is always another around the corner. Good luck.
How to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
She is the biggest girly girl u will ever meet, and she got mistakenly put into my power tech class. She is in the grade younger than me, and she doesnt talk. Wen i try to talk to her, she doesnt hold a convo, and makes it obvious thats shes reserved. A lot of guys like her, but she doesnt pay attention to them, she basically gets told that she soo amazing, and she brushes it off like okay, nice to know now bye. How do i get with her, this was my convo with her:
me: hey, im chace
her:im crystal
me: u want to work with me to fix this (we were in auto tech)
her: thanks, but i think im good
me: alright, another time then
her: yea maybe
end. its annoyin cuz i usually dont have issues with girls
how do i talk to her? if u hit on her she gives u a dirty look, u talk to her normally she shuts you down instantly. And the girls dont like her cuz the guys like her and cuz they think shes too stuck up cuz of wut she wears, so its not like i can get involved with her group of friends cuz she keeps to herself.
her grades are perfect, dads a lawyer, moms a doctor, brothers in nyu, she is basically known for bein too good for anyoneHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
just forget her, shes obviously not interested in youHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
find out what she likes and dont give up
me: hey, im chace
her:im crystal
me: u want to work with me to fix this (we were in auto tech)
her: thanks, but i think im good
me: alright, another time then
her: yea maybe
end. its annoyin cuz i usually dont have issues with girls
how do i talk to her? if u hit on her she gives u a dirty look, u talk to her normally she shuts you down instantly. And the girls dont like her cuz the guys like her and cuz they think shes too stuck up cuz of wut she wears, so its not like i can get involved with her group of friends cuz she keeps to herself.
her grades are perfect, dads a lawyer, moms a doctor, brothers in nyu, she is basically known for bein too good for anyoneHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
just forget her, shes obviously not interested in youHow to talk to girl who doesnt talk?
find out what she likes and dont give up
How to talk to a girl without coming onto her?
Any pointers? I have a little trouble since I'm usually going the extra mile. Only have a couple inside jokes with her. She has a boyfriend, so I don't want to be a dick and come on to her, even though I like her. We hooked up, not publicly, but then she was wit her ex publicly and i got pissed. How do i talk to her and avoid awkward moments from the past. Dunno if she likes me cause haven't talked in a while.How to talk to a girl without coming onto her?
keep it friendly......
keep it friendly......
How do you flirt with a girl?
Ok so I want to talk this girl I already talk to her but very little.I am 15 and in 10th grade.I don't what to talk about with her when going up to her.But how do I flirt with girls.How do you flirt with a girl?
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
I've been accused of flirting...but I don't know why. I'm not even trying.
Girls have told me it's because I say Intelligent and silly things mixed together, which makes them laugh. When I ask a question, it is never obscene, and I am really interested in their answer. From that they know I'm sincere, and it puts them at ease. There is still something to be said for being a gentleman.
I don't know if this is flirting, but girls like talking to me. Give it a try.
Oh, be yourself, a girl can spot a lier 100 yards away. So it makes no sense to lie, because then you'll be a lier AND a fake.How do you flirt with a girl?
Don't worry about flirting. Just be yourself. Flirting comes naturally when you are with someone you like. Any line someone gives you to use is going to come out sounding just like that, a line.
So start out with a hello. How are you? What class do you have next hour? Etc. Just let the words flow. Good luck.
pickup lines. It'll take one jump of courage and then the rest is a smooth sail. my all time favorite is ';how much does a polar bear weight?';...'; enough to break the ice'; i'm not kidding, at ALL, this line works. It's how i met my boyfriend (: and he's a shy boy too. It started as a joke and ended as a relationship. have fun with it. Make her smile and you uped your chances by 800.
just talk to her how you would anyone else but gradually drop hints that let her know you think shes cute and that you like her and chill out youll be okayy...ps girls love it when you call them babe and baby hah
just be yourself, and don't be afraid of awkward moments, cause as soon as you treat it as awkward it will be
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